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  • sleepy
    sleepy Posts: 391 Forumite
    I agree Ethel. I know that I only "know" you on here, and not for long, but you've been so kind to all of us you deserve much more. Has he not got any family or friends he can stay with. Even if he hasn't, it's not your fault/problem. You and your children are more important.
  • elona
    elona Posts: 11,806 Forumite
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    Ethel

    If I could I would phone the police on your behalf but I do not think that they would believe that I could hear the row he is making from near York!

    We are all thinking of you and bad vibes are heading towards him from a lot of us.

    What a pathetic, bullying childish waste of space he is!
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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    stenny wrote:
    Hi CCstar, any news on the MIL yet? Maybe a bit early for results?
    I think she is on the mend.

    What disturbs me is he puts her before our family. He has responsibility to his own family and big issues show weakness.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • mclaren_2
    mclaren_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    Why do people always kick you when you're down?!
    Never do things tomorow when you can do them today.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    Howdy peeps.. I'm having helluva time at the mo..

    Spent the weekend doing 5 black sacks of washing which daughter brought home because she moved to a new place today. B/F been like a bear with a sore !!!!.

    Me and daughter had to leave the house early today (7.30) and so I ddn't realise b/f skived the day off work. He started harassing me with text messages from about 2.30pm onwards.. like...... I got about 50 msgs in less than an hour. come home to find hes smashed up the kitchen, my son's room - including his PC, various other parts of the house - he's thrown the cat litter tray everywhere... and he wont leave me alone. He keeps coming into the room where I am and screaming in my face. He slammed the laptop shut on my fingers and he's smashed some of the plugs on the wall so they're not usable. The phone's not working either.

    My son will be home soon and I don't know waht to do.. if I send him to my mum's she'll get wound up too.. but I don't want him to be in the middle of all this :/


    OMG:eek:

    Get the idiot out -

    and get your son to safety, he will be in the middle of it if he sees it
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    thanks stenny.. problem is he's broke. He's wasted a month's wages in less than 2 weeks :/ so he cant afford to go anywhere unless i give him the money. So far he has demanded I borrow money off me mum to give him and when I refused he said I should give him whats in my account. but even that's only enough to cover his train fares for the week so he stil wont leave. either that or I have to put up with im til he gets paid on the 20th.

    your right bout him being the cause of most of my problems, he just makes things vey stressful al the time. wy do people change from being lovely sweet guys into monsters? i keep wondering if it's someing i do to make this happen or what cos it seems ot happen every fukkin time.

    I'm just siting here in me corner trying to avoid him as much as poss which is how im able to be online, in case anyone is wondering. he's two floors above me so i can hear him coming a good few seconds before he gets near me :/


    Not your problem he is broke - he probably can't manage his money. Tends to happen with people who act this way.

    It is not your fault. He clearly has problems.

    Get immediate help! You shouldn't be cowering
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    hey sazbomb :)

    from what i can gather.. it's because last night i was so knakcered i dint load the dishwasher, i asked my son to do it and he didnt bother.. also I left no money in the house for him this mornin.. well I din't know he was skint so didnt know i needed to.
    Sounds like you have two boys.

    Your son will observe this and think this is acceptable behaviour. Get rid of the toxic creep for your son's sake, as well as your own!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    mclaren wrote:
    Why do people always kick you when you're down?!
    Who has kicked you whilst you are down?
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Bunnie1982
    Bunnie1982 Posts: 1,671 Forumite
    The evening has got worse, I feel desperately down about money, OH has gone out to his friends to play on a Wii, regardless of the fact that I won't see him much this week....it's no wonder my thoughts keep wandering

    Man I am so confused
  • mclaren_2
    mclaren_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    I hope you all have a while to get through this post - but the past few days ive been extremly low - and ive decided to open up to all here and let off some steam


    On Friday, i had been feeling average, not low not high, just a friday night in on my own - but i did get a bit sad to the end of the night.

    ON saturday, i was feeling ok. I got up, got myself ready as i knew i was going to Ibrox to watch Rangers v Hibs. Was getting quite exited about this game as i knew that we had to win. Walking down the road - i cut my arm off some scaffolding. It hurt, and it was bleeding but it sort of was okay.

    I got to the match, and we did win 3 - 0 so i was really pleased about that - but, it was very cold and i did only have a jumper on and my scarf and my gloves.

    I got back on the subway and in to the centre of Glasgow. At this time i was feeling average. I got home again, and went to the chippy to get myself a fish supper to eat for my tea.

    I got home, and finished it. Put on the tv and just started to feel a bit sad. As the night got on a bit, i got worse. Got to the point where ihad to text a couple of people - see if sum1 would chat with me cos i was very scared. I was close to the edge.

    RBK came on, and spoke to me, and well she was a diamond.
    Spoke to her about how i was feeling and how i was sad and low and how i just wanted to die. Everytime i was to close my eyes, i could see myself jumping out the window.

    She spoke to me, for a couple of hours, and i did feel a bit better cos i knew sum1 cared.

    On Sunday, i was feeling okay, in the morning, but then the day slowly went down again.

    On Sunday night, i didnt have anybody i could talk to as nobody was online, and i thought about things. Was in the zone. Reached the bottom and started to SH.

    Then i got a phonecall from a friend, and she was just talkin to me about how i was - did cheer me up a bit.

    After that, i decided to just go to sleep and try forget about all the bad stuff.

    Woke up this morning, and i decided i couldnt cope on my own, so i called the doctor again to get an appointment so i go on thursday, and i will tell him what i have done.

    I have not been on anti depressants for a couple of months, perhaps need them again.

    Since not being on them, ive only felt bad once (danger bad) but i did get through that part.

    At the moment, i feel about a 3 on the scale

    0 - the end - cant cope
    1 - 2 - danger
    3 - 4 sad
    5 - 6 ok
    7 - 8 good
    9 - 10 feeling really good

    Sorry for this :( post
    Never do things tomorow when you can do them today.
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