MSE Parents Club Part 10

sparkle03

Dont smack me but ....... Does that woman seem like she is in that much pain??? (on c4 I mean)

csh_2

Can you hear the screaming? That was me lol I bet I scared the other ladies!

money_maker_3

They wouldnt pay for the cost of flights or accomodation for anyone to come with me. We used to be offered a creche facility, but this has been cut. And to be honest, I couldnt leave Jas behind and just take Dylan, I really dont think that would be fair, and I cant take her out of school

elle_gee

Reason for me saying it is I couldn't handle the stress of a panicked "this baby must come out now" situation again. I don't know if I can handle pregnancy again yet (the thought that there was something undetected going on), never mind the pressure of a birth where if they say "now" they mean I'm the one that has to do it. Does that make me really lazy? :cool: It's not that I don't want to do the hard work, it's that I can't handle doing it under pressure knowing what happened when they didn't get Rhys out quick enough when it was the pros doing it. Make any sense?

Why is the blonde one being monitored? Sorry, entertaining a grumpy Rhys too.

feelinggood_2

elle_gee wrote: »

Reason for me saying it is I couldn't handle the stress of a panicked "this baby must come out now" situation again. I don't know if I can handle pregnancy again yet (the thought that there was something undetected going on), never mind the pressure of a birth where if they say "now" they mean I'm the one that has to do it. Does that make me really lazy? :cool: It's not that I don't want to do the hard work, it's that I can't handle doing it under pressure knowing that they didn't get Rhys out quick enough when it was the pros doing it. Make any sense?

Why is the blonde one being monitored? Sorry, entertaining a grumpy Rhys too.

I hope my saying I wanted an unassisted birth was out of place?

It makes sense why you want a planned c-section. I want to avoid the panic, stress, threats (push now or I'll cut you) and things, so I'd love a relaxed, unmedicated birth. I read a lot about the cascade of intervention, and I suppose I still feel like it was because of me that it all spiralled. Not sure they'd have been happy had I refused the induction though.

That is interesting - what would have happened had I refused the induction? (I had pre-eclampsia).

MadDogWoman_2

I think she's been induced and baby is in distress - a similar situation to me except some of my waters had gone and they were trying to speed me up.

Krystaltips

Feely, when it's pre-eclampsia, if the baby doesn't come out sharpish it can develop into full blown eclampsia which is dangerous for Mum and baby...

BeenieCat

sparkle03 wrote: »

Dont smack me but ....... Does that woman seem like she is in that much pain??? (on c4 I mean)

I was just thinking that.

searching_me wrote: »

im so glad i did a home birth if we have another im definately having another one x

Me too!! And to think i didn't even want one til the last minute.

csh_2

feelinggood wrote: »

I hope my saying I wanted an unassisted birth was out of place?

It makes sense why you want a planned c-section. I want to avoid the panic, stress, threats (push now or I'll cut you) and things, so I'd love a relaxed, unmedicated birth. I read a lot about the cascade of intervention, and I suppose I still feel like it was because of me that it all spiralled. Not sure they'd have been happy had I refused the induction though.

That is interesting - what would have happened had I refused the induction? (I had pre-eclampsia).

You need to be careful with Freebirthing feelie as you can be prosecuted if anything goes wrong.

Not meaning to scare but If I had refused induction with Pre-eclampsia that ended up as Eclampsia then both I and baby would have died.

Both my babies were born in a 'they must come now' way

elle_gee

feelinggood wrote: »

I hope my saying I wanted an unassisted birth was out of place?

It makes sense why you want a planned c-section. I want to avoid the panic, stress, threats (push now or I'll cut you) and things, so I'd love a relaxed, unmedicated birth. I read a lot about the cascade of intervention, and I suppose I still feel like it was because of me that it all spiralled. Not sure they'd have been happy had I refused the induction though.

That is interesting - what would have happened had I refused the induction? (I had pre-eclampsia).

Of course not hunnie! :grouphug: I only freak at that idea cos that means no pain relief and I'm no good at pain!

Is "cascade of intervention" a medical phrase? My midwife-in-training friend used that phrase the other day too