depression

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Sorry to hear you weren't feeling well tiff hun - are you feeling better now? You're great too y'know, don't forget that. I'm going to take a leaf out of your book and try and make a small part of xmas nice for me. I really can't face xmas this year so it'll be difficult, but we can help each other with that ok?

And don't worry about lying down alone - you can borrow my constant companion - my trusty hot water bottle - it's a miracle worker, plus you get the warmth without all the downsides!! :T :rotfl: Love, Sazzy xxx

Seems none of us are much of chrimbo fans eh? I just hate being so busy and stressed.. I'm usually up cooking til 3am xmas eve and then up a few hours after that sorting out breakfast and the rest of the xmas dinner etc etc etc :rolleyes: in between being nagged about how long it's all taking and blah blah blah... I'm usually ready to kill someone by midday

I find new year really depressing tho.. I seem to look back at what I haven't achieved but planned to in the previous year rather than looking forward to what can be done in the new one..

Hot water bottle eh? That is one thing I'll miss bout b/f... he was always toasty warm and didnt mind being used to warm up cold feet, lol

Sazbo

mclaren wrote:

is it jsut me or has any1 not bothered with xmas tress or that? i just am not in the mood tbh with it all........

also can i ask - can being depressed make you sooooo tired?

hope every1 here is doing well tho xx

Hi mclaren - yes depression and tiredness can be linked. I actually don't have room for a xmas tree in my place, it's too small. I guess I could have a small table-top one, but like you I'm just not in the mood for any of it.... Sx

mclaren_2

feelinggood wrote:

Just me
Thought I'd let you know that I didn't qualify for IB, so I guess I'm screwed
Hehe, back to the planning stages me supposes, guess a refuge is my only option. Heck, maybe I'll just get on a train and go to France like I always wanted, nothing to loose!
Hope you's all well, sending love and hugs and lots of other soppy stuff.

just remembr what i told u hunni - dont worry about it all xxxxx

you will get ib/HB/IS - you will hunni, but like i told you earlier, appeals are the way you go xx

mclaren_2

Sazbo wrote:

Hi mclaren - yes depression and tiredness can be linked. I actually don't have room for a xmas tree in my place, it's too small. I guess I could have a small table-top one, but like you I'm just not in the mood for any of it.... Sx

thanks, wasnt sure - cos recently ivebeen really tired during the day - its just not like me tbh lol. sleepings poor 2 so lol xx

EthelBloggs

mclaren wrote:

is it jsut me or has any1 not bothered with xmas tress or that? i just am not in the mood tbh with it all........

also can i ask - can being depressed make you sooooo tired?

hope every1 here is doing well tho xx

yes it can knacker you out completely so you've no energy at all.

I coldnt be bothered with xmas tree n all that so my son gave me pitiful looks last week and then dug out the decorations n went and got a tree an all that.. bless him he's only 14

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

I find new year really depressing tho.. I seem to look back at what I haven't achieved but planned to in the previous year rather than looking forward to what can be done in the new one..

I do exactly the same...

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Hiya hun. Was wondering how you were today. You enjoy that cuppa - yes you definitely deserve it hun. In fact I think I might join you... good to hear you're feeling positive generally, inspite of everything you've had to deal with. Sounds like you're got your ducks in a row, as they say. All to the good!

Love Sazbomb xx

The ducks were all lined up... now I'm ready to take shots at them all :mad:
Daughter is playing up and causing havoc soo......... instead of realising that she needs time to settle down n stuff....... they're sending her home in a taxi.. NOW!

No sleep for me tonight

blinky

mclaren wrote:

is it jsut me or has any1 not bothered with xmas tress or that? i just am not in the mood tbh with it all........

also can i ask - can being depressed make you sooooo tired?

hope every1 here is doing well tho xx

Depression can leave you feeling very tired / exhausted all the time even if you haven't done anything.

mclaren_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

yes it can knacker you out completely so you've no energy at all.

I coldnt be bothered with xmas tree n all that so my son gave me pitiful looks last week and then dug out the decorations n went and got a tree an all that.. bless him he's only 14

Prob different when you have kids about aswell as i know when i was younger and non depressed i liked tree n that up lol

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

I do exactly the same...

maybe we should wallow together, lol