MSE Parents Club Part 8

feelinggood_2

I have a baby who won't stop grumbling Seems I'm not happier alone than with OH, and rely on parents longterm isn't an option so I don't really know what to do.

searching_me

feelie first night is always hard as your used to someone being there no matter who it is .. ((hugs)) to you but think to it as no one making comments you dont like or as time to think of what you want ... or do as i do ... sit with a cuppa and go .. ahhhhh peace and quiet x

wi3adora

Searching come to my house there's an array of crisps, sweets, chocolate and also cider, vodka, baileys and other alcohol too. It's only me who snacks here so I need someone to help me eat/drink it all. :rotfl:

searching_me

*gets coat on* ... what bus do i need dora?? :rotfl: x

LCK73

Hi there

Has anyone any gems of wisdom to share on getting their newborn off to sleep. I've been wandering up and down the hallway rocking baby to sleep but that sometimes takes an age and I'm wondering if I'm building a dependency on me. Any techniques you can share woul dbe gratefully received......

Lisa

feelinggood_2

Ha, tried to phone crisis team but the No. 3 won't work on the phone!

searching_me

lc with jayden i use to sit on the sofa legs together and slightly tiptop ish .. jayden on my legs and rock with your legs side to side not too much .. works even better when wrapped in a very soft fleece blanket ..

HTH x

wi3adora

searching_me wrote: »

*gets coat on* ... what bus do i need dora?? :rotfl: x

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

LCK73

searching_me wrote: »

lc with jayden i use to sit on the sofa legs together and slightly tiptop ish .. jayden on my legs and rock with your legs side to side not too much .. works even better when wrapped in a very soft fleece blanket ..

HTH x

Thanks, I'll give it a go. I'm just concerned abotu building a sleeping technique that relies on me but guess he is only 11 days old so will need comforting! just don't want to start down rocky road........

searching_me

lc dont worry jaydens my second so ive been through every technique going and that one worked him with zoe it was cradle, gentley rock while tapping her bum ... they both loved to fall asleep on my chest ... dont be afraid to try everything x