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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    geminilady wrote:
    Hi Rosie,glad you are on the mend and will be at home for christmas day.I have just finished my shopping,went to asda at 10pm,bad idea it was still busy and they were restocking the shelves so there were trolleys full of stock blocking most of the isles.It will be just me and my boys for christmas,not got much family,mum and the boys dad have both passed away but me and the boys are very close and will have a good time.Hope your christmas is a good one and that you have a good new year.xx
    I don't get it

    Why do people go nuts over food shopping at Christmas, but not Easter or other holidays?

    I am sure we are all going to have so much leftover in January and will be seeing 'what do I do with my leftovers' on the OS thread in a few days, and I don't just mean leftover turkey!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • stenny_2
    stenny_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I am a little confused by who you are talking about and how he relates to you, but he sounds to be very closed emotionally. Has he been hurt before? Have you known him long?


    Yes he has been hun, ex screwed him b4, but i am not his ex
    But first, the most asked question:

    Q "Is anything worn under your kilt???"

    A "No. Everything is in perfect working order Thank You!!."
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    lmfao.. not quite...... gawd we're such pigs, lol

    must be a shocker for the posh girl to see how us commoners live, hehehe
    I bet she had the time of her life!:D
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    stenny wrote:
    Yes he has been hun, ex screwed hom be4
    Ouch!

    I can see this is very frustrating for you. I guess he will eventually learn to trust again but it is 'once bitten twice shy' in so many cases.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I'm gonna call it a day - I feel a bit odd, and will try and get to sleep

    Hope you have a good night and sleep OK
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • gillette147
    gillette147 Posts: 13,296 Forumite
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    Merry Xmas one and all !!!
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ive just got in from a distinctly average salsa nite but im in a good mood.
    I got a mad panic in the morning and then i'm driving up to brum. I probably won't be back on here til 07.

    Bless you all and have the best xmas possible.
    There's a big family get together tomorrow and I like all my family so I am looking forward to it.

    I hope santa brings what you wished for.
    And I bet it will take me 10hrs to do the readback!

    Ho ho ho
    xxxxxxxxx
    Girls are gonna love the way I toss my hair. Boys are gonna hate the way I seem.

    I would rather drown with you than watch the surf with someone else
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by stenny
    i know saz what you saying BUT
    It just doesn't feel good him saying he will open up, i know he won't and that's what caused the frictions tonight.
    It's ok him being open to my family, but saying he will when he doesen't mean it is another story.
    I just get the feeling, he cares more about his step-son than me as he can't confront him.
    Is this a real relationship?
    I can't answer phone nor door incase it's his side!!!!!


    PS he won't do counselling, such a shame!

    Stenny hun, I could only find your above post quoted by CCStar, but I do hope it all gets sorted, for your sake. It can't be a 'real relationship' for very long, unless both sides are prepared to be honest. I know this from experience. Perhaps after the new year you could suggest you go to relationship counselling together?

    Love Saz x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    gillette147 wrote:
    Merry Xmas one and all !!!
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ive just got in from a distinctly average salsa nite but im in a good mood.
    I got a mad panic in the morning and then i'm driving up to brum. I probably won't be back on here til 07.

    Bless you all and have the best xmas possible.
    There's a big family get together tomorrow and I like all my family so I am looking forward to it.

    I hope santa brings what you wished for.
    And I bet it will take me 10hrs to do the readback!

    Ho ho ho
    xxxxxxxxx


    You take care Gilly and have a wonder christmas and new year. Thanks for all your support on the thread. Much love, Saz xxx
    4 May 2010 <3
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    gillette147 wrote:
    Merry Xmas one and all !!!
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ive just got in from a distinctly average salsa nite but im in a good mood.
    I got a mad panic in the morning and then i'm driving up to brum. I probably won't be back on here til 07.

    Bless you all and have the best xmas possible.
    There's a big family get together tomorrow and I like all my family so I am looking forward to it.

    I hope santa brings what you wished for.
    And I bet it will take me 10hrs to do the readback!

    Ho ho ho
    xxxxxxxxx


    I hope you have a great Christmas/New Year too:beer:

    Take it easy in the fog.

    Thank you for the support you have given to me and us:)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    Sazbo wrote:
    Aww, Blinky hun, I hope you took your own advice and you're getting some rest. Get well soon hun, love Sazxxx

    Had an early night but got very little sleep - about 2.5 hours. :( Had a few texts from 'R' which upset me. She said a something which she knows is completely untrue.:confused: She has apologised but it's had me thinking all night.

    We are meeting early this afternoon - hope it goes well but I don't know. I'm drained, tired, upset, hurt. :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

    Maybe it's time I gave up on everything?
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
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