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Trying for a Baby part 5....

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  • sexki11en
    sexki11en Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    fantafan wrote: »
    Slapped wrists I know :Abut I think I already think I'm not and would be due on any second now. TMI but there's tinges of red when I wipe.


    Honey, if you're only 6DPO and due on, you need to start thinking about lengthening you Luteal Phase. You have no chance of implantation with a Luteal Phase that length, implantation doesn't occur before 7-10 DPO. Your luteal phase should be at least 10 days, ideally over 12 in order for a fertilized egg to be able to implant.

    Vitamin B6 should help lengthen your luteal phase. Vitamin B6 is perfectly safe and can be taken daily in dosages from 50 mg to 200 mg to lengthen luteal.

    What are your cycle lengths honey? What day do you normally OV on and what day is AF usually due on?

    SK x
    After 4 years of heartache, 3 rounds of IVF and 1 loss :A - we are finally expecting our miracle Ki11en - May 2014 :j

    And a VERY surprise miracle in March 2017!
  • sexki11en
    sexki11en Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    Evansangel wrote: »
    Thanks! :D

    Just on quickly whilst baby is being fed. Then we are off to decorate the venue. I am now Mrs Valentine! :j

    Quick cheeky photo :p This is one of the 'unofficial' ones :D

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    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Bloody hell woman, get back to your wedding!!!!!!!!

    But before you do, congratulations, you look beautiful and what a fantastic surname!

    SK x
    After 4 years of heartache, 3 rounds of IVF and 1 loss :A - we are finally expecting our miracle Ki11en - May 2014 :j

    And a VERY surprise miracle in March 2017!
  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
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    congratulations on your wedding you look beautiful, enjoy your day.
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    :j:j:jCongratulations Mr & Mrs Valentine and baby!:j:j:j
  • sexki11en
    sexki11en Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    I've just looked up, late ovulation could lead to miscarriage. My mc baby was conceived around CD36.

    That's great that you've just found a reason. Your appointments been booked how long?
    QQuaver wrote: »
    I really need to see the fertility specialist!:j
    I'm really struggling to see why exactly you're jumping around at this?
    QQuaver wrote: »
    One thing a person who mc'd fears most is another mc;)
    And that is just effing insensitive! You really need to watch how you use your smilies. Saying something like that and winking doesn't make it OK. I know I don't know how you feel. We all know I don't know how you feel about that. I haven't had one because despite going through 12 cycles of sheer hell - I can't get Pregnant

    Yes, you're having problems, yes, I understand you miscarried and it's an awful, awful thing and you may have some problems with your cycle But seeing a fertility specialist? How about a chat with a general doctor to see if theres a problem first? So I now understand that it's a private appointment and not a wasted NHS one - thank goodness for that. Although I suspect had you been in the UK, you may have got an NHS one anyway.

    And posting on the 12+ months thread with the ladies there and all their problems is also just plain insensitive. It hasn't been 12 months for you despite you telling them it has and going in there pretending you're in the same boat as them....... you're not and hopefully you never will be. I've stayed away from that thread out of respect for the same reason. I got a BFN today on cycle 12 and I still won't go in there till AF shows her ugly head. I really would have thought with being older, you may have shown some sensitivity towards others feelings. Clearly I was wrong.

    SK x
    After 4 years of heartache, 3 rounds of IVF and 1 loss :A - we are finally expecting our miracle Ki11en - May 2014 :j

    And a VERY surprise miracle in March 2017!
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    sexki11en wrote: »
    That's great that you've just found a reason. Your appointments been booked how long?
    3 weeks. People my age shouldn't wait 12 months, I should go to the docs sooner, so NHS says.
    I'm really struggling to see why exactly you're jumping around at this?
    So at least I can move in the right direction?
    And that is just effing insensitive! You really need to watch how you use your smilies.
    Sorry about the use of inappropriate smilies.
    I haven't had one because despite going through 12 cycles of sheer hell
    I'm glad you haven't had mc, I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
    How about a chat with a general doctor to see if theres a problem first?
    I had tests done years ago, for irregular periods (paid privately).
    I had blood tests and scan. They didn't find anything. They just said I was irregular and that was it. I wasn't ttc then though.
    And posting on the 12+ months thread with the ladies there and all their problems is also just plain insensitive.
    I did tell them how long I've been ttc. They are very knowledgeable about fertility treatments.
    I really would have thought with being older, you may have shown some sensitivity towards others feelings. Clearly I was wrong.
    Age just makes one more desperate re ticking clock.
  • madbird_2
    madbird_2 Posts: 703 Forumite
    edited 5 June 2010 at 3:36PM
    Love the dress Evansangel, congratulations again.

    Well still no AF, I'll wait til Monday and test then, I feel grotty and headache as usually do.

    Hi Chickpea and welcome!

    x
    :heart2:Baby boy madbird arrived 15/06/11 by emergency csection weighing 9lb 13oz:eek: love him so much xx:heart2:
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Afternoon lovelys
    I shall read back in a bit :)
    Loving the Black shirt and white converse look on your hubby EA :) gorgeous baby :)

    Had a lovely break with the oh this last week :) were still not trying but have renamed it to - leaving it to fate :) which just sounds nice :)
    (dont think it was a baby making break anyway but im still not sure on ovulation times and stuff really??? does there always have to be a 2ww??)

    any bfps in the last 2 weeks or so that Ive missed?xxx
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    madbird wrote: »
    Well still no AF, I'll wait til Monday and test then, I feel grotty and headache as usually do.
    Fingers crossed:)
    phunkles wrote: »
    leaving it to fate :) which just sounds nice :)
    Love it:happyhear
    any bfps in the last 2 weeks or so that Ive missed?xxx
    Lillian, Gizmodo, Chakani, Oxoclaire comes to mind. 2 weeks? That's a hard one:p
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    EA, I love the heart shaped gate too:heartpuls
    You both look so happy:)
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