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  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    blinky wrote:
    Had an early night but got very little sleep - about 2.5 hours. :( Had a few texts from 'R' which upset me. She said a something which she knows is completely untrue.:confused: She has apologised but it's had me thinking all night.

    We are meeting early this afternoon - hope it goes well but I don't know. I'm drained, tired, upset, hurt. :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

    Maybe it's time I gave up on everything?

    No do not give up Blinky. I will reply properly later as I'm going out now, ok? Hang on hun. Much love Saz xxx
    4 May 2010 <3
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone :wave:
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
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    blinky wrote:
    Had an early night but got very little sleep - about 2.5 hours. :( Had a few texts from 'R' which upset me. She said a something which she knows is completely untrue.:confused: She has apologised but it's had me thinking all night.

    We are meeting early this afternoon - hope it goes well but I don't know. I'm drained, tired, upset, hurt. :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

    Maybe it's time I gave up on everything?

    Don't even think about it!
    I'm one who was at the lowest and i've climbed back on top again!
    I still have my 'off days', but never near what i had went through in the past!
    Blinky, it will get better but it won't happen overnight!
    Your special on here and we also need your help.
    Try getting some rest M8!

    :beer:
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Had bad night sleep again:(

    Woke up late. Felt stressed by OH and had a row. Feel so behind. Still haven't packed and he is doing my head in. I can't get in the right mood to do it and time is ticking on. I have been pushing myself and been stressed all week when I should have been resting. I feel I am having a mini breakdown and it isn't the right time for it. I am meant to be giving my mum a shopping list but I can't think.

    I can't concentrate with him around.

    I am going to be packing in the night at this rate and getting no sleep again.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone :wave:

    The same to you:)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    500 Posts
    CCStar wrote:
    Had bad night sleep again:(

    Woke up late. Felt stressed by OH and had a row. Feel so behind. Still haven't packed and he is doing my head in. I can't get in the right mood to do it and time is ticking on. I have been pushing myself and been stressed all week when I should have been resting. I feel I am having a mini breakdown and it isn't the right time for it. I am meant to be giving my mum a shopping list but I can't think.

    I can't concentrate with him around.

    I am going to be packing in the night at this rate and getting no sleep again.


    Aww huggzzzz!
    Never slept either, sick and tired of this 'hiding away'
    I am at a lost end from what he said last week!
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    500 Posts
    Sazbo wrote:
    Hey don't be sorry at all x Sounds like he might need counselling to talk though his issues? Otherwise you'll only continue to chew the brick wall and he won't progress beyond it? Just my thoughts hun xx

    It's the only option now, if only he can do it!!
    :confused:
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    500 Posts
    CCStar wrote:
    I am a little confused by who you are talking about and how he relates to you, but he sounds to be very closed emotionally. Has he been hurt before? Have you known him long?

    7 years to long!
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    500 Posts
    Sazbo wrote:
    Stenny hun, I could only find your above post quoted by CCStar, but I do hope it all gets sorted, for your sake. It can't be a 'real relationship' for very long, unless both sides are prepared to be honest. I know this from experience. Perhaps after the new year you could suggest you go to relationship counselling together?

    Love Saz x

    I must have deleted instead of editing, brain was numb!
    I just hate it at this time of year, ppl phoning and calling in then i have to hide!:mad:
    I know he will never be open and thats what i have to come to terms with, either live the life or get out!
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    stenny wrote:
    I must have deleted instead of editing, brain was numb!
    I just hate it at this time of year, ppl phoning and calling in then i have to hide!:mad:
    I know he will never be open and thats what i have to come to terms about, live the life or get out!

    Do see if you can encourage him re couple counselling - it's worth a try I think. It may make all the difference to the relationship working out in the long term. But either way Stenny, you deserve better than having to hide in the shadows becasue someone else can't be truthful... Much love Saz xxx
    4 May 2010 <3
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