depression

gillette147

My ex was allergic to rubber - her one son had a nut allergy and the other it was cats and dogs. Ex also couldn't go anywhere there was smoke.

It all put a cramp on our lives. And was a shock to me who isn't allergic to anything and can eat off the floor.

Tiff_2

gillette147 wrote:

Hiya Tiff,

Just thought I'd say hello - we aren't usually around at the same time.
I'm chucking myself into sorting out my music collection. Could take days.

I'm ok (in denial) today.
I hope you are through your bad few days.

xx

EDIT: Missed you d'oh!

Hey gilly!:hello:
Good morning hun. How are you gilly? I'm alright angel - thanks for asking. What are you doing in your music collection at 4.38a.m.? Any Barry Manilow?!;)
Tiff xxx

gillette147

Tiff wrote:

Hey gilly!:hello:
Good morning hun. How are you gilly? I'm alright angel - thanks for asking. What are you doing in your music collection at 4.38a.m.? Any Barry Manilow?!;)
Tiff xxx

Editing the mp3 tags.
I've got loads of stuff. It will take a few days to sort it all. Then I have lots more to rip. No Barry Manilow - but I have some Motorhead.

I'm sort of numb (beyond tired) and although tired it doesn't feel like bed.
But I am going to go in a minute.

xx

Tiff_2

gillette147 wrote:

Editing the mp3 tags.
I've got loads of stuff. It will take a few days to sort it all. Then I have lots more to rip. No Barry Manilow - but I have some Motorhead.

I'm sort of numb (beyond tired) and although tired it doesn't feel like bed.
But I am going to go in a minute.

xx

Sounds very high tech gilly. Phil Colllins? :rolleyes:
Haven't you been to bed yet hun? What's kept you from your sleep hun? Are you okay? You do get that way after a while - you get so tired that adrenaline kicks in again.
Tiff xxx

gillette147

I'm not awake for any depression reasons. I'm a terrible night owl anyway. I think I live in the wrong country - my body clock is off by 6hrs.
I was up til 4am fixing pc last nite too.

I'm forgetting everything else and doing something I want to get sorted for a couple of days.

Tiff_2

gillette147 wrote:

I'm not awake for any depression reasons. I'm a terrible night owl anyway. I think I live in the wrong country - my body clock is off by 6hrs.
I was up til 4am fixing pc last nite too.

I'm forgetting everything else and doing something I want to get sorted for a couple of days.

Good for you hun! We don't have to be prisoners of depression all the time. Go to bed and even if you can't sleep, your muscles will relax and I'm sure you'll drift off. Hope you get some relaxation hun. Catch you later - sorry for keeping you up gilly!:o Take care angel,
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Hi ethel!:hello:

EthelBloggs wrote:

Thanks again tiffy... and all of you who are posting about my mess
You're very welcome hun. Aren't the gang great?:T I hope you know I've not been getting at you hun in any way - I'm seriously ticked off at him!http://images.google.co.uk/images?q=tbn:lLN-mpVHIhdeeM:http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/3/39/Cat_yawning.jpg/180px-Cat_yawning.jpg

He CAN go to his parents.. he usually visits them once a month anyway.. problem is for him while he's skint affording to commute to work from there.. I thnk it's about £120 a week or something. Once he gets paid its up to him to sort it out.
To me, an answer jumps out straight away hun if you'll pardon me for butting my muzzle in. Give him enough money to get to his parents and then him getting to work will be his and their problem (sorry Mum and Dad:o !) I'm sure they'll bail him out for the next 6 days hun. That's what Mum and Dads are there for! You've got enough to deal with angel - if you can, be brave enough to do this hun. It's a perfect solution. You could say that the only thing you can do for him now, is to get him back to his parents. And you don't have to pay for that really, but at least you'd have him out now. Stuff packed in bags/boxes on dootstep when he's due back (so that no return visit is necessary), bus fare attached, locks changed and you wouldn't even have to see him hun.;)

He is making a big effort to be nice... even sat at the table and ate dinner with me last night :eek: but as I've said before.. it's too little too late. Some of the names he called me the other day were really out of order and as I've always said.. once something's been said it can't be unsaid.. even if it it wasn't meant.
I bet he is!
Yep, creeping, creeping!
Things are said in the heat of the moment that you'd never say otherwise but I think there's always a line that should never be crossed. He can apologise all he wants but the pain caused by what he said, doesn't go away.

Will be the next approach I expect. He'll play for every sympathy vote he can get (how can you do this to me at Christmas? etc) and then
there is every chance that he will lose it again when you don't cave in.
The clincher for me was tho that my neighbour knocked today for a cuppa and said she'd heard everything and that her son was going to come in and bop him one! I said she should have let him, hehehehe. But.. I'm not willing to be a spectacle or topic of gossip for the neighbours.
Hun, when it gets to the point that the neighbours are worried and want to intervene, it's time for a reality check. When someone does what he did to you hun, and it's loud enough for outsiders to hear, people will already be wondering what's going on. It's human nature ethel. You may be pleasantly surprised by people's reactions as you were with your neighbour. It's him that's making the spectacle of himself and embarrassing you. The sooner he's gone, the quieter your house will be and the neighbours won't have anything to talk about.

Weird thing is I'm feeling really positive in general.. even tho my stress levels are thru the roof.. DD is being a little cow and I'm getting a lot of complaints about her behaviour since she moved to the new place :rolleyes: Oh well.. onwards and upwards as they say
I think the positive vibes you're feeling are due to your survival instincts kicking in hun and also the fact that you believe he'll be gone in 6 days. I so hope he does angel but don't be surprised if a good reason (in his opinion!), a guilt trip and a temper tantrum don't follow.
Im sorry about DD hun. What support are the new place giving her? Bravo ethel :T on your strength and courage.

Hope everyone's fine.. haven't read anything yet.. just about to with a nice cuppa I feel I deserve it cos I discovered that the kitten has been using a tiny space behind a huge unit in the living room as his private loo so I had to pull out the furniture and scrub the carpet there - urggh.. that was nasty!!!!

It's a setup I tell you - a setup! :eek: That's right, blame the kitten!! It's 'cos he's feline innit?!!!:rotfl:
Kittycats would never do anything like that!
Your bf on the other hand...?:D
Hope you're alright hun - you're a tough cookie! Just remember hun, you have options! Thinking of you.
Much love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

Put a rocket under his (_|_) !!!!!!!!!!

Not under it hun - up it!!!:eek: :rotfl:
Much Love
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

stenny wrote:

Hi pp'l,

Big hugzzz, i have been online but really busy, someone has to do the housework! :mad:
Why did i come back!!

I will take time and catch up with all posts tomorrow, hope your all fabby and smiling like me :mad: , it took me 3 days to put up xmas tree! :eek

Keep smiling everyone

Hi stenny!
Have I misunderstood or have you gone back to him? Just hope you're okay and happy hun.
Tiffy Tip! If you can, don't take down the tree after the holidays (unless it's a real one!:rolleyes: ) and store it fully decorated in a closet/cupboard/cellar/garage. I did it for the first year this year and it's working perfectly!:D No hassle at all! I don't know whether to feel proud or ashamed!:o :rotfl:
Enjoy your day hun.
Much love
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Good Morning Guys!:hello: (and good night gilly!:shhh: ),
Hugs to rosie, saz, blinky, ethel, miro (hope you're ok hun;) ), elona, cc, gemini, bunnie, flis, betty, mrs a, stenny, gilly, elaine, ruby et al. :grouphug:
Thursday's here again guys!:rolleyes: Another opportunity to screw up a perfectly good day!:D :rotfl:

I hope you got some sleep ethel. If they couldn't cope, how do they expect you to?!
Hey -:think:...DD's return is a great excuse to get rid of the now!:T

Hi cc:hello: how are you angel?

Well guys, time for a catnap. Take care everyone.
Much Love
Tiff xxx