depression

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Nothing I can really say to help, but I do hope things work out. Just take things slow and try not to worry about it - easier said than done I know.
xxx

Thanks.

The same for you. I can't really say anything to you to make things better either, but let you know, I and the rest of us are reading and listening.

Here's me wanting someone to care for me, and you have someone that is meant too, and he drinks and tells you he would appreciate you not telling him when he's low

Hope you feel better soon and that he realises the error of his ways!

Miroslav

regularsaver1 wrote:

I know how some of you feel. I feel so stressed and down that I'm not sure what to do.
People tell me i shouldn't worry and care about things so much, but I can't seem to change that.

You've come to the right place. Some good things mentioned here.

Don't listen to those who say you shouldn't worry or care so much, it's who you are and you shouldn't change unless it's what you want and/or until you feel ready too

regularsaver1

I worry loads at work - but then my boss who tried say i shouldn't care too much. But at the same time is always on about targets grrrr!

my boyfriend is very supportive, but thinks its my confidence.

I have asked for a few days off, but I know that when i do - I think about things i need to do that I have not.

Horasio

I feel really upset. I have posted on another forum and three members are ganging up on me by thinking their comments are clever but in reality are nasty harsh put downs.

It isn't the first time I have encountered ignorant people and it really upsets me and it doesn't help me at all!

Horasio

regularsaver1 wrote:

I worry loads at work - but then my boss who tried say i shouldn't care too much. But at the same time is always on about targets grrrr!

my boyfriend is very supportive, but thinks its my confidence.

I have asked for a few days off, but I know that when i do - I think about things i need to do that I have not.

You can only do the best that you can. I am sure you are very capable

regularsaver1

CC Star - you can block then and report them

Hugs

regularsaver1

CCStar wrote:

You can only do the best that you can. I am sure you are very capable

Thank you. I agree, but it seems it is never enough. I was top of league table last quarter, it has just started all again. I could get 200% of target never enough.

But the thing is I can't seem to switch off when I get home.

I think my boyfriend is worried about me but he doesn't understand my job at the same time.

Horasio

regularsaver1 wrote:

CC Star - you can block then and report them

Hugs

It isn't this forum but I have put them on ignore. I have told them their comments equate them to asking someone with a broken leg to run a marathon, the insensitive morons. They will probably report me for saying that (not the moron bit)

Miroslav

regularsaver1 wrote:

I worry loads at work - but then my boss who tried say i shouldn't care too much. But at the same time is always on about targets grrrr!

my boyfriend is very supportive, but thinks its my confidence.

I have asked for a few days off, but I know that when i do - I think about things i need to do that I have not.

The people that say one thing, but in the next sentence say another - there are lots of them!

Good to hear you have some support.

Take that time off, and fill that time. Slow down and remember, most of it can wait

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

I feel really upset. I have posted on another forum and three members are ganging up on me by thinking their comments are clever but in reality are nasty harsh put downs.

It isn't the first time I have encountered ignorant people and it really upsets me and it doesn't help me at all!

Report them.

Ignorant people are ten a penny, but don't let them win, especially on an internet forum where they can hide there true identity, because the real them is not who they want to be.