The February 2010 BR club..

dojoman

welshpony78 wrote: »

I see what you say about it being public info - but its on a register, I don't know about you but I haven't gone through looking up everyone I know!! It's for banks to check out etc. The OR should have been more discreet in his conversation that's all I'm saying - I am still very cross!!

Totally agree with you, I would be bloody annoyed as well, I would give them a ring and complain about it.

stockportlass

hi..I'm new on here today..my bankruptcy hearing is at 11:30 this morning..my heart is in my mouth and my nerves have packed their bags and done one..my kids are off to school and I'm sat here..feeling sick with worry..I am absolutely terrified..I feel so alone in all this..not sure what to expect...just wish it was this time next year..:-(

philnicandamy

Good luck SPL it's not half as bad as your imagining it will be....honestly!

look forward to seeing how things went later

vickitoria

Good Luck to all for this month.

My OH went br earlier this month, he had his interview by phone last week and it only lasted 28 minutes, not sure if thats a good thing or not.

Please don't be worried SPL, it won't be anywhere near as bad as you think and you will be able to breathe afterwards ifkwim x

dojoman

stockportlass wrote: »

hi..I'm new on here today..my bankruptcy hearing is at 11:30 this morning..my heart is in my mouth and my nerves have packed their bags and done one..my kids are off to school and I'm sat here..feeling sick with worry..I am absolutely terrified..I feel so alone in all this..not sure what to expect...just wish it was this time next year..:-(

Hopefully everything should be done and dusted by now or at least very nearly, hope everything went ok for you!

onward

welshpony78 wrote: »

I guess I really don't see it as being a lie - it's simply not telling them MY business, I am in my 30ies and haven't had any cash from them since I was at Uni - some 15years ago.... It really is nothing to do with them, they live miles away and worry enough as it is (about the silliest of things).

I see what you say about it being public info - but its on a register, I don't know about you but I haven't gone through looking up everyone I know!! It's for banks to check out etc. The OR should have been more discreet in his conversation that's all I'm saying - I am still very cross!!

Welshpony, I totally understand your point of view on this (it was a careless choice of words on my behalf, sorry).

As I mentioned before, I do find it strange that the OR would discuss it with other people though.

stockportlass

philnicandamy wrote: »

Good luck SPL it's not half as bad as your imagining it will be....honestly!

look forward to seeing how things went later

In the last 2 years I've lost my mum, my house and my car and as of 11:41am today I am officially bankrupt..(ok I admit it wasn't anywhere near as terrifying an ordeal as I was imagining)..the thing I'm worrying about now is the interview with the OR..I was told that I will receive a pack through the post within 7-10 days which has forms to sign and return etc along with 'THE DATE' for my interview...

Someone please tell me that I am going to come out the other side of this nightmare in one piece.

welshpony78

Onward - thanks for that - I called the guy up today and spoke to him about it - he sounded really sorry about his poor judgement - I didn't go mad with him or anything just simply explained the situation he had put me in. He agreed to change the time of the interview (in case my Mum decides to call!!) so wish me luck for it.....

Stockportlass - I really hope things will get better for you from now on, I certainly feel much better for it, interview still to go, but seriously how bad can that be to compare with the phone ringing all the time and teh endless letters for payment?!! Good luck with it all and keep us posted.

philnicandamy

stockportlass wrote: »

In the last 2 years I've lost my mum, my house and my car and as of 11:41am today I am officially bankrupt..(ok I admit it wasn't anywhere near as terrifying an ordeal as I was imagining)..the thing I'm worrying about now is the interview with the OR..I was told that I will receive a pack through the post within 7-10 days which has forms to sign and return etc along with 'THE DATE' for my interview...

Someone please tell me that I am going to come out the other side of this nightmare in one piece.

I know it seems like nothing's great...BUT you definatley will come out of this in one piece and you'll be a different better person for it as well....BEST thing I ever did nearly 3yrs ago

dav_blackpool

Hi StockportLass,

Just thought I'd say hi, welcome to the MSE world. Hope your day went ok, and you had fun telling everyone x