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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Sal,
    my mom never had maintenance for any of us (3 kids, 2 divorces) and has been bankrupt and now is on DMP (ok, my Mom is CRAP with money) but she was 'too proud' to ask or even insist on getting money.

    I had to pay for university myself and I am still paying that debt off. B doesnt need the legacy of your ex's selfishness.


    End of.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    sallyx wrote: »
    No I don't think any of you are being too harsh! I think hes a selfish git tbh, he says he hasn't got any money to live on but hasn't even considered that I haven't and that I might not be able to feed his/our daughter. He always puts his needs first, always has, always will. Glad Im out of that! I will give him until beg of next week and If no money materialises then i shall be off to CSA...he will have had his warning!

    R on the other hand sent me a text today to say I insist on buying you dinner tomorrow night and I know just the place *sigh* romance isn't dead after all :)

    Tell ex if there's no money on Friday then he'll have a bunch of DFWers with spades at his door :mad:

    As for R... ahhhhhh :)
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    He will pay up...because if he doesn't I will be around there myself with the spade...and quite frankly if he's not willing to give me money for B then I will let the whole world know what a low life cheating scum bag he is...sure his family would love that!


    Oh and did I mention......



















    I am totally and utterly in Love :love::D;)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    You may have...once or twice...;)
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Sorry Bun getting a bit repetitive and smug aren't I

    blooming starving today can't wait for Indian food tonight :)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I dont mind babe, in fact, I like it.
    Glad one of my friends are happy!

    (is happy? are happy?)
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Lush Lush food tonight, and wine snuggled up on the sofa at the pub :)
    Just waiting for my sister to arrive from Norwich now, hope she's not too late as im knackered!

    Bun I am happy, very very happy and thank you. I know i'll come down from cloud nine soon enough but going to enjoy it up here for now :)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Sounds like a lovely night... you happy? :);) xxx
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Well have just been for a lovely run, I'm on fire at the moment nothing is stopping me :)

    So today's the day, am going to meet r's children this afternoon after school. To say I am bricking it is an understatement! Just really really want them to be happy with us together.
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Oooh exciting, hope that goes well!
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
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