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Monday 14th December daily chat - 11 more sleeps

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    sallyx wrote: »
    Snags is it really 6 months since you met Mr Sunday...where the hell does time go!

    It is exactly 6 months today! :)

    I haven't been counting really, it's only so memorable because we met on my sister's birthday - she lives near him, and I had been to deliver her birthday present.

    We went for a walk and a drink, and I thought he was lovely, fantastic company, and it was just a really nice afternoon. We didn't even so much as hold hands, so I was really quite shocked when he started chasing me, lol! Should have learned to run faster I think. :rotfl:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    gwon wrote: »
    Hello from the city! :)

    Foo's ye doos?

    You can get a cream for that! :D
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • gwon
    gwon Posts: 38 Forumite
    bank_of_slate wrote: »
    You can get a cream for that! :D
    ...Linda xx
    It was the only Aberdonian phrase that sprung to mind :)

    14 years of living amongst them has turned me into a Scot ;)
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    redsquirrel80 wrote: »
    That's great Snags, not the ideal situation but such a step forward from where you have been :)

    Exactly. I would love him to wake up tomorrow and realise he loves me and can't live without me, but if he did I would probably be terrified and run a mile anyway! I am happy with how things are, I just wanted to understand his feelings better, which I feel like I do now.

    He is a very complicated person, but I guess that's why I like him.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    you certainly never do simple and easy snags! ;)
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    sallyx wrote: »
    you certainly never do simple and easy snags! ;)

    I did that for 12 years and I was bored out of my mind in recent years. :o Mr Sunday makes my heart leap into my mouth, but I still feel safe and comfortable with him, and for now that's worth the complications. :)
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    I am soooo hungry 15 minutes till lunchie time :eek:
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    It is already lunchtime here, mmmmmm, tuna sandwiches.

    Going to see Ryan's school play at 1.30pm. :j
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    I have tuna for dinner - trying to think of something to do with new potatoes and tuna and cabbage - might slice the potatoes thinly and roast them or something hmmmm
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    I did that for 12 years and I was bored out of my mind in recent years. :o Mr Sunday makes my heart leap into my mouth, but I still feel safe and comfortable with him, and for now that's worth the complications. :)

    So he's decided that he can have the bits of a relationship on tap as and when required.
    Are you happy to just accept it for what it is then or do you cut off all privileges to see if that makes him see that he does want you? Because while he still has you on demand there's no reason for him to make his mind up is there?

    What do YOU want to do?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
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