Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

sallyx

Bun don't like to see you sad we will have friend time in a few weeks time and you'll get to meet the lovely Rob:smileyhea:smileyhea

squizz everything is just hunky dory well apart from the days I don't see him I feel like my heart has been ripped out. I know I need to get a grip on this and try and get back to some kind of normality tbh. It's going to be at least 4 months until we move in together and I need to get myself debt free and build up some savings... Don't really have anything left to sell so going to have to come up with some grand plan!

Well had a very very hard 9.4 mile run through the trails and my legs are killing as road trainers really aren't suitable. R managed to twist his ankle and fall in the road, his knee is totally gross and how he ran the 5 miles back I don't know!

Pimms o'clock soon thank goodness lol

sammy115

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

My kids are in school until July 23rd and then we are hopefully going to France for the week with my Dad and his wife.

I could possibly book a couple of days off and come see you, trust me, I NEED friend time-feel very sad...

Me too Bun...this week has been so bad and so good in equal measures...which has resulted in violent mood swings!!!!

I am still hoping to move in with you after six months :rotfl:

Chloe said yesterday that she misses Joe and Freya...bless her.

I would say come over on Monday but as I seem to have lost half my working week to car issues I may have to work..but I will let you know if I am free..

Right, sorry Sally, will stop hijacking thread now.

sallyx

Hijack away otherwise it would just be me harping on and on! Xx

Bunnyinthelights

Thanks Sam and Sal.

Hormones are evil things. Came to a realisation that I dont have any friends close by that I can 'lean' on I miss it.
I used to have Jen back home, we worked together and lived close by and were always together. Then I had my friend Amy and we fell out, big time. I dont have family close by and I feel isolated.

Stood by and listened to DH's sister and Mom talk to one of my friends yesterday and DS party-all saying how they know so many people that have moved away/abroad and they all come home because they miss England/family etc. and how important family is etc not at all twigging that they all have each other and their families but I dont have mine. DH parents are good to us, but its not the same.

Still feel like crying. Really, they had no clue how ironic they were being.

LouiseJ

I have been feeling exactly the same lately Bunny:(

I really want to go and see Sex and the City 2 which was released last night but havent got a soul to go with.....

We have couple friends but as I met my OH so young I havent really got a friend who I can go shopping/cinema with.

I do have a Girls night out friend but we dont really see each other inbetween.

sammy115

Can I third that....

I realised yesterday that I feel exactly the same way. My friend emigrated to Aussie.....well I think her husband took her to split us up tbh!:rotfl:

I have my mum but she is pretty barking...my sister has her own problems and, and, and......

anyway when we have our commune (women only - sorry rob you will just have to visit now and then) we will be okay..

:grouphug:

sallyx

I don't also have many friends locally, most of my friends are all over the place...ive also found that even though we never did things as a couple all my girlfriends still have husbands and want to spend their free time with them so Im still without anyone to do stuff with. My boss who is also a friend is really the only person who would happily go out for a night out and leave the kids home with her husband.

Anyway Bun your in laws are insensitive rat bags...grrrrrrrr
Are you expecting us on the Friday night or Saturday morning BTW? I haven't checked with R yet but as he doesn't have the children I can't see why we couldn't travel up friday after he finishes work. Would give us the whole day on Saturday then

But Sammy he has lots of useages...he cooks, he makes amazing bread, pancakes and cleans up too....im sure we could find a job for him somewhere God I hope he doesn't read this :eek:

Bunnyinthelights

I'd like a chance to spend time with my husband as well, maybe we might start to act like a couple again if we did. As it is, he goes out with his mates golfing, to the pub etc and I go out and do Vie parties or maybe see one of you lot once every couple of months. I feel like such a loser. I even had to miss a night out on Thurs because I had such a bad belly. Dork

Sal-Fri is cool with me babe!

I am going to compile a list of places we could visit and let you guys chose.

sallyx

Will speak to him later then Bun and find out what he wants to do...can't see friday being a problem though

Bunnyinthelights

Ok hunnybuns x