Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

sallyx

I think I will to be honest luc it's just Not like her at all?

Ah well he makes us happy and let's face it he's a decent guy, would never cheat on me so that's one up from the ex lol!

redsquirrel80

Hi Sal, glad you had a good weekend - the party sounds really good and well done on the 10k time - brilliant!

That is quite a weird reaction from your mum, I guess she'd be concerned it's so soon but appearance is an odd thing to pick up on! (I think he's got a lovely face from his FB pic by the way, he looks as lovely and kind as you say he is).

Hope the sleeping sorts itself out soon x

sallyx

Now its sunk in I am rather thrilled I pulled that 10k time out the bag
Trouble is now I want to beat it lol.....off to look for the next race!

Thanks Squizz, actually his FB picture isn't that great, makes him look older than he does I think, I like it but the one i showed her was better if anything...I wonder if it was the grey hair, god I don't know and to be honest don't care. He has a wonderful smile and amazing brown eyes...yep smitten

sallyx

beanielou wrote: »

You just sound soooo happy

I am Beanie ...I can't remember the last time I was this happy..before I met ex to be honest, I was never this happy with him which is really quite crazy since I married him, had a child with him and have spent over 10 years with him :eek:

sallyx

Morning all, well manic busy day today! At work until 11:45 and then I have to drive to bournemouth for this college interview, have done no preparation, im from the camp that if its meant to be and they think im suitable I'll get in. I can only tell them what I know, explain how passionate I am and thats it! Got to be there for 2 hours :eek: then mad dash back from bournemouth as R is at client meetings in weymouth today so he will come straight from there to meet me around 5 and we are going to try and get a quick run in before I have to pick B up from out of hours at school at 6pm.

Stupid because today I have lots to look forward to expecially as R is staying tonight and I won't have to do the goodbyes at 11pm tonight but actually feel a bit Meh today

Money and my debt is worrying me at the moment, am so broke and its only the 11th! I need to find £300 for divorce and R wants us to go on holiday with him and the children in August and I just don't have the money...stupid stupid debt

redsquirrel80

Good luck for the interview - will have my fingers crossed!

You'll get there with the debt... have you done a new SOA with your new situation?

sallyx

Thanks Squizz

I have I just haven't stuck to it whatsoever and have just been spending and not keeping to budget. Its so flipping hard as R has a huge disposable income at the moment and he knows I have no money and offers to pay for stuff but I feel bad and don't want him to think I am this huge financial burden. It also hasn't helped that ex hasn't given me any maintenance money yet and he also owes me £400 which I gave him when he went up to norfolk....!!!!ed off with him tbh

redsquirrel80

sallyx wrote: »

Thanks Squizz

I have I just haven't stuck to it whatsoever and have just been spending and not keeping to budget. Its so flipping hard as R has a huge disposable income at the moment and he knows I have no money and offers to pay for stuff but I feel bad and don't want him to think I am this huge financial burden. It also hasn't helped that ex hasn't given me any maintenance money yet and he also owes me £400 which I gave him when he went up to norfolk....!!!!ed off with him tbh

I'm not surprised! Do you think you might have to go down the official route for maintenance?

As for R I know what you mean - but you seem to be so good at discussing things so tell him how you feel about it.

beanielou

Set the wheels in motion for the CSA Sally.
You only have one debt?
Have a great day

sallyx

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

I'm not surprised! Do you think you might have to go down the official route for maintenance?

As for R I know what you mean - but you seem to be so good at discussing things so tell him how you feel about it.

I have told him already but I don't think his idea of having no money and my idea of having no money are the same lol! I know I'll have to bring it up again as seriously I can't afford to do anything for the rest of the month

Im not sure about the whole maintenance thing, Ex says he's going to pay me but he hasn't got any money at the moment..im keeping a running total and If I have to go to the CSA then I will.