Falling for friend at work(i'm married)

Mely

fantasia322 wrote: »

Some men find pregnancy a trun on. Shouldnt be happening in this case of course it should'nt. But its not wierd, just unuaual.

Men usually find pregnancy a turn on when its their own baby that the woman is carrying - not someone elses!

CAFCGirl

And some men find it a turn on to after completely unsuitable partners, create havoc and chaos in the lives of others, promise the world to a woman wo is so obviously in need of love and attention the world, and then when she finally gives in..... chase over, job done, move onto the next one!

I think a lot of women have unfortunately fallen for something like that, not necessarily at the same stage as OP. I know I did, a few years ago, and I'm pleased to say my DH is not that guy.....

And that guy,has had a string of repeated incidents just like that....... including getting a young woman overseas pregnant, she leaves husband, comes over to uk, he dumps her 2 weeks after she arrives, saying it was a holiday fling!

MrsTinks

Mely wrote: »

Men usually find pregnancy a turn on when its their own baby that the woman is carrying - not someone elses!

Actually - I think you'll find a lot of blokes find it a turn OFF - because although they have loads of medical research to show that sex doesn't hurt the baby they still get paranoid about denting the baby's head
Less so if it's not THEIR baby

OP - either you love and respect your husband, or you don't.

Make up your mind.

If you do then start communicating like adults - if you don't then be honourable and tell him you'd like a divorce.

(mum of a 7 month old)

CAFCGirl

MrsTine wrote: »

Actually - I think you'll find a lot of blokes find it a turn OFF - because although they have loads of medical research to show that sex doesn't hurt the baby they still get paranoid about denting the baby's head
Less so if it's not THEIR baby

OP - either you love and respect your husband, or you don't.

Make up your mind.

If you do then start communicating like adults - if you don't then be honourable and tell him you'd like a divorce.

(mum of a 7 month old)

But isnt that where dimples come from?

Misstress

If some of the website sites i came across when i goggled 'pregnancy' when i was pregnant a few years back, are anything to go on, then i think there are alot of men who find pregnant womens bodies a turn on :eek:


OP dont go there, the pain (emotional) will be unbearable trust me.

MrsTinks

CAFCGirl wrote: »

But isnt that where dimples come from?

LOL no I don't think so There was little (ok NO) hanky panky during my pregnancy - hubby too freaked about hurting small person ARGH!!!! and DD has the most GORGEOUS dimples

Misstress wrote: »

i think there are alot of men who find pregnant womens bodies a turn on :eek:

Oh definitely! A friend of mine finds pregnant women a HUGE turn on - he however didn't and hasn't to my knowledge made a pass on an attached pregnant woman - but he finds them incredibly sexy - or as he said "lush and blooming, exactly as a woman should be!"

jenhug

I think he is a bit low, doing that when you are vulnerable. If he really loved you I think he would keep his mouth shut.

Mely

MrsTine wrote: »

Actually - I think you'll find a lot of blokes find it a turn OFF - because although they have loads of medical research to show that sex doesn't hurt the baby they still get paranoid about denting the baby's head
Less so if it's not THEIR baby

OP - either you love and respect your husband, or you don't.

Make up your mind.

If you do then start communicating like adults - if you don't then be honourable and tell him you'd like a divorce.

(mum of a 7 month old)

Ive not heard of men finding their pregnant wife a turn off, but i`ll take
your word for it. I cant see how they would think they could damage the baby before its born. It is so well protected, and it certainly didnt affect me and my dh, perhaps thats why we had 4 daughters:rotfl:

MrsTinks

Trust me... it's actually very common

BallandChain

mrcow wrote: »

So Clair - you're online - so tell us - have you cancelled this guy for Chirstmas day yet?

If you loved your husband or meant any of your marriage vows when you said them, it's what you'd do.

It seems she didn't comeback....