Trying For a Baby part 4

MERFE

Morning everyone

tinkwings try not to read too much into the dreams, it'll just be the stress.

jenny sorry to hear you are arguing with OH, I had alot of problems with OH last year after the first MC. I think it was the shock for us both and he went on to have a mini mid life crisis i think,He is back to normal now and we had a great summer and were both so pleased when I found out I was pregnant again. He has been ok this time but said if it happens again he does want to try anymore because it is upsetting each time. He is also desparate to get back to some bd, hasnt had any since I started bleeding nearly a month ago now (it was very on off to start but didnt want to do anything to make it worse, lot of good that did). I think he still has a week or two to wait and i dont think he'll cope. We are both looking forward to trying again.

smartie12

shazrobo wrote: »

smartie, i had the more than spotting bleed on saturday, and thought af had come early, had the brown stuff during that night, , and the pink cm today what cd are you on hun? i'm on my 27th

I'm CD31. No more bleeding/spotting of any sort

Oh my :eek: the rain this morning was awful!!! The roads are all flooded and I got soaked!

Yo confuzzled.... nice to see you again!!;):D Hope you're ok hunx

I have to have the flu jabs too tink (even though I might of had swine fly already:rolleyes:) as I have no immune system. Which reminds me I must book my blood test. I always forget and get letters to remind me.... oooops!:o

Hugs to those who need them.... and no more BFP's until I get mine thank you!!;)

jennyfleur77

Merfe, thanks so much! I think its stressd us both out more than we realise! Have you had 2 m/c's? x

**confuzzled**

smartie12 wrote: »

Yo confuzzled.... nice to see you again!!;):D Hope you're ok hunx

I'm ok thanks, holiday was really nice and although constantly surrounded by family we still managed to bd...and on the right day:eek: Mentioned it to DH before we left so he made a special effort to get me alone;) Bless:D Although being with my nephew and niece has confirmed to us both that regardless of anythin and everything, we want kids:D My heart ached having to leave the 2 brats, but we have them coming to us for xmas so far:eek: So thats 15 I'll be catering for now..I must be mental:rolleyes::D Plus the kids wanna stay for New Years so double YAY:j Think poor hubby will be sick of football and Ben10 by the time nephew goes home:rotfl::rotfl:Don't think I'llever get sick of playing barbies/make-up/hair though:o:p

smartie12 wrote: »

Hugs to those who need them.... and no more BFP's until I get mine thank you!!;)

Yeah didn't you lot know there was a rota for who gets their bfp?! Darn queue jumpers:rolleyes::p:rotfl:

xx

shazrobo

af got me this morning :mad: spent most of the day crying, then feeling angry, its so not fair.
fingers crossed for you smartie, and anyone else due to test

smartie12

shazrobo wrote: »

af got me this morning :mad: spent most of the day crying, then feeling angry, its so not fair.
fingers crossed for you smartie, and anyone else due to test

(((hugs)))

What I find helps is to think AF is day 1 of a brand new cycle;) And hopefully that cycle will be "the one"

Sammy_Girl

Sorry to hear the evil witch got you Shaz

I agree with Smartie, it's CD1 of a brand new cycle

Sounds like you had a good break Confuzzled. Wow, busy Xmas for you! For the first time ever it's going to be just me, DH and the dog for Xmas this year - can't wait

Hope everyone is having a good day x

justmarried06

Morning ladies - and some big old hugs coming for those who need them and some massive congrats for all those I've missed on the BFP front!!!

No news here, am one day off the 2WW so going to try and jump DH (again ;-) ) tonight - so could I be added to the list for Fri 20th Nov please?

I get shivers every time I put a new date down.......fingers crossed it'll happen this month, we've been trying to catch since Jan so starting to get a 'bit' grumpy about it (for 'bit' read thoroughly furious......!!!)

Lots of love and sticky baby dust!

JM xx

**confuzzled**

BFPs - CAFC, B2B, Katy, elliebobs, Astro_k, Sir Monster, hobo123, Catw0man Well done ladies! What a bumper crop this month :T:j

Just found the above and can I say WOW:eek: Bunch of hussys:p:rotfl:
CAFC & Katy I knew about(& congratulated!), the rest.....HUGE CONGRATS to you all:j:j I know a couple of you have had 'issues' before so those that have I'm double crossing everything(except the obvious, they're crossed just for now;)) for you:D Just one thing.....can you tell me your secret please?!:)

MERFE

jenny yep this was mc number 2, i did not look as far forward this time as i was a bit anxious the whole time, then saw heartbeat and thought everything was going to be ok. Previous MC was june 2008 so we had about a year where everything would be fine then kick off, then ok again until about may this year when something seemed to just click for OH and he realised he needed to make his family a priority. I was a SAHM when we had the previous MC but I was offered a job and grabbed it about a month after (I think OH also struggled with me going back to work),it worked well as a good distraction but this time I'm thinking how much i'd love to be a SAHM again and that I'm missing out on the kids i do have by rushing them home from school then going to work and not having time for them in the evening to read or go to the park etc. I'm thinking I might not go back to work at all but its hard, i will be letting people down.

This might sound really weird but when I was about 18 I went as a laugh with a mate to see a psychic and they said I'd have only 2 children. I had the first 2 no problems so it seems we are not destined to have the 3 we would like.

BFP vibes to smartie x