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Lilmissmups what will 2010 bring diary!

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  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    OMG what a !!!!!! :mad:
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Good reply LMM, hopefully it'll give him some food for thought. I still suggest blocking his email tho...
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    At least you know esactly where you stand now so you can move on with your life and he can rot!!!

    Come on Dawn pick yourself off brush yourself down go out there are grap life and enjoy it!! You deserve better!!
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Oh don't worry I refuse to spend another minute ever thinking about getting back together or missing him.

    Just proves how screwed up he is if he still thinks hes done nothing wrong and can play games again
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Well I just got an email back saying Thanks Goodbye.

    Glad he is !!!!ed off :D
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Now don't reply as he will want you to send one saying "come back blah blah blah blah"
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Trust me its deleted :D

    I am sure he will come crawling back someday trying to make himself feel less guilty again.

    His brothers ex put a comment on my facebook status (which you saw hun) and I messaged her and apparently she knew about the Second Life thing anyway as his brother told her about it (they had kids together) and they all think its weird too!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Thing with second life is you can be who you want and people get carried away and think they are those people and the people they speak to are those people. It's highly addictive as well and your ex seems to have that compulsive gene.
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yeah I agree totally, if its not drink or smoking W it has to be something :rolleyes:

    Just a shame cos he does have real issues he needs help with, I am just glad his family don't think its right either.

    He said he stopped playing it and I do believe he did but thats when he was drinking loads cos he had quit smoking W, and now he has stopped drinking loads and has gone back to Second Life.

    Anyway I am thankful in a way, he's proved now we could never work again, hes not actually serious about getting help like he said he would, he just wants to escape whether he does go abroad or stay in that world.

    We wouldn't have worked unless he was willing to grow up and take the next step into an adult relationship and hes shown hes really not gonna do that.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    I am glad you are now clear about what he is and that you can't go back, that is the first step to you getting over him and moving on. :T
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
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