finding friends

whatamess_2

Really glad to hear that badger. :D


Him getting his comeuppance (sp?) too. :j:j:j

Good luck with the job hunt.:D

Messy

glicky

Badger

I've not posted with you before but have read your posts. Can I make one comment please? PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT SEE HIM AGAIN! That's all I ask of you. :A

If you want to know why then I'll tell you, but please try not to. I hope you don't mind me interfering.

wannabe

Hi everyone
I can't believe we are still getting new posts thats fab hi Glicky good to see ya.
As for me I am icky - got tonsillitus - feeling very sorry for self but feeling even worse because feel so guilty - all you teachers know how it is, we are only supposed to be ill during the holidays. The head is being a cow because I am off, gotta go back tomorrow or god knows what the rest of the week will be like.
Hope all are ok - loved the photos mc really fab, I wanna go there now - umm... might look into half term
gotta go back to bed
excuse any typos
wb xxx

Careful_girl

Oh Wannubs sorry to hear you're feeling ill. Tonsilitis is horrible. No way that you can teach. You are unlucky to have a head who doesn't understand. I am lucky that most of my heads have been understanding, and it is true that if you go back too early it takes longer to be back on form.
We have had this strange virus fluie thing and I went back last week too early(had the assembly to prepare and do and then I only had half a day on Fri due to PPA) and have had another bad weekend resulting in me being in bed all day today and won't go in tomorrow either. I feel guilty too but only to the children. My class take ages to learn concepts and I need to be there bashing away at helping them understand. At least some supply teacher is getting a day's work. If you have to go in then do but leave as soon as you can and pamper yourself. Plan easy things which the children can peer mark. I had a head once when I was teaching in the wilds of Northumberland who once who told me that nobody would come out that farif I was ill. I don't believe that this was true she was just too lazy and disorganised to arrange supply.
So GET BETTER SOON WANNUBS and cheers:beer: Lemsips and Beechams !!

Be strong UKB!!You are worth more than to be with him.(Not that it is easy and i can talk!:rolleyes: )
Take care all,
CG.

ukbadger_2

Been much better today and after the following phone call received today realised I don't love him ! And I mean it !! Whooo hooo !

He called me this afternoon to say he would be sending me the money over the weekend and that he was going to get rid of my number as it wasn't fair him keeping in touch. Told him I have no desire to get back or meet him again as he just wasn't worth the upset.

Asked me if I had really written a letter to 'her indoors' and I said I was about 3/4 of the way through it - it is quite a story in retrospect. He said he didn't want me to send it - obviously he just wants me to disappear and let him get on with things which is what I am doing but he's going to be twitchy for a while yet. Said he didn't want me to hate him and him to hate me - why should he hate me - I've bent over backwards to try and make him happy ?

Said he is with her but not with her in any sort of romantic sense and that she says she has no such feelings - they are just going to try and make things work for the boys. Said at the time he really did think he loved me and wanted me to be happy , get a new job , new man etc so I said I've already met someone and he starts the same old crap don't settle for second best , you can get someone much better than I think I deserve (Rich coming from him) and that I am really special etc etc.

Anyway - finally he gets round to the real issue - did I get the morning after pill and I said no and that the chances were pretty high I could be due to timings etc - asked when I was due and I said next weekend and said he would ring on Tuesday to find out. I told him if I was he knows I would probably be unable to terminate due to losing 2 babies in past two years - so then he starts saying no man is going to want to be with you if you are pregnant with my baby and you'll be lonely , unhappy etc etc. Either way I know I'll cope so that's not a concern really - said he would call next Tuesday.

Anyway other things are more important - got a few new jobs in the pipeline , lots of things planned this week to keep me busy and the possibility of that date later in the week.

whatamess_2

Well done ukb, sounds like you are better off being shot of the twerp!!!


Go on the date and have fun!!:D


Hope you get better soon wanubs.

Love all

Messy

Careful_girl

Well done UKB. We will be here on Tuesday and always.
Flippin' men. Sorry MC, but they do cause us trouble.
CG:o

mclaren_2

Careful_girl wrote:

Well done UKB. We will be here on Tuesday and always.
Flippin' men. Sorry MC, but they do cause us trouble.
CG:o

i could say hte same about women........

cantcope

Hi All.

I am thinking of moving home when my lease ends in Feb providing my brother has moved out. I can be debt free by next Christmas if i do rather than summer 09.

How do i make it as easy as possible though? I've lived alone for 6 years and used to fight like cat and dog with my mum.
We are best friends now but how do i make sure it stays that way?

I'll be paying minimal rent and doing my own washing/ironing so dont see that there will be a problem. Have agreed to hide in my room for a week when i have PMT.

Anything else i should think of?

whatamess_2

Hi cc. How is your mum now?

Its meals, and house work that can cause frictions

I let my eldest at home lead, with in reason, his own life now.

With the instructions that if he comes in late not to wake me unless he wants a slap.


Do you have friends around very often? That could potentially cause conflicts too.

If its going to help you sort your finances though, its surely a good thing.

Messy