Trying for a Baby part 5....

QQuaver

sexki11en, fingers crossed, it ain't over 'till AF shows!:beer:
So what do they ask at fertility clinic?
My appointment is next Wednesday.

I've printed out the charts from August last year (after mc).
I've been ttc since June 09, so 1 year (they won't count mc would they?).

Also, my chart has all the BD dates on it, but if he looks closely, he may notice we only had 1 perfectly timed BD.

Do you think I should doctor out the BD dates?

SBDTAxxx

sexki11en

QQuaver wrote: »

sexki11en, fingers crossed, it ain't over 'till AF shows!:beer:
So what do they ask at fertility clinic?
My appointment is next Wednesday.

I've printed out the charts from August last year (after mc).
I've been ttc since June 09, so 1 year (they won't count mc would they?).

Also, my chart has all the BD dates on it, but if he looks closely, he may notice we only had 1 perfectly timed BD.

Do you think I should doctor out the BD dates?

SBDTAxxx

I haven't been to the fertility clinic yet, only the GP so I can't answer what they'll ask i'm afraid.

Do you want my honest opinion on your other question? Really? This is gonna sound harsh but I wouldn't doctor anything out. If you don't give them a true picture of what's happening then they can't help you. To be fair, I wouldn't be surprised if they refused to help. I mean, you've only really been trying since December 09 and with only one perfectly timed BD behind you, you really can't believe theres anything wrong? I'm not really sure why you're seeking specialist help, unless theres something else i'm not aware of?

I'm sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear, but theres a lot on here wish they only had one perfectly timed BD behind them to worry about.

SK x

fantafan

Happy Wedding Day Miss Evansangel :j

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QQuaver

sexki11en, the problem is our age, and the fact that I have very irregular and extremely long cycles (ov is few and far between).

It is impossible to predict ov, thus missing it.
Also the fact that I ov'd late usually means the egg is of poor quality, which in turn would most likely lead to miscarriage.

I need to get tested for PCOS or something like that.

fantafan

[/QUOTE]Was thinking of you yesterday:)
Let's all get cute babies soon:beer:
Fantafan, it's you first two week wait:j
Hope you get the sticky bean:)[/QUOTE]

BFN this morning...I know everyone normally gets a 2ww but mine have been shorter. Never mind, I was expecting it and didn't waste a CB digi test just and IC. Should OV on my holiday so focusing on having a great time then. It may be too early but hey ho. I don't feel pg and I'm sure I'm getting to know my body so well I would know. The only aches and pains and twinges I get are from my injuries last night snowboarding and the early signs she's darkening my door. Life goes on :T Sorry for yours SK .... BFN twinnes this month. Hope we're a club of 2 but think we will have more members (unfortunately) on board. Hope not, hope everyone gets BFPs all month and we have to all move on then the new thread we join will be full of .....us! Never really done this forum thing before.

I've shut the CBFM machine up with a stick from last month at peak time. Cheeky !!!!!! of a thing recorded a low so it is a bloody scam...hope they read this! Be aware of your cycle CBFM gals, don't be fooled by the demands of the ker-ching machine. Keep a stock of spent ones for such instances. I mean, it's CD27 for me. No sodding chance of OV.

Decisions of what to do today are haunting me. The weekend is mine, all mine as he's on a track day and won't be back til tomorrow. I've had so little sleep. Fell asleep at 1/45am, had a vibe on the phone from a test from bff at 5.26...she got one back....one that said I'm not amused or words to that effect and 8.20am the anxiety monster kicked in to test. Fat waste of time that was. Is it me or the 5 mins it says to wait you can pretty much tell straight away?

Anyway, waffling to much so enjoy the sun ladies...I'm sure the vitamin D from it makes us more fertile...tell your other halves that anyway!

QQuaver

Fantafan, did you ov on CD21? You are only 6DPO!
Stop testing

gizmodo_2

:j Happy Wedding Day, Evansangel :j

Fanta - sorry about the BFN ((hugs)) Try and hold off the testing until past your due date though.

BigSister2008

Hope your day goes well Evansangel and we will see you here as MRS tomorrow

Hope everyone has a lovely relaxed weekend, SBDTA

QQuaver

I've just looked up, late ovulation could lead to miscarriage. My mc baby was conceived around CD36.
I really need to see the fertility specialist!:j

One thing a person who mc'd fears most is another mc;)

gratefulforhelp_2

natsing wrote: »

I collect my 4 or 5am urine sample (as I'm always up in the night) and I use that after I get up properly as I think the later urine may not be as concntrated, but not sure if thats a bad idea leaving it a couple of hours- anyone any experience?

If you drink nothing at 4 or 5 am then the later urine should be more concentrated not less.

Penny35 wrote: »

I am still finding it tough from MC in Jan.

Hugs for the M/C. I am still getting over mine too.

sexki11en wrote: »

Tested and got a BFN.

Bad luck, but good PMA.

fanta naughty! Hugs, but thats too early.

EA hope you had a blessed day.