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Careful_girl

Messy knows much more than me but I would imagine that agreeing some sort of boundaries would be a good idea. Perhaps money might also be a friction causing issue. Trouble is that these discussions can cause friction in themselves. Not sure, just some thoughts.
I moved back with my parents Mum put a TV and sofa in the bedroom, I appreciated it but felt a bit as though I was supposed to stay in my room. She also continuously cooked my meals and left them for me to reheat. I felt a bit like a teenager. Otherwise I think it was OK but I spent lots of time at the gym and at school working.
Dunno if that helps at all! :rolleyes:
Love to all,
CG.:o

cantcope

Having friends round wouldnt be a problem as i would go to their places. Luckily all my friends still live where i grew up so will be nice and close.

Mum WILL cook my meals. just to make sure i'm eating properly but thats not a problem. rather her than me lol. Housework isnt a problem I am happy to help out and will always offer. Theres a tv with freeview in my room already and if bro moves out i'll be back in my childhood room which is the same as when i left it, except its got a sweaty man smell in it now

Been thinking about something else too and have discussed it with mate tonight. Do you think maybe it would be nice if i stayed at a friends maybe once a fortnight so my folks get some time alone together. Friend says its ok with her....

Mum is a bit better now. She's home but still very tired and gets panicky being alone. Just need to get her blood levels up with iron now so they can do the heart tests. (They didnt do them in hospital because her levels still weren't high enough despite a transfusion). Saw her for a bit this evening and she seems brighter. Its folks wedding anniversary tomorrow and they are going out for a meal. Hope the treat will make her smile.

Off to bed now. So much to think about. Just hoping and praying my brother moves out soon so that i can put things in action.

Careful_girl

Pleased your Mum is somewhat better. Sweaty man smell will be fine to get rid of....hey Damp Cottage doesn't smell now only a bit in some cupboards. Windows open works better than airfresheners IMO.
I think the idea of staying at friend's is a great idea gives all a break.
Hope your sweaty bro moves out soon, and your M&D have a lovely anniversary.
CG:j

cantcope

me too thanks all

wannabe

Thanks everyone - am feeling like poo, not the winnie variety. I am usually 'well ard' when it comes to being ill and think i am invincible but this has wiped the floor with me. Doc has given me very strong penicillin so should be bouncing around again like tigger in no time.
UKB i am so proud of you girl - keep strong and keep us posted
Any more piccies to cheer me up mc?
cc i think staying at a friends will be good for all of you
cg hope you are ok and thanks for the support
how are things with you messy?
wb x

Careful_girl

I think that is a VERY good idea. MC get out and about and take some more pics. We don't have you on here for nothing young man.;)
Sorry to hear that you are so ill Wannubs. Get better soon. I have had an email telling me I am skiving from some jumped up NQT (who is my friend) she gave me the bug!!!Bless her made me laugh. I have missed 2 staff meetings now. Must go in tomorrow we have another (twilight to give us the days off) and it is on Dance. I am useless at Dance teaching always end up wth them racing round the hall and them laughing at my stupid interpretations. So will go and learn something I hope. Dance teaching in our school is always a bit of a touchy subject so the tutor will get some good questions.
Get better Wannubs,
Get out MC!
Take care all the rest.
CG.:o

hazseljord

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mclaren_2

hazseljord wrote:

Not sure if this is allowed to be posted here but if not can someone please remove.


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mclaren_2

Careful_girl wrote:

I think that is a VERY good idea. MC get out and about and take some more pics. We don't have you on here for nothing young man.;) Get out MC!

and here was me thinking i was on here for my personality .....

hazseljord

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