Trying For a Baby part 4

MERFE

hi jenny, no particular reason, I just feel really tired so I have no patience with the kids today and they not doing anything really bad, just have loads of energy and I dont.
I did work out I should qualify for SSP though so I wont be completely broke next month, and just called OH and he is nearly finished at work so should be home in about an hour, phew.

Courgette

Afternoon ladies, I'm angling for some hugs

Feel rubbish today. Had such an amazing wedding and honeymoon but it's been a severe case of back to Earth with a bump (or without as the case may be).

Went back to work on Monday after being off since the end of Sept with labyrinthitis. Better than I was but have still had some horrible earache and have been just so tired - I can't believe it's nearly 1 o'clock and I'm only just getting going. Got loads of marking to do this weekend too. Hubby has been working long hours this week too, most nights getting in about 30mins before I go to bed and we've not bd'd once since we were in Scotland. Stupid as it sounds, I feel really lonely, really stupid when you consider I don't think I've had a minute alone this week (except driving to work and back)

Anyway, I know in the big scheme of things this is small fry but there we have it, I feel poo

twinklie

Lol at your geography confuzzled. Warrington is only about 20 miles from those...I said about 40!! I live in Preston....it's a dump. Don't ever come here. :rotfl:

Anyhoo, lots to do this weekend...first observed lesson of the year on Monday (BOO) so need to get planning that - then I need to plan the rest of my lessons for next week as well, AND mark mark mark lots of tests....boo.

portsmouthali

Here you go Courgette :grouphug: and one for you as well Merfe :grouphug: Hope you feel better once OH gets home xx

Hope you have a nice meal tonight Jenny, going anywhere nice?

MERFE

Courgette, hugs for you, congrats on the wedding by the way. I understand the lonely thing sometimes you can spend all day with people but if they dont understand you, you'll still feel lonely. Hope you get to spend some quality time with OH soon x

sir_monster

Thanks again for all your kind words it has really made me feel better.

Feeling a bit happier today, although still have a little cry!

Anyway I want to move forward and get back to ttc , also on the positive I am going out for a meal tonight and least I can have a glass of wine :beer:
Can I ask the ladies who have been through this - when can you start ttc again and when does your system start up again to speak, i. e. when would I start ovulating again?

smartie12

Courgette.... I think you're suffering from something most newlyweds suffer from!! I know I did especially as it was crappy January for us after the wedding/xmas/new year stuff. Plan something for the near future to look forward to;)



Noooooo I haven't tested yet!:p:p:p Still thinking spotting is going to turn into AF:rolleyes:

scotsgirl_3

Sir MOnster, everyone is a bit different. I had a MC at 5 weeks, ovulated 20 days later (which was actually early for me) and got another BFP straight away which was an absolute shock. From what I've been told and read, it's safe to start again as soon as you feel ready - for some that takes months, whereas I couldn't bear to not try.

HUGS

portsmouthali

Hi sir monster, glad you're feeling a bit happier today. We started ttc again as soon as I'd stopped bleeding, which was about a week after I had my last scan (to make sure everything had gone ) I know they say to wait until you've had a period, but we didn't want to! It's only been a couple of weeks, so no idea really whether I've ov'd yet, although I did have a little stabbing pain on one side last week, which made me wonder if that's what it was. Time will tell I suppose. I think the general answer is - as soon as you both feel ready xxx

**confuzzled**

jennyfleur77 wrote: »

I know it may be a ittle early, but I do get very excited, and I've just found this

:rudolph:

Its not early...I've been humming xmas tunes(much to the disgust of DH:p) since Mid-September:eek::eek::eek::rotfl:

Courgette wrote: »

Afternoon ladies, I'm angling for some hugs

Feel rubbish today. Had such an amazing wedding and honeymoon but it's been a severe case of back to Earth with a bump (or without as the case may be).

Went back to work on Monday after being off since the end of Sept with labyrinthitis. Better than I was but have still had some horrible earache and have been just so tired - I can't believe it's nearly 1 o'clock and I'm only just getting going. Got loads of marking to do this weekend too. Hubby has been working long hours this week too, most nights getting in about 30mins before I go to bed and we've not bd'd once since we were in Scotland. Stupid as it sounds, I feel really lonely, really stupid when you consider I don't think I've had a minute alone this week (except driving to work and back)

Anyway, I know in the big scheme of things this is small fry but there we have it, I feel poo

Post-wedding blues:( I warned my friend of that and she's just getting over it now....they got married in May!!!! You'll be fine hun...just look over any snaps or things you kept from the wedding day to remind you of the magic:) I found it very therapeutic to do a scrapbook/memory box of the day......and on days I'm feeling properly miserable(yes even now 18months later!) I try on my wedding dress:p:rotfl:

twinklie wrote: »

Lol at your geography confuzzled. Warrington is only about 20 miles from those...I said about 40!! I live in Preston....it's a dump. Don't ever come here. :rotfl:

Yeah my geography is shocking:o:o But i agree Preston is a dump!!!! Used to go to courses in Bamber Bridge and although it looked nice I was assured it was purely cosmetic...it was full of $hitbags!!!!

Smartie - Totally know how you feel, last month I was 6days late and didn't test at all..mainly coz I was too scared obviously my instinct was right, I'm still here! lol

SirMonster - Depends on individuals I would've thought but if you're upto it mentally then you can crack on with bding...take advantage of the heightened fertility! Oh and if you feel like crying, go for it:)I am, was sat watching tv last night and burst into tears for no reason Dh was upstairs and heard me...body racking sobs for me I'm afraid none of this ladylike crying over here:o Still haven't got a reason for it but I feel tonnes better:)