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Lilmissmups what will 2010 bring diary!

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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yep think its the plan although I am contracted here until beginning of Feb so have to pay another two months rent even if I move out.

    I am off to bed now after another shattering day.

    My mother arrives tomorrow for a 10 day visit so prob won't be around much :rolleyes:

    I really could do without it now, seeing her when I don't feel like my life is in turmoil is bad enough.

    Wish me luck. :o
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Night hun x
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi

    You do sound a lot more positve, despite the tears. As you are contracted until February I wouldn't rush into making any decisions about moving until your life settles down a bit. You've been through loads in the last couple of weeks and probably need a bit of 'head space' before you decide :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Hey,

    How you doing today?

    I agree with SG - don't make any rash decisions. You have until Feb. Although I do think temporarily living with your Dad will give you the freedom to think about things more, save money and work towards your aims. It's nice to have that option.

    Hope the time with your Mum isn't too bad. Chin up xx
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Hope you're okay lady. Take time to decide what you want to do. XXX
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    He emailed me again today saying none of what I said to him was true.

    I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like I am gonna go nuts soon, he just won't leave me alone like I am asking, I feel like I am going to be reporting him to the police soon :rolleyes:

    I am moving home. I asked my Dad today, I am actually on the verge of having a breakdown at this rate.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • ooohhh virtual hugs, positive energy light, prayers and anything else i can think of.
    keep your head up girl this too shall pass...trite i know but it is true!
    Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven
    Matthew 5:3
  • lilmissmup wrote: »
    He emailed me again today saying none of what I said to him was true.

    I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like I am gonna go nuts soon, he just won't leave me alone like I am asking, I feel like I am going to be reporting him to the police soon :rolleyes:

    I am moving home. I asked my Dad today, I am actually on the verge of having a breakdown at this rate.

    Have you thought about changing your email address and not logging into your current one? Or make a mental effort not to open his emails, just file them away or delete them?

    Keep your chin up and don't reply to his emails - hopefully he'll get the picture.

    Take care of yourself and keep your chin up, xxx
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Hope you are OK! That is not nice of him to be hounding you like that. The advice above is good advice. Hugs x
  • lilmissmup wrote: »
    He emailed me again today saying none of what I said to him was true.

    I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like I am gonna go nuts soon, he just won't leave me alone like I am asking, I feel like I am going to be reporting him to the police soon :rolleyes:

    I am moving home. I asked my Dad today, I am actually on the verge of having a breakdown at this rate.


    By the sounds of it the guy is basically takin the p*** and you need a break !

    Erase - Replace ;)

    I think every other persons diary has the OP having had a break up this year ! We need a thread for rants about these losers. We are all well rid.
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