depression

gillette147

We could go clothes shopping together though.

rose07

gillette147 wrote:

We could go clothes shopping together though.

ooo can we have a girls night in with DVD and choccie, sometime? :rotfl:

gillette147

rose07 wrote:

ooo can we have a girls night in with DVD and choccie, sometime? :rotfl:

You can do my nails if you like
xx

elona

Liz estelle has posted a rather snippy comment on What is and is not allowed on the board - and has quoted the depression thread as an example.

Why can some people not bear to see support or kindness without wanting to trample on it!

Sazbo

elona wrote:

Liz estelle has posted a rather snippy comment on What is and is not allowed on the board - and has quoted the depression thread as an example.

Why can some people not bear to see support or kindness without wanting to trample on it!

Oh dear that's really sad, isn't it? I don't know what this thread has done to hurt that person, someone who says they themselves suffer from depression, I'm completely mystified, I'll admit. I wonder if she's reported all of the other, in her judgement, "non-money saving" threads, as well as this one... but I doubt it. Just hope she feels better for it...

rose07

elona wrote:

Liz estelle has posted a rather snippy comment on What is and is not allowed on the board - and has quoted the depression thread as an example.

Why can some people not bear to see support or kindness without wanting to trample on it!

just gonna go see it. . . . .

gillette147

I read it earlier too.
Maybe she rejects before being rejected.
Common for us depressives.

rose07

she didnt have any respect coming in here and mouthing off,
EL, is right if she has a prob go to the abuse part of things, but we are a community here, and part of that is being able to talk about the things that matter.

it really annoys me when people get all high and mighty and go around just to annoy people, it isnt fair, and certainly not fair to pick on people and have a go. this is a great site and a great community but sometimes there is a small minority trying to cause havoc, and this isnt fair to other users.

i mean no offence in saying this

rose07

im off to bed in a mo.
gotta be up at 5am, to do this filming. . . :eek:
i soo not in the mood, and im not ready and generally. . .
AAARRRGGGHHHHH lol

banging, headache, and i still feel like i just wanna curl up and well ya know.

i will be thinking of you all
(i have to sit for 6 hours straight), 7-1, i have the colour purple book to keep me occupied tho as you all know what this is about it may not be the best thing to read, but i have heard its has inspiration in it, so i will see, so will have a book, and me thoughts, not a good combination. lol

im very scared, to sum it up, i am more scared doing this than going to the doctor, there now ya know how scared i am. lol

its very dangerous as i have to kinda be on slippery surface and film the tide coming in, whilst from a great height, so if its windy or whatever, not good. im not even well enuff to do it, but i always stretch my body beyond its boundaries.

i hope everyone is ok, Tiff, betty, mrs a, flis, sazbo, miroslav, ccstar, feeling good, gillette, and anyone i have missed.

miroslav, i have been wondering about how things have gone for you all day.
i hope it went ok, and if it didnt we are here for you x

betty, how are you at the mo? getting there with help?

flis, you havent been a round in a while, you ok ?

and tiff, how are you doing? well you can see how i am (go back a few pages and then you will see the progress, i was ready to chuck it all in before, still am, but too tierd)
ok we have had a bit of trouble on here, and ya missed it. think we might need to patrol hun. , i didnt have ya to tell them what for, lol.
hope you ok

take care everyone
thinking of you all
xxx

Tiff_2

rose07 wrote:

thanks fg, im still here, . . .
but just hurting. why do people hurt us?
people are always telling me its not myself but i am a great one for taking the blame for things. i understand what you mean, i think i still blame myself (i know tiff will tell me off for that, lol), it will be 3 years on the 19th of this month since i was ........:(......naa i still cant say the word

yeah listening to my music at the mo, but i must be a very depressed person all the songs are sad and depressing, (so not realli helping), i will go and sort out the equipment for my day tomoz....as its stressing me out as i am soo not ready, have no motivation and feel like i am at square one again.
back in a bit x

ps, thanks for telling me about your experience, i appreciate it, and it helps in me not feeliing like im alone.

DAMN STRAIGHT TIFF IS GOING TO TELL YOU OFF FOR THAT!!! Did you think I wouldn't stop by to see how everyone was doing? The minute my back's turned...:rolleyes:
Hi Rosie - I thought we had an agreement here? You poor thing - are you all right angel? :grouphug: I know what you meant. But what you are feeling is natural because it was a situation that set off one of your triggers. Let's look for the positives here - stop slapping me - there is a positive!
Grab one of these :coffee: - here we go hun...
POSITIVES:
-Rose, you were out with friends - you wouldn't have been doing much of that recently. Good for you.
- Your friends obviously care enough about you to look out for you.
- You were having a nice time at different points.:dance: _party_
- Your ex paid you a nice compliment so you weren't looking like last night's dinner!
- You got up, made an effort and you weren't still in your pyjamas! ... were you?!:rotfl:
- You weren't legless and unable to protect yourself.
- You were in a public arena so people would and did step in.
- You fought back Rose - that took guts! You didn't just fall apart.
-You got out shaken but thank God, unhurt.
- There's good guys out there too.
-You've got a new job tomorrow hun - they chose YOU! :):) You're a better you than you know!:A
- Think of all the people on this thread alone who are glad that you're here.
- Part of what you're feeling is down to shock hun - so natural.

NEGATIVES:
- Self harming - why do to yourself what you feel other people have done to you? Don't give the sw!nes the satisfaction! I do understand though hun. Just don't forget that one day, there won't be a reason to do it, you'll be at a good place in your life and you don't want to end up looking like the
M1!
- I'm telling you off for not punching him hard enough and at least twice!
- It was a trigger for you. I'm always telling you angel to be kind to yourself during these hard times. You know I'm not preaching I hope angel and that I'm talking from experience.
- Karma's a b!tch ! They'll get theirs. :rotfl:

You deserve some fun and relaxation. Have you tried guided meditation angel? I have some very good Tiff tips on that!:) I'll post tomorrow re the guided relaxation.
Hun, hot drink, hot bath and bedtime. I'm so glad you posted before doing anything angel - although I haven't read all the posts yet. I had a bit of a fight over on the freebie board myself (in a post about Tony Robbins self help) and I was insulted, hurt and angry. I was scared because I don't do :mad: but I was fit to be tied.
You once asked me what a Tiff letter was - if you can find the thread on there from today you will find ou:o t! I can report that the Tiff letter received both a public and private apology to me which I graciously accepted.
Angel, hold on to the fact that not everyone out there is going to hurt you - it's our pain that makes it hard to deal with.
Now take off your bunny slippers (bet you've got bunny slippers!:rotfl:) and get into bed. Report back tomorrow on your first day and good luck hun - I'll be thinking of you.
Get some rest now because the future starts tomorrow .....
Much Love,
Tiff xxx