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Macgirl's "Stop Procrastinating and Get on with it" Diary

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  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    Had a really pants day today. Got some very sad news about a friend who has lost a baby quite late on :(

    Plus the payrise I was promised failed to materialise. I did get a percentage, but it was not inline with what was previously discussed against the performance I have delivered (that they are very happy with incidentally).....

    I (stupidly) had plans for it, to repay debt and do some bits to finish off the house before we move on. Am mad at myself for allowing such expectations.

    Bought lunch, so spent about £2.50. Raced home, got stuck on motorway on the way to pick up the girls. One has been crying all evening for no reason the other blatantly ignoring simple requests which then escalate into me getting really cross and her shouting that everyone hates her *sigh*

    Tonight, I think I will drink a bottle of wine, cry and go to bed. Hope your day was better if you're reading x
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    **signs up another member of the crap-days-r-us-club**

    Sorry to read about your friend - that is always so tough, to lose a baby early on is hard enough, but late in the pregnancy, well that is something I couldn't even begin to imagine :(

    And pah to the payrise - that stinks :mad:
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    Thanks Hun, just been reading your diary. Sorry things are flat with you too :(

    Money isn't everything and TBH it feels quite a petty thing to be bothered about in the grand scheme of things.

    Hope you feel better soon xx

    Ps aren't Jaffa Cakes 1 point each? :)
  • Hopeful1
    Hopeful1 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    Hi ya Mac. Sorry you've had such a carp day. I frequently make plans for money i always end up not getting. It's so disappointing isn't it?

    Tomorrow's another day and it's Friday which is even better. Have you anything planned for the weekend? x
    One step at a time ;)
  • boysma
    boysma Posts: 828 Forumite
    Sorry you have had such a carp day Mac. Can only second Hopeful that tomorrow is another day - hope the wine helps to take the edge of
    though:A
    Payment A Day £15 (started 17/5/14) :j
  • In_my_dreams
    In_my_dreams Posts: 1,192 Forumite
    Sorry you've had a rubbish day - horrible news about your friend as well, don't know how anyone gets over things like that. I was close to someone who lost their baby late and it was so sad.

    Hope you had lots of Jaffa Cakes today xx
    1st debt - Next [STRIKE]£583.32[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]£408.71 [/STRIKE] £0 :j
    2nd debt - MBNA - £6,618.52
    First in many many to go - baby steps and all that!
    First lump sum to go - fingers crossed!
    08/06/09 - [STRIKE]£11,497.68[/STRIKE] NOW - £9,757.75
  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    Thanks all - today is a new day. Still feel a bit flat but life goes on and the Sun is shining :)

    This weekend, we're going to tackle some jobs in the house. I'm going to arrange for a couple of agents to assess the rental value so we can plan for later in the year.

    The rest of my junk will be listed on Ebay this weekend and then I'll get to grips with IMD's spreadsheet. I also am planning a couple of runs :A

    35p won on scratches. Right off to sort out the girls for school.
    Hope you all have a good day x
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Have a good day, and you are right, we need to look ahead. I look forward to reading all about your plans over the weekend x
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    Went out with my Mum and little DD to a shopping centre today. I ended up carrying DD's coat and draped it over my bag whilst I was trying on clothes :o (yes, I did buy the odd reduced morsel with my invisible bonus :o cheered me up a treat though :D) - then I was horrified to find I'd lost the bl00dy coat when I got back to the car :mad:

    I went back in and re-traced my steps but no coat - was like looking for a needle in a haystack anyway :cool: I've just phoned them but no coat :(

    Really hoping that someone of integrity has handed it in. Especially as I found a Mac laptop in a changing room and handed that in today - so I'm due some good Karma I think..................... fingers crossed.
  • In_my_dreams
    In_my_dreams Posts: 1,192 Forumite
    Oh no, how annoying! Hopefully someone will hand it in, I would!

    Glad today was slightly better anyway, onwards and upwards and all that jibberish!
    1st debt - Next [STRIKE]£583.32[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]£408.71 [/STRIKE] £0 :j
    2nd debt - MBNA - £6,618.52
    First in many many to go - baby steps and all that!
    First lump sum to go - fingers crossed!
    08/06/09 - [STRIKE]£11,497.68[/STRIKE] NOW - £9,757.75
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