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  • Careful_girl
    Careful_girl Posts: 938 Forumite
    Ah poor WL just did a bit more work and she had gone. Hang in there WL. Men never understand when we need them to, or the wrong ones do, but we keep making them try. Hugs to you WL
    UB you star just what I could eat! will be up the M1 in a bit.:T
    Love to all,
    CG:beer:
    "You can if you think you can."
    George Reeves
  • Careful_girl
    Careful_girl Posts: 938 Forumite
    :j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j That us that is.:T :T :T :T :T :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer:
    "You can if you think you can."
    George Reeves
  • whatamess_2
    whatamess_2 Posts: 2,956 Forumite
    So sorry everyone is feeling blue today (((hug))).
    Tomorrow is another day hope its a better one.



    My ex `it` has decided to forward my emails that go into his inbox, he has been getting them for weeks but only just decides to send them.

    Bit of good news got £360 for my ebay stuff this week. :j So will have some money for ds2 who is 18 on friday.:eek: God I feel old.
    All the birdies that were quiet because it was so hot are having a last minute song.

    Love Messy
  • ukbadger_2
    ukbadger_2 Posts: 143 Forumite
    Just got an email from date - apparently he turned up and waited for an hour.

    Hangs head in shame and scuttles off to get more choc.

    He SO should have confirmed details rather than just turn up though !!
  • Careful_girl
    Careful_girl Posts: 938 Forumite
    Can I have him?
    Sounds worth it already. He could be a real prince charming!!
    "You can if you think you can."
    George Reeves
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    cantcope wrote:
    I'm feeling blue already today. It is a year since I first met and instantly fell in love with my Ex :( finding it really hard. I feel like I wasted the last year of my life with someone i though loved me as much as i loved them.


    :(

    I hope you have got through the day
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Miroslav I understand what you mean. I know a chap who says he is always ahead of all the counsellors and I have never found a solution with their help. Not saying they don't do a good job. The only person who can run your life is yourself and react to all the things that life chucks at us. We need love and support. I think the idea about volunteering is great. Everyone needs to feel valued. That is one reason I work with in my school I have lots of love to give the families there. Don't jump in too deep just help out in what you like doing. What about the time bank? Could you do DIY for someone? Even helping looking after animals if you like them. I have always helped people with animals and children. There is a bunch of people who cultivate bits of waste ground in towns to make the place look better. I am sure there are loads of skills you have that somebody is screaming out for. Ther are old people and teenagers. Are there any Britney groups? A Bitney party with some likeminded fans may be a laugh!!
    Sorry if I am waffling!!
    Oh just remembered. Be careful with your diet as it really effects your mood. Bananas are good for being anti depressants but do some research on the net and add bits to the junk or try to regulate it a bit. Complete vitamins have all the trace elements in too, might be worth a thought. It would be good if you could ease your mind a bit.
    Loads of love to all,

    You say we all need love and support, but it's been so long, I don't think I need it anymore. I'd like it, but i've got this far on my own.

    I'm looking at volunteering with something that makes a difference to someone, i'd like to make someone smile :) I want to give to those who don't have much joy :)

    I don't want anything too physical, my health won't allow that right now. I thought about helping keep the country park nice, but it may be too much.

    I have lots to offer :)

    Britney groups, nah, I don't know anyone who even likes her :( It would have to be females anyway. I'm not sure I could ever be friends with a male after a previous experience. I can be acquaintances, but nothing too much. I don't know if Britney has many female fans :confused:

    Never knew that about Banana's, i'll have to buy some and see if it helps :)
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Men never understand when we need them to, or the wrong ones do, but we keep making them try.

    That's where I go wrong, I try to understand so hard, that ladies seem to think i'm weak for being sensitive and not someone who downs 20 beers and swears every other word :o
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    whatamess wrote:
    Bit of good news got £360 for my ebay stuff this week. :j So will have some money for ds2 who is 18 on friday.:eek:

    :T :T
  • zombiecazz
    zombiecazz Posts: 535 Forumite
    UKB your ex sounds like a real w**ker. He's so obviously thinking only about himself and not his DD daughters feelings. You're definately best rid of him. Just remember that life is a learning experience and that "what doesn't break you can only make you stronger". There are good guys out there, just waiting for a fab lady like you. keep your chin up, look after yourself and look to the future.:grouphug:
    "A banker is a fellow who lends you his umbrella when the sun is shining, but wants it back the minute it begins to rain." Mark Twain
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