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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • Just dropping by and saying hello, sending hugs in case but hope you feel proud and excited my darling friend xxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Nope Buffy...feel !!!!! to be honest, have spent most of the afternoon in tears. Feel carp because I don't want to be upset in front of B, especially when she is quite frankly been a star.

    Just feel very very sad, lonely and that horrible empty sickness feeling.

    OH had a good first day at work and he seems happy, B happy to talk to him too so thats good
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Oh Mate. it is such a wrench even if he is a !!!!!! head (no offence I just honestly do not understand men like him).

    All the next bit is going to sound lame but do take it one day at a time and do be kind to yourself, no doing everything at once ok?

    Love you lots

    Bufy xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
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    Huggles hun xx
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Thanks Beanie...
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Oh Mate. it is such a wrench even if he is a !!!!!! head (no offence I just honestly do not understand men like him).

    All the next bit is going to sound lame but do take it one day at a time and do be kind to yourself, no doing everything at once ok?

    Love you lots

    Bufy xxx


    But why do you never remember the !!!!!! head bits once you've made the decision...only remember the happy times and convince yourself that things were actually ok.

    I think what I am finding hard is the fact that we never really talked things out...just kind of made the moves based on the fact that neither of us were happy.

    gah...
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    I've been thinking of you today too Sal. You and B take each day as it comes hun. Things will get easier. Maybe you'll get the opportunity to talk things through with OH and get some sort of peace and closure.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    right suppose I better go to bed....stare at the walls for a couple of hours I suppose.

    Mum phoned me tonight, had a nice chat so she is better in the picture. She said that OH leaving yesterday was sooo upsetting, especially the bit when B gave daddy a pebble that she had found and said have this to remember me by Daddy...:(
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Morning diary

    Just feel sad and as much as I love the sunshine, I feel like I should be happy and im not. Trying so hard to remain upbeat and today I shall really really try not to cry infront of B.

    At work until 1pm then I have a mystery shop and need to post some ebay parcels. Might postpone the MS until tomorrow
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
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