am i missing somthing (mrs dazzanator)

dazzanator

okay okay i get the message load and clear you are all nice mr dazzanator is moaning at me for managing to upset so many people in such a short space of time but i have been impressed by your frendly coments

ss i still think you are daft for going futher overdrawn for somthing you can see on the telly but im sure you will have a good time

kev its not my job to tell my freinds to get of benifts thats down to the pm i still dont blame her for doing it as for bankrupcty for most it end to there nightmares and i think they are brave to admit enough is enough and tell the world they messed up and are starting again again cant blame them for that even those who run debt up just to go bust if your allowed to do it and can get away with it then fair play its up to the goverment to close that loophole what lets them

g p thankyou for your coments and pictures you made me laugh with them

i understand now that 98 per cent of people on here are nice and are not two faced as first said it just i came on here read a few things people was getting harsh words of some of you and i didnt think thats what this site was about and it shocked me i know i am a gobby cow and shoot frist with out thinking so i will say sorry to those i have upset
i will come back on here again when you have calmed down a bit but i will post in oh name but will say it is me and not mr dazzantor so i can get to know you all better and you can get to know me a bit better thankyou all

mrs dazzanator

tesuhoha

I would just like to add that this site is not just for people in debt. Perhaps the DFW board is, but the rest of it is Moneysaving and for everyone who wants to save money and make it work better for them. I am sure you will find lots of interesting advice and opinions when you look through the site as a whole. Also Martin's regular e-mail is very interesting to read and for everyone.

nelly_2

On the one hand a 75 quid meal while struggling seems silly.

However having a small goal or a treat once a month can make life bearable, stop the misery for a bit and inject a little romance into things.

skintchick

I'd just like to say hi Mrs Dazzanator and welcome

spud30

No one will tell you off SS !!

I have to disagree with the comments re two faced posters.

I have had to ask for help and guidance several times recently, and can honestly say that everyone has been really supportive and helpful at what has been a really bad time in my life.

I dont know, I have a day off to go on a school trip and all hell breaks loose !!!

homersimpson_3

I'm scared to go to the world cup now in case someone tells me off!

i hope this comment is a joke - people on mse (and all forums) have different values, attitudes, opinions, life experiences - people will give different perspectives and those different perspectives may make others question or think about things they may not even considered. consider and weigh up any or all of the responses you receive. saying that at the end of the day only you can decide how to live your life. take what you want and need from the forum. just because you read something on a chat forum doesn't mean you have to do it.

tawnyowls

And also the written word has its limitations. Two people can say exactly the same words, but the body language, tone of voice, look on their faces etc will make it crystal clear that one person is being rude/cruel/sarcastic, while the other one is being kind. You don't have that with a web posting or an email, and what can seem a measured, calm comment to the writer could be taken by the reader (especially if they're feeling defensive or upset anyway) as being insufferably smug and high-handed, when it wasn't meant to be anything like that.

beanielou

Welcome MRS D.
We are ok-really!

sammy115

Scottish spendaholic

Will you make a big banner with 'www.moneysavingexpert.com' and scottish spendaholic on it. I would love to see it. I will feel I am at the world cup by proxy!! Not been following the thread but a) are you really going you lucky sod and b) which match will you be seeing.

Prudent

dazzanator wrote:

hi thankyou for you kind words could you please tell csa is and why bankrupcty and benifits and sky wind people up here thanks mrs dazzanator

I can't speak for other people, but I know why the CSA winds me up. I am a single mum, marraige broke down whe child was 10. I am only allowed to cliam maintainence through the csa, no longer can be done through courts. The csa are chronically incompetent.They fail to assess and collect maintainence leaving children in poverty. My ex is a higher earner on 60k per year. He is headteacher, paid by society to care for children's welfare. Yet the csa let him lie and avoid paying for his own daughter's welfare. My daughter has missed out on things like a much needed new coat, a visit to family, a school trip becuase the csa failed to collect money. She is not alone, children across Britain are the loosers because of the csa. Parents with care, who see their children missing out, are wound up about the injustice.