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Weekly Flylady Thread 23rd November 2009

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  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
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    Daily routines
    washing, T W T F S
    swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, T W T F S
    ironing, M T W T F S
    making beds, T W T F S
    vacuuming high traffic areas, T W T F S
    making meals T W T F S

    Night-time routines
    preparing clothes for the next day, T W T F S
    swish & swipes of the kitchen T W T F S
    tidy the living room T W T F S

    Ok here goes this week!

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room

    Level Two
    Wipe out the fridge and get rid of anything gross and slide the stuff that needs using now into your meal plan


    Extras
    1. Wipe down all the paintwork
    2. Clean blinds and light fittings
    3. Dust and deweb.
    Tuesday - living area, hall and stairs
    Level one
    Declutter all these areas

    Vacuum these areas
    Level Two
    Wipe/vacuum sofas
    Wash windows
    Dust.. inc electrical appliances
    Level Three
    Wash any soft furnishings in need
    Binbag dance
    Tidy coats/shoes bags etc
    Extras
    1. Spend half an hour doing something for yourself
    2. HHI
    3. wipe and water plants
    4. Wipe down all the paintwork in these areas
    list for tomorrow, really am off to bed now xx
  • MissHiggerty
    MissHiggerty Posts: 594 Forumite
    edited 24 November 2009 at 12:39AM
    Hi again

    I'll need to cut down the Sitting Room list again tomorrow, as I have to get more stuff done of my own:

    Tuesday - living area, hall and stairs adjusted for Me!:D
    Level one

    Declutter all these areas
    Vacuum these areas
    Level Two
    Wipe/vacuum sofas
    Dust.. inc electrical appliances
    Water plants

    and even more extras to be fitted in this week (red are tomorrow's):
    * Proof read re-revised proofs of paper, following corrections today! (this could run and run....)
    * Turkey (etc?) ordered from butcher
    * [STRIKE]Book Aga and boiler service[/STRIKE] & be in for it on Tuesday
    * Bird seed from village shop and refill
    * Read EON meter & log on-line
    * Empty airing cupboard
    * Sow seeds in g/house
    * Divide lobelia
    * Deal with stock

    * Make scotch broth
    * Pots for patio (turf out old plants)
    * Wyevale for tree guards
    * Plant 4m hedge
    * Finish red tulip bulbs
    * Guests on Friday - make chilli con carne. [STRIKE]Does M need a bed?[/STRIKE] yes he does.
    * Thornton's order: coming Friday onwards
    * Collect DH's suit (prob Friday)
    * Christmas shopping morning (in Big Bad City)
    * New bank account
    * Lights for mounting on study
    beams
    * Finish major o/line Christmas shopping
    * Decide on DD's birthday party
    ideas
    * Contact handyman for various odd jobs (now have 1 day's work to offer)
    * Write postal Christmas cards (esp USA)
    * Signage
    * Tax return next weekend
    * 'Useful people' log


    Hugs to everyone, especially Sexymouse.

    Jassa - I'm sorry, but you did make me laugh about the drawer....:rotfl:

    I don't have pegs (except in the freezer), but I have to arrange my highlighter pens in rainbow sequence on my desktop before I am happy. Is this normal?

    Night all
    MissH
    xxxxx
  • kazmeister
    kazmeister Posts: 3,338 Forumite
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    edited 24 November 2009 at 12:43AM
    Right that was my last catch up before bed.

    Hugs for tomorrow Natty
    Rosepink - sorry you had such a bad day. Dont let it get to you, put it down to their ignorance x
    greenbee - I think the boots have served their time so new toes I dont think will help when the soles are so thin and I really was going to chuck them out when they got coloured in so DS could wear them as part of a fancy dress in a hurry :eek: but then I just put black polish over the top and gave them a vintage look.



    Tomorrow so far looks like this
    • School run
    • Visit friend to show her wedding pics
    • Collect DD late from school after trip
    • Take DD to dentist 4.25
    • Cook tea before DS has to go to TKD at 6
    • Hair appt at 715pm
    Living rooms are not looking too bad at the mo so may just need a little doing but might not get chance.

    See you all at some point tomorrow

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    Tomorrows list so I can find it
    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Extras Clean the oven
    Tuesday - living area, hall and stairs
    Level one
    Declutter all these areas

    Vacuum these areas
    Level Two
    Wipe/vacuum sofas
    Wash windows
    Dust.. inc electrical appliances
    Level Three
    Wash any soft furnishings in need
    Binbag dance
    Tidy coats/shoes bags etc
    Extras
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself
    HHI
    wipe and water plants
    Wipe down all the paintwork in these areas
    My extras
    Update finances
    Work out Christmas budget
    Finish writing present list
    Prepare cards for Pam, Nina & Donna
    Arrange to go and see DC
    Get reprints of photos for Aunty
    Mortgage, we're getting there with the end in sight £6587 07/23, otherwise free of the debt thanks to MSE help!
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,861 Forumite
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    Lots of work half done :rolleyes: but at least if it's started then I should be able to get it finished. I just need some time to actually sit down and write, but I've got my notes in place. I also need to talk to my mentor about the templates I'm using.

    Just had an email from the landscaping people, and it looks as if they'll be pulling down the garage on either thursday (I'm working from home :eek: and can't change it as I have a middle of the day appointment!) or Friday. It will take two days, so hopefully they'll be here on Thursday rather than carrying over into the weekend (although as I'm not here on Saturday I'm not sure it matters). As its asbestos that they're dealing with I'd hoped to arrange to be away. I'll just have to make sure all the doors and windows are closed.

    OMG! Just seen the time. Better get my hot water bottle made and head of to bed.

    Oh yes... and has anyone seen MOAM? I've got some stuff for her at work, but she seems to have gone AWOL - if you're around, I've replied on FB and emailed you at work too :D

    fedup - remind me to pack up and post your parcel on Thursday
  • JillD_2
    JillD_2 Posts: 1,773 Forumite
    Rant alert.

    ARGH I am SO cross and upset :mad::mad::mad:
    We're updating our wills to add guardians for the children. If we are gone and MIL is no longer here we've asked my brother and sister in law to be guardians. Its a big decision, they live in NI (we are in England) and they have no children. But there is noone else.
    I've just had to write a letter to them to go in our wills saying where we'd like them to live, how we would lke them to be brought up etc.

    Meanshile last week my brother asked me what he should get the children for Christmas. He never actually goes to the shops to browse or look or buy things and I always have to send him links to things off amazon.

    In the middle of this horrible enough letter I get an email from my brother refusing to get the things I suggested off amazon just because they dont all have free postage and could I please look again this time being more careful to ensure postage is free.
    :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

    He is not short of money, his last car was a BMW Z3and he has upgraded to something more fancy. They go on flash holidays and have a tiny mortgage. He is a mean mean man. I feel so let down by him, I am asking him to potentially be guardian of my children and he is too stingy to even pay to post their Christmas present.. What a tight git.

    Sorry rant over
    Jan GC: £202.65/£450 (as of 4-1-12)
    NSDs: 3
    Walk to school: 2/47
    Bloater challenge: £0/0lbs

  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    I'd suggest he transfers some money to your account and you can buy them each a gift and put a tag on from him.. they get what they need and you can be all MSE about it and get them something far better than Amazon allows.. Just because they are family doesn't mean they are the best people to have guardianhip of the children, sometimes a friend who is more like you is a better option.
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • JillD_2
    JillD_2 Posts: 1,773 Forumite
    I know I know its just I am already doing that for my Mum and for MIL and I am losing the plot plus the house is like a branch of Toysrus (am sure you will sympathise LOL). Will definitely not be helping him again though and will do exactly what you said.
    On the guardianship thing its so hard. I cant think of anyone else. MIL is down first so providing she is still around .... she is 58 so plenty young.

    Sorry I know my previous post sounds really greedy, its his meanness of spirit that annoys me more than enything, he just isnt interested in the children at all, didnt even come over for the little one's Christening. I know they arent his and not everyone is into children but they are family, and as he is my only brother and DH is an only child , he is their only uncle, argh I am off ranting again sorry.
    Jan GC: £202.65/£450 (as of 4-1-12)
    NSDs: 3
    Walk to school: 2/47
    Bloater challenge: £0/0lbs

  • nopot2pin
    nopot2pin Posts: 5,721 Forumite
    edited 24 November 2009 at 1:43AM
    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One DONE :D[STRIKE]
    Declutter and mop/vacuum floor
    [/STRIKE][STRIKE]Clear and wipe work surfaces [/STRIKE]
    Level Two DONE[STRIKE]
    Wipe units and large appliances
    [/STRIKE][STRIKE]
    Give one small appliance a good clean!
    [/STRIKE]Took toaster apart :D
    [STRIKE]
    Wipe out the fridge and get rid of anything gross and slide the stuff that needs using now into your meal plan
    [/STRIKE]Made courgette and tomato quiche. Also pineapple tartletts :D
    Level Three
    Wipe the table, replace the cloth if needed and dust and deweb!
    wash windows and any other glass.
    Clean through the cupboard full of crockery.. throw out any chipped plates/mugs etc


    Extras
    1. Clean the oven and hob
    2. Wipe down all the paintwork
    3. [STRIKE]Clean blinds [/STRIKE](I was trying to make ice cream, and the whisk got excitable, and exploded some of the contents on the blind) :rolleyes:and light fittings
    4. [STRIKE]Dust and Deweb[/STRIKE]
    Tuesday - living area, hall and stairs

    Level one
    Declutter all these areas
    Vacuum these areas
    Level Two
    Wipe/vacuum sofas
    Wash windows
    Dust.. inc electrical appliances
    Level Three
    Wash any soft furnishings in need
    Binbag dance
    Tidy coats/shoes bags etc


    Extras
    1. Spend half an hour doing something for yourself
    2. HHI
    3. wipe and water plants
    4. Wipe down all the paintwork in these areas
    Own extra's
    1. Gloss woodwork in bathroom - prepped area - just have to paint now
    2. Fix wee bit of skirting in kitchen.
    3. Make red onion marmlade.
    4. Bottle merlot wine
    5. Rack tropical wine
    6. Taste rhubarb and raspberry wine :rolleyes:
    7. Make up white and red wine :DMade sugar syrup
    8. Go to gym at least 4 times this week. 1 down 3 to go:D
    9. Make chickpea and garlic soup. Chickpeas are soaking
    10. Start preparing spare room to be decorated.
    11. [STRIKE]Sort out tupperware cupboard.[/STRIKE] :T
    12. Check car tyres
    13. [STRIKE]Wrap [/STRIKE]and post parcel
    14. Load CD's onto IPOD
  • FunFairPrincess hello you - i am ok - what about you - I see you have been busy - hows the afghan?

    I'm good thanks. Afgahan on the back burner again so that I could stitch my Christmas cards, tree decorations and Aunties birthday card. Will get back to it shortly after all it's been on the go for nearly 6years now another few weeks won't make a difference and my grandchildren may like it!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:Another meeting tomorrow at the school, OH not going as it's Piper's night for the pixies but one of the PTA will nip in to let me know what happened afterwards. Take it easy honey x
    TAG wrote: »
    :j:j YEY! WE HAVE ANOTHER ONE IN THE PEG BAG VALLI!!!:j:j

    See how we did that Toots. Very subtle I think!!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    0002011A.gif 0002011A.gif0002011A.gifPegs should be like a rainbow
    the challenge is to have all your ironing done by New Year's Eve - to start 2010 with an empty ironing basket.

    Do you think you can rise to the challenge? let me know and i will add you to the list

    Already on it are

    AnW's Mum
    Toots
    Froddy
    Natty
    Huston_kw
    penguin83
    toochoosey
    Jassa
    Lady-Liberty
    thriftmonster
    jjef
    Mrs Chaos
    Valli
    TAG
    hollyh
    fedupandskint
    twoflower
    juliejim
    boddy
    mum on a mission
    cyclingyorkie
    macpep1
    Sunnygirl
    carlsberggal
    gratefulforhelp
    SGT


    this is not a competition - there is no prize except feeling good that you are starting a new year with an empty basket - try to encourage each other - we all want to succeed :D
    dont wait until the week (or day:eek:) before to get started - try to do a little bit as often as you can.
    toots xx

    Toots I will NOT be ironing but I'll do an empty washing basket *wonders off thinking about what she's getting in to*

    For real this time 00020404.gif Sleep well see you all in the morning.


    I'm not a muggle...I'm just magically challenged
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    edited 24 November 2009 at 1:55AM
    I fully understand that Jill, I have an uncle as tight as a nuns girdle.. he earns a not so small fortune when he is working, has thousands in the bank and would not give you a penny if you were starving unless he stood to gain from it. He isn't a horrible person but is so very mean. When I think of the opportunities I could offer my children given the finances he has, and the options that would be open for us, it all seems a bit unfair. I just consider the htings I have in my life which make me rich; my children, the love I have for them and them for me, my family and few friends that mean a great deal to me. the laughter and enjoyment just from being alive.. money cannot buy you that and material possessions cannot bring it, we earn that in the way we live our lives.. so yes, I fully understand what you are saying.. BUT .. as you will live to be a grand ripe old geriatric age it is all superfluous.

    ETA.. reminds me of the ancient Chas and Dave song.. mustn't grumble...

    I had an old uncle as mean as can be
    he said when I die you'll get nothing from me
    mustn't grumble... mustn't grumble
    All he left me was an old overcoat but I found in the pocket a £50 note..
    mustn't grumble.. mustn't grumble!!

    and the rest of the song is pretty amusing and apt...

    *giggles* You can now possibly work out my anciently old self lol..
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
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