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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    I was thinking more as an interim measure. i.e. sharing like you are now, but with someone you get on better with.

    'Twas just an idea.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • PeachPickle
    PeachPickle Posts: 9,924 Forumite
    Thankyou, but no :) I don't want to mess around, want to do it properly
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Well the other idea is to make a small investment in "happy 'baccy " for your parents. Slip it into their tea... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • PeachPickle
    PeachPickle Posts: 9,924 Forumite
    Oh my gosh!!

    I'm having such a weird day! Am now in an outstandingly good mood :D:D:D

    Just rang one of my DCA's to increase one of my payments - cos I'm a good girl ;) - and noticed on the letter that the figure seemed lower than I thought I owed - and it was dated last year!

    So I rang, changed my payment amount and asked casually what the outstanding balance is now. And....


    wait for it, it's good...


    ...


    £350 less than I thought it was! Wooooohoooooooooo! Whappah! Man, that's such good news! Target back in site, no longer feeling guilty about going away, and parents - huh, what parents?!

    Wooooh!

    And so I say to everyone who says good things happen when you stay positive - no no no. No no no. Be as depressed as you like and booom! Something good! Yay!

    Signature update imminent ;)
    DFW Nerd #104 I :heartpuls my Kitten :)and my hat :heartpuls
    OD Girls on Tour 08 - Barcelona - HUGE SUCCESS!
    OD Girls on Tour 09 - Dublin - November!!
    If you believe you can achieve innit!
    Sexy beer?
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
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    awww hun,

    so sorry to hear its all been pants for you......

    Did your 'rents say why they wanna put your rent up? Or did they just think they could because you're saving money and making money on your own back that they think they could jump on board?

    Its unfair if they haven't given a reason for it. And you shouldnt feel guilty or angry with yourself for living with your parents after the debts. Would have been much worse if you hadnt gone home and just continued the debt spiral?

    Anyway I hope you feel better hun... and we're always here for a rant and a moan.........
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • PeachPickle
    PeachPickle Posts: 9,924 Forumite
    Well, things are a bit better now. Haven't seen the parents much, perhaps that's why ;)

    Went out for a few drinks last night, then been out all day today and only spent £20. I'm pleased with that, I don't go out a whole lot so I'm trying not to feel guilty! Gotta save for my weekend away, so I'm telling me now - NO OVERSPENDING!!

    Have sent off my LBA to capital one now, so they've got two weeks to respond before I file my claim. Oh yeah. Hope they don't respond, I quite fancy getting the interest too ;)

    I'm confident of hitting my target now, woooh :)

    That's about it. Been getting a lot of headaches lately. Not big ones, just little niggly ones. It's *really* annoying! Very happy it's getting colder and darker though, I'm very much a winter bunny! :j :j
    DFW Nerd #104 I :heartpuls my Kitten :)and my hat :heartpuls
    OD Girls on Tour 08 - Barcelona - HUGE SUCCESS!
    OD Girls on Tour 09 - Dublin - November!!
    If you believe you can achieve innit!
    Sexy beer?
  • PeachPickle
    PeachPickle Posts: 9,924 Forumite
    Well, had a letter from Capital One today offering me £123, which is about a third of what I'm claiming. It's surprising that I'm very tempted! Won't be taking it though, I want it all :D
    DFW Nerd #104 I :heartpuls my Kitten :)and my hat :heartpuls
    OD Girls on Tour 08 - Barcelona - HUGE SUCCESS!
    OD Girls on Tour 09 - Dublin - November!!
    If you believe you can achieve innit!
    Sexy beer?
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    screw em all hun!
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • moozie_2
    moozie_2 Posts: 3,063 Forumite
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    Well, had a letter from Capital One today offering me £123, which is about a third of what I'm claiming. It's surprising that I'm very tempted! Won't be taking it though, I want it all :D

    Good for you :D Give them hell! :rotfl:
    Leason learnt :beer:
  • PeachPickle
    PeachPickle Posts: 9,924 Forumite
    Thanks guys :D

    I'm planning a debt snowball at the minute. The charges will pay back an overdraft. Then I'll claim charges off that and pay off a CC. Then I'll claim charges on that and... you see where I'm going :D

    Or I might just buy a big drink :rotfl:
    DFW Nerd #104 I :heartpuls my Kitten :)and my hat :heartpuls
    OD Girls on Tour 08 - Barcelona - HUGE SUCCESS!
    OD Girls on Tour 09 - Dublin - November!!
    If you believe you can achieve innit!
    Sexy beer?
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