MSE Pregnancy Club 17

SUPER_SAVER_7

when he met her when we parted last yr,he didn't tell her that he had a lil boy and she found out from sum1 i was told. he had the cheek to take my son to her town to see her. that completely confused my sons head up and drove me mad
got the midwifes today and know i'm gonna break down. just can't go on

nikkit72

Good morning,

Still holding on ,

SS i am so sorry , i really dont know what else to say as everyone seems to of said what i would of said , hugs xx

Well went to my day unit yesterday as i had blood + green stuff , took pads but said it was the plug rather than baby poo, she gave me internal found still 2cm ( BOO ) , was having contrations there and then every 3 mins , so was a bit shocke di hadnt progressed , she decided to give me a stretch and sweep , she gave me option to go home or stay in , i decided to go home she then said , we'll see you later with your little baby, she was very sure of it , gave me pads for the car , even said if labour ward to busy as it was at that time , to come and see her as she said she would love to deliver my little man , as she could se how well i was coping with everything and had seen her many times at the day unit , and had got to know her well,
Came home , and at 2pm it all stopped again, except lots of blood discharge , which she had warned me about , and said not to worry about it, so off i went on my bouncing ball for 30 mins then on my cross trainer for 10 mins , then eating pineapple , then baths , and nothing . Now i am getting a bit annoyed at this little man , everyone expected him to be here by now , and he is still very snug in my tummy ,

Oh well , back to bouncing , running , housework , OH mum is coming over from spain this weekend would of been lovely for her to see her only grandson , but looks like it wont happen now.

Anyway catch u laters , Must do work , must get this baby out xxx

delain

SUPER_SAVER wrote: »

when he met her when we parted last yr,he didn't tell her that he had a lil boy and she found out from sum1 i was told. he had the cheek to take my son to her town to see her. that completely confused my sons head up and drove me mad
got the midwifes today and know i'm gonna break down. just can't go on

He did that when you were split up before, or hes done it recently?

Either way, you're probably best of out of it hun, thinking of you xx

Somnium

Nikkit - poor you thats so not fair your lil man leading you along like that! the MW you had sounds nice tho so that must have been a plus after your worries about the hospital. Hope the sweep gets things moving for you soon x

SS - I'm at a loss for words, if there wasnt a third party on the horizon then I'd put it down to cold feet of new baby. I dont have any suggestions other than talk. If you do try a trial sepperation then maybe ask him not to see this other woman till he has had some time without you that way he can make an unclouded descision about your relationship, as the others say she could be with someone else now or it sould be the excitement of something new, and that isnt fair on you, how would he feel if the role were reversed!

Well managed to get some more sleep, dropped off about 7ish and woke again at 10.15, but was nice sleep and I could feel it becoming a habbit!

Boiler is broken again! pilot light wont stay lit so called landlady and just waiting for her to get back. I wouldn't mind but its the 3rd time its gone in 6 months and its not like its old.

Best mate is coming over again this afternoon for TV and coffee Am gonna miss her when she goes on holiday next week Bless her she says she cant decide if she is looking forward to her hol cos she doesnt want to miss babys birth. Wish my other so called best friend was even 10% as intrested as she is, but she seems to be the polar opposite!

gill_81uk

SS - big hugs, what a terrible thing for you to go through while pregnant. I agree with the others that he's probably feeling quite frightened about impending fatherhood and it's coming out this way. I've also suffered badly with hormones and know that since 20 weeks I really haven't been myself or been a particularly good wife to my DH - he's possibly finding that change really hard to cope with as well. That said it definitely doesn't excuse what he's doing. I really hope you get everything sorted.

delain

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Best mate is coming over again this afternoon for TV and coffee Am gonna miss her when she goes on holiday next week Bless her she says she cant decide if she is looking forward to her hol cos she doesnt want to miss babys birth. Wish my other so called best friend was even 10% as intrested as she is, but she seems to be the polar opposite![/QUOTE]

My best female friend will probably ask if she can come when we go to the hospital :rotfl:

gymfiend

Glad you managed to get some more sleep Som, admittedly very jealous that you did, I'm desperate to go to sleep. Hope you have a lovely afternoon with your friend too, it's lovely when friends take an interest in baby Rubbish about the boiler - has she spoken to the manufacturers, maybe it's faulty?

Nikkit really hope this is it for you now, really feel for you, x

LMF glad your boiler is sorted

SS you can go on, you will be ok, heartbreaking as it is today, in time it will be ok however it works out, x

I'm seriously struggling, just fiddling with some bank accounts and thinking about wedding dresses to kill time! I'm so bored, but feel so pants that I don't want to go anywhere or do anything, bleurgh. Just made a big cup of coffee in an attempt to wake myself up, and had a weird moment with my big cat - she came and laid right beside me rubbing her face on bump and bump started to vibrate?! Or so it felt anyway, wonder if it was baby responding to cat purring :rotfl:

SUPER_SAVER_7

Thank you ladies for your kind words...it means alot to me xxx
Haven't had a txt or ring from him. Do you think I should ring him and say that he should clear his head b4 he meets her,if he does? It's just he's working till late on a job and i don't know if he will try and contact her later. I just wish this was some kinda nightmare that'll i'll wake up from,really i do x

gymfiend

I would try speaking to him, but remain calm, no crying etc and say that you'd like for him to consider his options without becoming involved with her first and then give you a final decision? Though I guess it depends on whether you feel you'd still take him back, even if he did go off then come back in a couple of months?

TBH and I hope this doesn't sound harsh, but he sounds like a pr*ck, already being with someone else in a 2 week break, and denying his sons existence, then taking him to meet someone he barely knows...

Lauralou

Hello everyone:D

I had a sort out today and found i still had a baby&toddler club magazine from tesco, its issue number 25, it is a bit old think i got it about may/june time, all the offers are out-of-date now tho. Just thought id ask incase anyone would like it and i dont mind sending it, PM me if you would like it.

Hope everyone and bumps are ok:D