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The Great Declutter Part 2

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  • cloverfan
    cloverfan Posts: 635 Forumite
    Please can people help me.............I think I might have the worlds messiest most cluttered house ever:o:o:o:o and its so bad I just dont know where to start so I dont and it gets worse. I have a small 3 bed house and its just not big enough. My ex was a walking DIY disaster and ruined loads of the house so not one of the rooms in the house is finished and quite truthfully the whole place needs decorating. I dont invite people round coz i am embarassed and yet i dont seem to be able to change things.....any advice gratefully appreciated
    Determind to make a better life for ME and my children


    Thanks to hangingbyathread for making me include myself in the above xx
  • Sue14
    Sue14 Posts: 988 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    cloverfan wrote: »
    Please can people help me.............I think I might have the worlds messiest most cluttered house ever:o:o:o:o and its so bad I just dont know where to start so I dont and it gets worse. I have a small 3 bed house and its just not big enough. My ex was a walking DIY disaster and ruined loads of the house so not one of the rooms in the house is finished and quite truthfully the whole place needs decorating. I dont invite people round coz i am embarassed and yet i dont seem to be able to change things.....any advice gratefully appreciated

    Hi, I was just the same until recently, everywhere I looked was clutter and although I knew it needed sorting, like you I had no idea where to start, so I kept putting it off. Then I found this board, and was inspired to make a start, and now I am gradually starting to have a tidy home instead of piles of clutter, although I've still got a long way to go, lol! A lot of stuff has gone to charity shops, some has gone on Freecycle and Freegle, and I've sold a lot of things on Ebay so I'm making some money as well, which is a nice bonus! You wouldn't believe all the '!!!!!! have I kept that for?' crap that has been binned too, lol!

    It can seem daunting when getting started, but the best way is to do a little bit at a time, decide on one small area and get stuck in, even if you only do 10 minutes a day you will soon start to see a difference, and when you do you'll be inspired to do more. Reporting on here what you've got rid of can be very helpful, and getting rid of stuff that you don't need or use is very liberating. Good luck and I look forward to hearing about your progress, if I can do it I'm sure you can, and when it's all clear you can get the place decorated how you want it.

    Hugs
    Sue.
    Weight loss challenge 2/10lbs


  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,777 Forumite
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    55. top to charity bag - hopefully being collected today
    56. babygro to rag bag
    57. 2 odd socks to rag bag
    58. one of those pencil things where you keep changing the push out bit (stick it in the top) - all the bits now have no lead - binned

    Quite a few watchers on ebay. 2 items have bids - hopeful of more to come!!!
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Sue14 wrote: »

    It can seem daunting when getting started, but the best way is to do a little bit at a time, decide on one small area and get stuck in, even if you only do 10 minutes a day you will soon start to see a difference, and when you do you'll be inspired to do more. Reporting on here what you've got rid of can be very helpful, and getting rid of stuff that you don't need or use is very liberating. Good luck and I look forward to hearing about your progress, if I can do it I'm sure you can, and when it's all clear you can get the place decorated how you want it.

    Hugs
    Sue.

    That is *so* true :) one drawer at a time. The whole lot doesn't seem manageable, but one thing is - put the timer on, or your alarm or whatever, for ten minutes time, and stop then. You can do more later on if you want, but just do ten minutes that first time.

    I certainly felt overwhelmed by the idea of my loft, though the house isn't too bad at all now, after all the energy I'd spent on it. So I got a friend to be here while I went up - in fact, he poked his head up first, and then I went up and actually did it. My back hurt like crazy doing it, but thats a different story :o So those are the two tips: do one tiny thing, and/or get a friend to be with you when you do something.

    Come back and tell how you get on!
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  • mineallmine
    mineallmine Posts: 3,053 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 9 June 2010 at 2:31PM
    Up to:

    39. Toiletries (really boring that my decluttering is just this kinda stuff but shows how much I have:o), used up, packaging not recyclable (bin)

    Tally so far = 39 things decluttered, 18 sadly to bin, rest recycled/charity.

    NOw up to:
    40.41. More toiletries, packaging not recyclable (bin)

    Total so far 41 things decluttered, 20 binned, rest recycled etc. Just about keeping on track for getting rid of 150 things in June. Need to buy some clothes (never been too bad at that side of things strangely). But need to start attacking the general stuff that is around.

    Happy decluttering. :A
    :) Declutter 300 things in December challenge, 9/300. Clear the living room. Re-organize storage
    :cool2: Cherryprint: "More stuff = more stuff to tidy up!"
    Less things. Less stuff. More life.
    :heart: Fab thread: Long daily walks
  • Smiley_Mum
    Smiley_Mum Posts: 3,836 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    ...the toothbrush principle. This website has a lot of info on sorting your clutter etc. I know there's a flylady one but just incase that isn't working for some. Thought you may be interested in this one...

    http://www.thetoothbrushprinciple.com/

    Good luck with the blitzing/clutter clearing. I'm just going to start on the bathroom now...
    “Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.” - Oscar Wilde
  • alys_fowler
    alys_fowler Posts: 137 Forumite
    ive already so far this week cleared out my loft and airing cupboard lots for the tip/charity shop, i still have my children's bedroom to tackle, i walk in and walk out just wondering where to begin lol
    I am a stay at home mum with a passion for life and all things crafty:xmastree::santa2::xmastree:
  • *Chattie*
    *Chattie* Posts: 707 Forumite
    not interested as its someone trying to sell their book indirectly
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Out:
    paper/cans and glass recycling
    a couple of bags of stuff to the school for the tombola

    In:
    An order from white stuff, need to try on later to see what I'm keeping and what I'm returning. I am desperate for summer clothes so this is not an impulse purchase and I did use a discount code and quidco.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • annie123
    annie123 Posts: 4,256 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    ive already so far this week cleared out my loft and airing cupboard lots for the tip/charity shop,


    Could you pop round mine and do the same please:D
    tea and cake will be provided;)
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