Trying For a Baby part 4

Metranil_Vavin

Thank jenny...doesnt help when you only have a limited 'window' of opportunity each month to conceive and it means jumping on OH and having (quite often) an un-romantic sh*g (sorry to be crude!), often when we're both tired and not in the mood at all!


And of course until you start trying you dont know if you can even have babies..another worry!

Honestly you spend your youth trying NOT to get preg and panicking at a split condom or missed pill, when really its b*oody hard to get preg in the first place!

smartie12

Hugs for all x

I'm still feeling a bit sicky

I am embracing the world of smileys again

jennyfleur77

:laugh: smartie, that made me really chuckle!!

MV, we are the same, in fact, its been so long since me and OH have dtd that i'm not sure either of us will know what to do! when i was pg, i felt so rough i didn't want him to come anywhere near me, and then 2 op's later we haven't been able to! it can become very robotic, and sometimes ttc can take the fun out of it! i don't know what to suggest hun, maybe have some 'fun sex' when you know there is no chance of you getting pg? then the only reason you'll be doing it is to make each other feel good? then that may take the pressure off the 'important' times!! Chin up hun xx (((HUGS)))

Sammy_Girl

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Honestly you spend your youth trying NOT to get preg and panicking at a split condom or missed pill, when really its b*oody hard to get preg in the first place!

I totally agree with this!!! If I knew then what I know now, I prob wouldn't have bothered with the worry!!

Smarties, loving the smilies...esp the vomiting one _pale_. I hope you feel better soon.

Sorry ladies, can you remind me how old you are? I'm 30 (31 next month) and TTC for number 1

smartie12

Why don't you ladies who are finding TTC unromantic treat yourself to something off of a "website";);):D

I have... and DH doesn't know

No it's not rude:rolleyes::p

moneysaver12

Hi everyone, am thinking of you catwomen. Its my day off from uni, sat here working on my assignment, trying to get it finished so i can move on to the next one. How is everyone today. Trying not to get my hopes up and then for them to be dashed. Af is due on friday.

smartie12

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

I totally agree with this!!! If I knew then what I know now, I prob wouldn't have bothered with the worry!!

Smarties, loving the smilies...esp the vomiting one _pale_. I hope you feel better soon.

Sorry ladies, can you remind me how old you are? I'm 30 (31 next month) and TTC for number 1

I'm 31 (I think) and TTC number 2 for me, number 1 for DH. I had DS when I was 17 so I do feel like I'm TTC for the first time:o

tinkwings

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

I totally agree with this!!! If I knew then what I know now, I prob wouldn't have bothered with the worry!!

Smarties, loving the smilies...esp the vomiting one _pale_. I hope you feel better soon.

Sorry ladies, can you remind me how old you are? I'm 30 (31 next month) and TTC for number 1

I am 36 DH is 34 it will be his first. I had my daughter when I was 24 she is now 12! When it happens BIG age gap!!! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

**confuzzled**

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Sorry ladies, can you remind me how old you are? I'm 30 (31 next month) and TTC for number 1

25(26 in Dec) and TTC Numero Uno, thought it'd be a doddle but 9 cycles later.......:(

smartie12 wrote: »

Why don't you ladies who are finding TTC unromantic treat yourself to something off of a "website";);):D

I have... and DH doesn't know

No it's not rude:rolleyes::p

If it aint rude what is it?!?! I can only think of nice chocs but then again I have a 2 track mind at the mo and they're ttc & chocolate:D

**confuzzled**

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Trying not to get my hopes up and then for them to be dashed. Af is due on friday.

Stay away from the sticks;):D Only 3 more get ups til Friday hun, not that long:) x

smartie12 wrote: »

I'm 31 (I think)

Just noticed this and have to ask....why the ?????????????