Trying For a Baby part 4

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

OMG just wrote a really long post and lost it !!!:mad:

Anywho just though I'd share my experince with some folks on here as I think from reading this thread today we have a lot in common.

I am fast approaching 30, I am married with a 5 1/2 yo and we're trying for no 2. Some might say your lucky to have 1 which I understand, but it doesn't mean I want no 2 any less.

I had been on the pill for the last 12 years ( except when I was pregnant with my son, who was conceived while I was on the pill, he was a little surprise )

I've been off the pill since September, had a MC in October ( 4 1/2 weeks ) last month when AF came it felt like I had MC all over again. When I MC I got over it with the fact that I had no trouble conceiving and I'd be preganant soon. I am only on my 2nd cycle ( I'm very impatient person) since but I am finding the ups and down very emotional.

I realise some peeps on this thread have been trying a lot longer and probably think I'm being silly but I am sharing my feeling as I am sure someone else if feeling similar. I have done so may PT in the last 3 months it's not even funny, having your hopes dash by a little bit of pee on a stick is so cruel so I have decided not to test until I'm actually late ( had been using the 6 days before your due PT and doing one every day from day 22 on my cycle)

I have decided not to do a test until I am actually late so put me down for the 11th.

One other thing iIwanted to share as I am sure other folk are expericing this, since going off the pill I have felt quite ill when I ovulate, I'm out of sorts for two days, feeling sick and getting cramps on one side one month and the other side next month so at least when I am lucky I'll know which tube to congratulate:rotfl:

Feeling lucky this month, it is the season for miracles after all :santa2:
Lots of sticky baby dust for all, hopefully a long list of BFP for everyone during the festive season

moneysaver12

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA wrote: »

OMG just wrote a really long post and lost it !!!:mad:

Anywho just though I'd share my experince with some folks on here as I think from reading this thread today we have a lot in common.

I am fast approaching 30, I am married with a 5 1/2 yo and we're trying for no 2. Some might say your lucky to have 1 which I understand, but it doesn't mean I want no 2 any less.

I had been on the pill for the last 12 years ( except when I was pregnant with my son, who was conceived while I was on the pill, he was a little surprise )

I've been off the pill since September, had a MC in October ( 4 1/2 weeks ) last month when AF came it felt like I had MC all over again. When I MC I got over it with the fact that I had no trouble conceiving and I'd be preganant soon. I am only on my 2nd cycle ( I'm very impatient person) since but I am finding the ups and down very emotional.

I realise some peeps on this thread have been trying a lot longer and probably think I'm being silly but I am sharing my feeling as I am sure someone else if feeling similar. I have done so may PT in the last 3 months it's not even funny, having your hopes dash by a little bit of pee on a stick is so cruel so I have decided not to test until I'm actually late ( had been using the 6 days before your due PT and doing one every day from day 22 on my cycle)

I have decided not to do a test until I am actually late so put me down for the 11th.

One other thing iIwanted to share as I am sure other folk are expericing this, since going off the pill I have felt quite ill when I ovulate, I'm out of sorts for two days, feeling sick and getting cramps on one side one month and the other side next month so at least when I am lucky I'll know which tube to congratulate:rotfl:

Feeling lucky this month, it is the season for miracles after all :santa2:
Lots of sticky baby dust for all, hopefully a long list of BFP for everyone during the festive season

Thankyou for sharing. It is hard, i am finding that when i get the bfn i feel upset and disappointed. Today i feel sad, not sure if its my hormones. Starting to find it hard when i see pregnant women or people saying that they have got pregnant as i wish it was me.

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

I work with a girl who is 25ish weeks with her 1st via IVF, she'd been trying for 6 years, I work in a small office of less than 15 but I don't find it hard, if anything I go out of my way so she doesn't feel awkward ( as work know about my MC ). When I see the bump I do feel a pang of it could be me but I refuse to get depressed ( except for a moment when I see the negative on PT ) I try my best to keep upbeat and think there's always next month, I keep myself busy getting organised for when I am pregnant, organising finances, buying pregnancy clothes ( I can't help myself, I know I shouldn't but it keeps me sane ) and clearing out the house etc. I've literally got everything I need for the baby as we have been planning this for over a year and every month I buy one or two things, all I need is nappies and obviously a baby:rotfl:As my son is getting older everyone keeps asking when I'm having another baby:rolleyes:

Keep positive, it's the only way to keep your mind healthy:j

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

sleepytiger wrote: »

My mum was here too and she didn't know about my mc

I never told my family or my husbands either ( only work know due to time off ) It's hard them not knowing, god knows how many times it's been on the tip of my tongue but it seems pointless to bring sadness when there is nothing anyone can do about it
:grouphug: to you, don't get too upset about what happened today it'll be your turn soon then your sister will be jealous of you teeny tiny baby when hers are getting old enough to have tantrums

sir_monster

Hi mylittlesisterlola I unfortunately had a similar situation 1st cycle from an early m/c and trying desperately not to test as AF is due on weds but have a couple of FR early tests in bathroom cupboard and so hard not to use one or two! Also I know it will be really hard if AF arrives, but trying to think I can drink on my xmas do's if it does arrive!

In terms of telling people my boss knew as I took a day off work but others don't. Some of DH's family know as he needed a shoulder to cry on and my friend who is TTC as I needed someone to tell, but my family don't know as its not something you just tell over the phone, by the way . .

Sorry AF got you moneysaver hope you feel better.

Sleepytiger what an awful thing for your friend to say - some friend!

Anyway I've literally got my foot up as I've injured it somehow and counting the days till AF or BFP!

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

Quiet tonight, everyone must be busy

jacobsmum

hiya hows every1?
can i be crossed off the list please confuzzled
as the witch is starting to show her face,just as was going to practice bding aswell!!:rolleyes2 how selfish of her I thought!
am a little dissapointed as i thought we had done it this month due to the amount of spots ive got!!
next month im def going to get some opks to use!!how many do you normally need?and what cd do you start to use them?
going to class 2morrow as cd1 when af starts properly
going to finish christmas shopping 2mara and maybe buy myself little something too!

xx

skintscotslass

Catw0man wrote: »

SSL I love the Edinburgh German Market, we go every year, just booked our train tickets today we're going through on the 12th

On a downer though because tomorrow was my due date for my first mc, not looking forward to that - hubby is taking me to a clydesdale horse sale though to cheer me up!

I think I'll nip into town next Sat. You wouldnt think I actually worked in Edinburgh :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:But I work 8-6 with a 30 mins break 2 days a week, so its not enough time to check out what's going on. The tram works are meant to be cleared as of today :T:j so the city centre should be looking lovely for you.

Big hugs for todays anniversary xx

Jacobsmum - sorry AF got you xx

What are we all doing today? I have finished my Christmas cards *smug grin* and am wrapping the presents I have bought so far

PS mylittlesisterlola - no one here will think you are silly xx

twinklie

Thanks ellebobs. Yeah I was talking rugby and no it wasn't the right result. Still, I've had a cracking weekend though...it's been brilliant.

LilDevil

**confuzzled** wrote: »

How rude:eek::eek:There's no way I'm as foul mouthed as LilDevil:rotfl:

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earthgirl wrote: »

Hi All,

Been ttc for what seems like ages. I got a faint positive this morning - so excited! I know its far too early for being excited, but you've got to think positive!

Sticky Baby dust to all xxx

:j:j Congrats hun!

Not a lot going on here, still got last of AF and had upset stomach on Friday - I'm gonna have to give up eating cheese I think as it's this that's caused it - used to have issues at TOTM with pasta/rice, since pg/mc, it's been cheese!!

On the Xmas front, I've finished Peter Rabbit and gonna make a start on making up the Tooth Fairy. Only another 3 to knit, making it a total of 6 to make up, will I get it done... I doubt it!