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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    well my house is in an up roar my son has told me he never wants to speak to me again and stormed out the room slamming the door(first time home in three weeks as well) and hubby has been shouting ....i tell you tell some people facts and they just cant handle them
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    oh El, I don't know what to say, other than you can only let them do what they will do!

    hopefully things will calm down again soon, andI know you have done the right thing throughout, so will continue to do so.

    Have a choccy biccie to go with that coffee.........

    oops no, sorry, have eaten them :o
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    it's ok ive hit the wine lol...son has left the house in disgust not talking to me but reiterating to hubby he is finished with me for life loud enough so that i can hear ...i nearly laughed out loud at this point ...i'm so p!ssed of with a stroppy teenager trying to think he can rule our house ...honestly i could go on and on and scream and scream but will sit and drink wine instead ....going to hospital tomorrow hope they dont want blood tests lol
  • aww poor you elan. I have just read a couple pages. Arent teenagers gits? Mine is still quite a young teen but I have seem my friends going through similar situations as you are doing and so far things have worked out eventually so :grouphug: and good luck xx
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Good idea.....may join you when I have been to the supermarket.....might make the essay flow a bit easier!





    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    you know it always did help my essay writting hypno lol


    thanks for the support millionaire in training i'm sure it will be something we'll work through but till then i think i'm either gonna be an alcoholic or loose all my hair lol....honestly i am getting to the stage i dont like my son
  • Hey we all get those feelings at some point . Dont stress it ( keep to a bottle tho :rotfl: )
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    will try to most deffinately im already onto a taxi tomorrow cant afford a taxi and a hangover lol
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Aww El, I'm so sorry it didn't go well, (((hugs))) to you, you have tried your hardest and as a parent that's all you can do. xxx
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    yeah it is snaggs i know if it was a friend phoning me i would be saying this to them but somehow when it's you and your kid it always seems worse doesnt it ....oh well another day another problem no doubt lol....i'm at work just now (2nd job) and using the p.c i feel so guilty but i think it's keeping me sane
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