depression

feelinggood_2

You'd have thought that he'd be the responsible one wouldn't you, that he'd be looking after me seeing as he is alot older than me.
Why am I having to act like his mother?
Went on myspace - all the mates I went to school with are at uni, single, partying and all that. And I've been married for 2 years.

Miroslav

Will reply to people later........after I have phoned 'S'

Had a FANTASTIC day......hopefully 'S' will still like me when I phone.

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

Will reply to people later........after I have phoned 'S'

Had a FANTASTIC day......hopefully 'S' will still like me when I phone.

Way to go, Miro!!!! :money: :money:

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

You'd have thought that he'd be the responsible one wouldn't you, that he'd be looking after me seeing as he is alot older than me.
Why am I having to act like his mother?

fg - I've never understood this myself, I must admit, why so many blokes end up having to be mothered. I think it would even be nice if just SOME of the time they returned the favour and supported us, but that doesn't seem to be the way it works?

feelinggood_2

Sazbo wrote:

fg - I've never understood this myself, I must admit, why so many blokes end up having to be mothered. I think it would even be nice if just SOME of the time they returned the favour and supported us, but that doesn't seem to be the way it works?

I suppose I should have seen it coming - he lived at home till he was 30 :-/

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

I suppose I should have seen it coming - he lived at home till he was 30 :-/

Well I guess it's more common these days for people to stay at home longer because of the cost of buying, renting, etc, but still when you do move out it doesn't mean you can't be supportive of someone else? However that's not been my experience

feelinggood_2

Sazbo wrote:

Well I guess it's more common these days for people to stay at home longer because of the cost of buying, renting, etc, but still when you do move out it doesn't mean you can't be supportive of someone else? However that's not been my experience

He didn't stay at home for finacial reasons. He stayed for washing reasons hehehe

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

He didn't stay at home for finacial reasons. He stayed for washing reasons hehehe

Ah. Tricky things, washing machines...

feelinggood_2

Which is why he's used ours once.

And I had to explain how to do it over the phone.

And he got it wrong.

Sazbo

But that's the point isn't it? There's always someone to [STRIKE]mother them[/STRIKE] sort it out... :rolleyes: