Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

Pooky

Ohhhhh exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time! Where are you meeting them? How old are they? I'm sure it will all be fine :j

sallyx

I'm meeting them on Poole quay and we are taking them out for something to eat. Pooky they are 8 and 11, am totally bricking it!

Lucifa73

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

I dont mind babe, in fact, I like it.
Glad one of my friends are happy!

(is happy? are happy?)

I'm happy too, although perhaps not on the wonderful cloud 9 of new romance.

Hope the thing withthe kids goes well. You're so good with Bea I can't see there being an issue. Have fun x

Bunnyinthelights

I am glad you are happy too Luc-and you Pooky.

Thats what I want.

Love and passion-I have great friendship, I am not complaining about that, I have a wonderful companion so maybe I should just shut up eh?

Bunnyinthelights

Good luck today Sal, although as long as you are YOU it will go fine.

As a child of broken marriages, whatever happens at some point you will get the 'you arent my mother' thrown at you-its the LAW.

redsquirrel80

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

I am glad you are happy too Luc-and you Pooky.

Thats what I want.

Love and passion-I have great friendship, I am not complaining about that, I have a wonderful companion so maybe I should just shut up eh?

If you're not totally happy then why should you shut up.. friendship is more important, but the other stuff does matter, especially if you miss it x

Lucifa73

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

I am glad you are happy too Luc-and you Pooky.

Thats what I want.

Love and passion-I have great friendship, I am not complaining about that, I have a wonderful companion so maybe I should just shut up eh?

You deserve to have it all x

sallyx

I totally agree you should have it all, if there is a vital bit missing then you have every right to want more.

I am so waiting for the you aren't my mother comment, I'd happily settle for being their friend and someone they can come to if they can't talk to anyone else.

So I'm sat here on Poole quay the sun is shining it's beautiful and I'm trying to remain calm got 15 mins until they arrive so grabbing a drink while I wait.

Pooky

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

I am glad you are happy too Luc-and you Pooky.

Thats what I want.

Love and passion-I have great friendship, I am not complaining about that, I have a wonderful companion so maybe I should just shut up eh?

Don't shut up - if it's important to you then it's worth fighting for.

DH and I always said that if the oingy boingy went from our relationship then we'd probably not stay together as it was very important for both of us but circumstances now mean that it's not there and we've both realised it's not as important as we thought....Knowing there's a reason for the lack of it makes it easier to deal with....Living in limbo like you are must be annoying and disheartening, I wish I could wave a wand and make it what you want it to be


Sal - Sorry hi-jacking your diary there......hope the meetings gone well x

sammy115

Pooky, I totally understand what you are saying about the oingy boingy. You can do without it BUT the affection has to be there...I bet your OH still wants to rip your clothes off. Its knowing that if you could you would. If one of you wants to and the other doesn't it seriously damages the self - esteem.

Sally - why would anyone not love you....or sweet B