MSE Parents Club Part 10

Glamazon

tiamai_d wrote: »

ah well, off to bed.

lappy fixed yet??

:T for sitting up & GET OFF EBAY MISSUS!!!!!! :rotfl:

My_Fathers_Daughter

elle_gee wrote: »

Me too! I'm afraid of porridge coming out of his ears!


OH and I have been drinking.. I just asked him, having never thought to ask before(!), how many children he wants. His answer? "12" :eek: HA! His more sensible answer is 3... hmmm :cool:

:rotfl::rotfl:

Now this is why I won't ask DH about more children!! Benjamin is his 4th and it was hard work getting him to agree to one. There was a point in our marriage where he told me that he didn't want any more kids and we pretty much hit rock bottom for a while. I don't want to go there again if he says no to any more

Although, chatting with the girls today, part of me can't imagine life with another one...but part of me can't imagine not having another one.

Am I the only one who is undecided?

searching_me

anyone fancy a cuppa? .. i just popped the kettle on x

Glamazon

busy day MDW - I thought I was good doing ASDA at 9am!

searching_me

MFD no you're not .. i could see myself have another but i could quite happily have the 2 and not be bothered .. philip wants at least 4 and i just dont want that many .. i dont wanna be in my late 40s still popping them out IYKWIM .. its an on going talk with philip but i know im on the depo for at least 2-3 years x

Sami_Bee

Elle to quote a very cool song, 3 it's a magic number, no more no less
I WILL get my 3rd baby mwahahaha (OH says if I suddenly get more 'interested' in him in about a year he's running off for the snip :rotfl:)

:shhh: I've got a sniper set on a parent facing buggy, saying no more to avoid informing the competition :cool:

Glamazon

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:

Now this is why I won't ask DH about more children!! Benjamin is his 4th and it was hard work getting him to agree to one. There was a point in our marriage where he told me that he didn't want any more kids and we pretty much hit rock bottom for a while. I don't want to go there again if he says no to any more

Although, chatting with the girls today, part of me can't imagine life with another one...but part of me can't imagine not having another one.

Am I the only one who is undecided?

We will definitely have one more - ideally we would like 3 but if we had the money so that I could give up work we would probably have more. I've got a large family so can't imagine just have J.
Pregnancy & labour was fairly easy first time round but who knows what will happen 2nd time?! I might decide I definitely don't want a 3rd!

MadDogWoman_2

MFD - I'd love another one but with my history I've had to accept that may not happen.

SM - I'll have one.

Be back in a minute just got to go and make an all-in-one chocolate cake for morning.

Glamazon

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Elle to quote a very cool song, 3 it's a magic number, no more no less
I WILL get my 3rd baby mwahahaha (OH says if I suddenly get more 'interested' in him in about a year he's running off for the snip :rotfl:)

:shhh: I've got a sniper set on a parent facing buggy, saying no more to avoid informing the competition :cool:

I say a buggy with twins in today - one was facing Dad the other was facing outwards. Not sure which one it was though cos I was driving and the writing was too small down the side for me to see!

You'll have to build it up over a period of time so he doesn't notice the 'extra' interest! :rotfl:

ManOnTheMoon

Subject of more kids - Yes, because it would be wrong of me to deny Lucy, just because I already have a few. Not yet, too early in the relationship, unless an unforseen incident happens. Finances not an issue and a stable home points to yes, but too early in relationship, but who knows when we will decide to 'go for it'.