Trying For a Baby part 4

jacobsmum

hi everyone how are you all today? cd 8 and did a opk which was positive i think? it was pretty dark not as dark as the other line but not far off it,dtd anyways and oh has agreed to dtd every day for a while (not that it took alot of pursuading!(sp?) )
had some news aswell my sil is preg, i had a good cry and oh was saying why am i crying, i should be happy for them which i am but still hit me hard if you know what i mean?! so thats 6 friends and family to get preg in the past 3 months!!
xx

Lauralou

enjoy the BD jacobsmum!;);)
I know everyone seems to be pg at the moment, just went on facebook and saw a pic of my friends lil baby had a little cry.
Just got to think it will happen one day!

becs

Jacobsmum I totally get where you're coming from. I found out my sil is pg when they announced it on facebook! They've only been trying about 3 months and Dh and I are coming up for 3 years. I just can't even bring myself to congratulate them yet as it's just too raw! I will probably be ok in a few days so will have to do it then. It's just self preservation. Fortunately we never see them as they live abroad so won't have to go through all that as well. There's also 4 girls at work pg at the moment as well so surrounded by it.

jacobsmum

becs wrote: »

Jacobsmum I totally get where you're coming from. I found out my sil is pg when they announced it on facebook! They've only been trying about 3 months and Dh and I are coming up for 3 years. I just can't even bring myself to congratulate them yet as it's just too raw! I will probably be ok in a few days so will have to do it then. It's just self preservation. Fortunately we never see them as they live abroad so won't have to go through all that as well. There's also 4 girls at work pg at the moment as well so surrounded by it.

the thing is out of the 6 thats preg maybe 1 planned it! we actually used to go see my bro n sil alot (nearly every weekend) but we havent recently.I havent cong them either as i think i would just burst into tears if i spoke to ne1 except oh and ds at the mo, as i know that everyone in my family will be all ''are you ok'' or ''itll be your turn next'' and it upsets me more!! sorry having a bit of a rant,
going to get my btl of rose to calm down now any one want some......





ahwell will have to drink it all myself:rolleyes:

xx

becs

Well Dh was talking to his dad last night about his bro's news (He knows we have been trying since we got married nearly 3 years ago, and the tumour and everything) and his dad actually said to him last night "You'll have to get cracking!" !!!!!!! :mad:

Lauralou

jacobsmum you got any white wine dont like rose??:rotfl:!
oh dear becs, some people just dont have the right words to say!

Im really liking the new ttc list, nice to see everyone's ttc journey. and i can see a list off everyone who is on this thread!!

jacobsmum

Lauralou wrote: »

jacobsmum you got any white wine dont like rose??:rotfl:!
oh dear becs, some people just dont have the right words to say!

i may have a btl or two!!;)
i second that some people really dont know what to say

Was trying to tell oh about the whole oving,opks thing and i really dont think he understood a word i told him! he was just trying to make me feel better by talking about it all bless him.
how are you feeling today lauralou?

xx

jacobsmum

also forgot becs could you update my stats (3 m/c) please
xx

Lauralou

jm(can i call you jm-makes its quicker when typing your name!!)
Im feeling ok thanks,a bit up and down, had a few lil teary moments today. Didnt realise you had 3 m/cs, did you have any tests done? Dont want to sound rude or anything but in a way its 'nice'(well not nice that you went through it as well) to see that someone quite young as well has been through 3m/cs as well, kinda makes me feel that im not the only young'un going through all this.(hope i havnt upset you at all)

See thats why im liking the list im learning new things about people!!

becs

Yep I think the new list is really working. I think because there are so many of us now it's hard to remember who is who and what things in particular we're all struggling with.