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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,751 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Huggles hun xxx
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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Nothing I can add except stay strong, allow yourself to cry and feel sad - you will get through this

    Take care of you :A
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  • dangers
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    Does B know that daddy isn't coming back home to live? Or does she think that he has just gone away for work?
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    It's good for B to see you like this too - it's good for her to realise that life isn't all play times and nice things but that feelings are there to be felt and shown.

    Stay strong, give her a big hug and take each day as it comes, there's no rules and you have to do what's right for you....

    *throws a few more cushions in the pot for later*
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    dangers wrote: »
    Does B know that daddy isn't coming back home to live? Or does she think that he has just gone away for work?


    Bit of both...she knows that daddy is going to live in another house but Im not sure she realises he won't live here permanently again. As she got into bed tonight she said I wonder if Daddy is in bed in his new house yet.
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,751 Ambassador
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    Plenty of time Sal plenty of time xx
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    No rules - just take each day at a time x
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Thanks Hypno...yep certainly is each day as it comes, lets hope tomorrow is bareable!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Sometimes it will feel like it, sometimes it won't. But you will get through it, and the next day is always a new one.

    I know I'm coming at this from "the other side" so to speak, but I don't think it really matters in many ways who dumps who. When you have invested years, and have children, there is a lot to mourn. Don't underestimate it, and it will all work out.
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Yes its definitely the mourning, sad for the loss of a partner, a family, a friend etc etc
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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