hello newbie so be gentle

fiveyearplan

The new SOA looks fine to me.

meganstaff

thanks both x

DEPTFREE2010

looks good to me x

meganstaff

thanks everyone i will go with that then fill paperwork in tomorrow and phone court for appointment prob for 1st march, thanks for all your comments and help on this. gill

meganstaff

Well i just realised what good friends i have. My friend just came up and is lending me the money for my bankruptcy to sort it out this week.I cant believe it, now im panicking i got to fill these forms in asap and sometime this week i hope a weight will be off my shoulders,where do i start help. I always thought i had good friends and since losing Jason ive lost a few who i thought were friends but then ive made some true ones who have stuck by me thru everything and that means so much to me. people i never really knew well before have shown thier true clours and i have them for life and ive made many online that ive never even met and thank you all. This time last yr i was barely functioning and im still struggling but im getting there. i never thought id still be here now but i am and im fighting. love gill

confused76

that's great news on the fees. don't panic on the forms, they won't take you long once you get stuck in. it's true in difficult times friends show their true colours and it's not always who you think who are your true friends.

i'm glad you've got a good friend there

meganstaff

Thats so true and the biggest thing ive learnt, people who i thought i knew, well lets just say i didnt.I've also learnt how strong my other children are, how much i love them and life is certainly too short, ive changed my way of thinking on lots of things. My stomach churning now cos its actually happening, but if it makes sense im scared too. This last few weeks i been focusing everything on sorting my finances out but im scared that when its done im gonna fall to pieces cos ive no focus and i got to face up to what i been hiding from this last yr, does that make sense cos it dont too me x

fiveyearplan

It makes perfect sense! You will have plenty to focus on but they will be good things like your children, regaining your health and moving forward.

As for the forms, you know where we are if you need help with them.

I know this might not be any comfort right now but really BR is nothing to worry about. It is a very simple painless procedure that should be over very quickly. I'll be you come back on here (like many other people) saying you didn't know what all the fuss was about!

confused76

meganstaff wrote: »

Thats so true and the biggest thing ive learnt, people who i thought i knew, well lets just say i didnt.I've also learnt how strong my other children are, how much i love them and life is certainly too short, ive changed my way of thinking on lots of things. My stomach churning now cos its actually happening, but if it makes sense im scared too. This last few weeks i been focusing everything on sorting my finances out but im scared that when its done im gonna fall to pieces cos ive no focus and i got to face up to what i been hiding from this last yr, does that make sense cos it dont too me x

it does make sense. one day at a time you will get there, i know you will. x

ultimatedingbat

I want to send you all my love. I understand your pain and hope it gets better. All i can say (in terms of the minimal I know bout bankrupcy) is that you would most likely be allowed internet on the ground of your daughter, who would need it for school