MSE Pregnancy Club 17

ymakesmile

Congratulations Som! Am eagerly waiting in line to see some pics

mermaid85

Have spoken briefly to OH since he finished work, waiting til I get home to try and sort out properly. He's still claiming it's all lies, including the girl. But I have to say in my heart I really don't believe him. And how can we have rel without any trust? I can't see anyway to actually find out the truth either, it's his word against others.

mermaid85

grr it's times like this I wish I wasn't pg... I sound like an alcoholic but I could really use a big vodka and a cigarette right now

Agutka

Hugs to all with relationship problems. Not something we need in this condition.

Congrats Som

Go Kindof GO!

I've had a rather eeriely positive check up at the hospital. Apparently I am doing extremely well keeping the gestational diabetes in check (if only they knew how naughty I can be ), I am putting on no weight (?), my bp is fine, the scan showed a rather cute baby that's growing at the correct rate and I can still make the choice between an elective c-section or vbac. Ho hum, what to do...

After me complaining last night about baby moving painfully the question of the day came from nurse "are you happy with the baby's movements?" I just glared at her .

xmaslolly76

congratulations Som Hope everything went smoothly enjoy your mommy cuddles :-) xx

pigpen

Nicky.. You do NOT have to have a section if baby is breech.. though it is advisable if footling as that can be quite dangerous for baby.. normal bum first isn't anywhere near as dangerous.. hospital staff have little experience in delivering breech babies so tell you it is imperative you have a section because of their inefficiencies!! If they turn baby now it is more than possble for him to turn back!! They can turn right up until delivery!! Turning them is soemtimes painful.. depends on the size of the baby and he position they are in.. it is easy enough to do yourself anyway.. rubbing the top of the baby's head often makes them flip over... kneeling on all 4's with bum in the air is meant to help too.. best to have legs on the chair or bed and head on the floor. Birthing ball practice helps too.

CAFC.. blubbering is a vital part of pregnancy.. I am feeling a bit neglected as well.. and it isn't even my birthday.. I hate my birthday.

conventgirl

Congratulations som....so pleased you are now getting your cuddles :j

Kindof....hope things are going ok for you

Mermaid...i think trust is a biggie in a relationship and if there is no way that you can prove either way what happened you will have to take your oh's word for it. I think you need to lay it on the line that you need to know the truth about what happened and if you ever find out something different then the relationship will be doomed. Trust your instincts though as they are usually a good indication. Am so sorry you are having to deal with this especially when you are carrying a little one

xx

gill_81uk

Happy Birthday CAFC girl :j

Mermaid - sorry you're having such a bad time of it. Really hope you and your OH get things sorted

Redstar - I'm glad you've had such a nice day with your daughter. It's fab that you;re getting some quality time together before little man comes

Nicky - My friend's little boy was breached and she said trying to turn him was one of the most painful things she has ever felt. Might be worth taking some paracetamol or something first??

Huge congrats to Som - must have been a nice quick induction unless she went naturally last night.

Labour vibes for Kindof (who has been very quiet today...fingers crossed!) and Gymfiend

maureenjscott

Congratulations Som!!!! Well done!

Kindof - hope you're getting there too!

mo x

xmaslolly76

Cafc my ex was the same when i was pregnant he just didnt want to know until baby was born he just didnt get the pregnant woman thing it was just something i had to accept and get on with it. I am pleased to say the new OH is much more hands on and i feel really spoilt now.