Trying For a Baby part 4

katyj10

ah Rummer, not sure why it is your last chance but I will keep 'em all crossed for you. I didn't have implantation bleed this time round - I don't think it's as common as people think. Sometimes early AF symptoms or spotting brings on 'wishful thinking' so that may be why a lot of people talk about it.

Moneysaver as Bitzer says really, I would wait until (at least) AF day then do a sensitive test like First Response. Note the packaging can be a bit misleading as the earlier that you test the less likely it is to pick it up. The packaging says something like "up to 5 days early" but if you read the leaflet in the box it explains the percentages that people pick up early results. I think from a MSE point of view if you can wait 'till the day of AF you'll save yourself a fortune!

Enjoy your wine everyone! sleepytiger your 'glass' story made me titter, how funny. Sounds like you need to talk to your OH and get him to limit the 'private sessions' he is having. BD doesn't always go smoothly, it's not easy but you need to find something that works for both of you... not sure what that would be but if you can be the distraction it might help if you get a sexy outfit, a naughty DVD or have some music on or something to help him focus on you? sorry that sounds a bit lame when I write it down but it might be worth a try.

Katy

kitkat5566

Hi, sorry just catching up haven't been online for a few days;

Congrats to Katy and Astro! Really pleased for you guys.

Loads of hugs to everyone, this month has been tough!

skintscotslass

jennyfleur77 wrote: »

Katy, your message actually brought a tear to my eye, i'm so so happy for honey, make sure you do as they say and rest rest rest xx

astro_k wrote: »

I'm sitting here in shock.... Just back from my scan.... And like katyj, I'm totally gobsmacked to have been given good news - the little baby looks fine, even saw the heartbeat, and I'm 8+2

sniff...oh I'm quite teary myself. Its such great news xx

sleepytiger wrote: »

Hehe, OH has just wandered through drinking out of the glass that I use for urine samples and suchlike. Should I tell him?

And that made me laugh!!!

jennyfleur77

I hope you all enjoyed your wine

bitzer_maloney

Morning all, well I POAS this morning as I'm either 12 or 6dpo and bfn. Not particularly bothered as I'm not sure which of those 2 ov dates are right. I am however nauseous as hell, I just tried to make myself sick to see if that would stop it, but it didn't work. Maybe I've got the lurgy from somewhere

Love and babydust to you all xx

**confuzzled**

Testing List
Fri 30th Oct - Getting Hitched ?????????????????????????????????
Sat 31st Oct - BamNaggy, MsBella ?????????????????????????????
Fri 20th Nov - tinkwings, Just married
[STRIKE]Sat 21st Nov - Courgette[/STRIKE]
Fri 27th Nov - Gettingthereslowly aka GTS , Skintscotslass aka SSL:), Moneysaver12
Sat 28th Nov - LauraLou
Fri 4th December - Rummer

Is the list uptodate?!?!? Let me know if its not please:)

Bitzer sorry you're feeling icky but I hope it's something else and not the lurgy;):)

Welcome to newbies, if you go to the 1st page there's a link on there with all the ttc abbreviations we use

((((HUGS)))) to those that need them

I'm feeling quite optimistic for some reason, no idea why Might be because AF has finally gone and we can crack on with bd'ing:D We're in for a marathon month......we'll be bd'ing every 3 day:eek: Crikey I'm going to be sooooo exhausted:rotfl: Well we'll see how long we can manage it for but hopefully we can do it:) Not sure why but being on cycle 9 has given me and extra push to get pg..might be because cycle 12 isn't that far away:rolleyes: Anyhoo, that enough from me........better get some work done....if I have any to do that is:)

Sticky Babydust to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

smartie12

Morning

I hope that all those that needed hugs yesterday are feeling a little better today:A

Oooo feeling sick Bitzer;) You just never know! Sorry you got BFN but it looks like you might be testing a little too early. I know what you're going through with the 2 possible OV dates... remember my 2 positive OPK's nearly a week apart?:o

Ummm nothing going on here in the smartie household TTC wise. Oh BUT DH has the week off next week... and looking ahead MMC has lots of little cutie bunny rabbits:j Guess what he'll be doing during his week off???;):rotfl:

Hugs to all x

tinkwings

katyj10 wrote: »

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and tinks, sorry you're having a bad day, hope tomorrow is better. I sometimes find when DH is being an !!!! that being ever nicer to him back makes him snap out of it (and I can secretly laugh at him). It's not nice to have bad feeling hanging in the air. Could you ask him out on a date for this weekend and have a nice time and try to put the differences behind you? Sorry if I'm misunderstanding what's happened. It's just that my DH never says sorry even when he is wrong - not that that's very often mind!

At least you can have a rant on here and get it out of your system.

Take care all,
Katy x

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Thank You Kathy. You have got it correct . I think we need time out together.

I am starting Reflexology treatment on Friday in the hope that it will help with TTC & to get me to Chillax. Had it done once before and it was very freaky she picked up on my asthma straight away! Have read lots of articles that say it can also help with TTC! Fingers crossed

Have a wonderful day ladies huge hugs xoxo :A

bitzer_maloney

smartie12 wrote: »

Morning

I hope that all those that needed hugs yesterday are feeling a little better today:A

Oooo feeling sick Bitzer;) You just never know! Sorry you got BFN but it looks like you might be testing a little too early. I know what you're going through with the 2 possible OV dates... remember my 2 positive OPK's nearly a week apart?:o

Ummm nothing going on here in the smartie household TTC wise. Oh BUT DH has the week off next week... and looking ahead MMC has lots of little cutie bunny rabbits:j Guess what he'll be doing during his week off???;):rotfl:

Hugs to all x

I remember that well Smartie, infuriating isn't it?! :mad: I know I'm testing quite early, but I normally have a 10-day LP, so am trying to test before AF appears to see if I *can* get pg. If I ov'd on the second date then yes, I'm way off, but 12 days I though was early but permissable Saying that, I normally have a 26-day cycle and I'm on CD33...:rolleyes:

Metranil_Vavin

Morning ladies :hello::hello:

Sleepytiger I can relate to some of things you mentioned. When I met my OH he had some serious hang ups about sex. By all accounts his sex life with his ex-wife had been practically non-existant for some years and I dont think she did much for his self confidence.

Fortunately I think he's ace and made sure I told him all the time, and gradually things sorted themselves out.

I'm excited but also kind of dreading the end of this month as I was so disappointed last when I got my BFN...this month I think we nailed the best days so to speak, so fingers crossed....

Big congrats for the ladies with babies cooking up a treat! :beer: