Lilmissmups what will 2010 bring diary!

lilmissmup

Morning all!

I recommend watching the DVD then doodles

I am feeling okish today, still pretty battered though and need to start thinking about the decisions that effect my future.

One of those is moving back to my Dad's, although tbh I am feeling pretty high on the failure rating right now and moving home kinda makes me add to that.

Fire_Fox

I do not understand men at all. :mad: :mad: :mad:

Moving back with your dad is only failing if it's not part of a materplan - if you are just taking the lazy option. If you have a plan to, say, save enough money to move to London or start university debt-free then it cam only be a positive move!

lilmissmup

Hi FF,

Yeah hes an idiot, don't see how he thinks playing a character in a fantasy world will make him happy but he seems to have to have one addiction, whether it be smoking W, going out on benders or playing fantasy games and getting his kicks off women online :rolleyes:

He did play it a lot for the last few months before we split so its obv a form of escapism, but I used to see what he was putting and he wasn't chatting to other women then.

Its more the fact all this people who he chats too are now on Facebook leaving him comments, he never even logged onto Facebook when we were together and when I looked at his profile the other night seems he pretty much lives on it, nothing wrong with that as I pretty much do just think hes pathetic.

Needs to grow up, hes 30 now!!!

lilmissmup

Sorry I am so angry about him hurting me again I could rant for days and I didn't actually reply to your comment on moving home

If I move home its going to be so I can save money to buy my own place, I really want to be a home owner, thats my goal but there is no way I can afford to do it whilst renting alone.

SarahNeedle1872

Fire_Fox wrote: »

I do not understand men at all. :mad: :mad: :mad:

Moving back with your dad is only failing if it's not part of a materplan - if you are just taking the lazy option. If you have a plan to, say, save enough money to move to London or start university debt-free then it cam only be a positive move!

Totally agree with FF, think of it as a means to an end rather than a failure!
Sorry that ex-OH has got to you again, I think a clean break is definately the way to go! You are doing really well though, I'm sure it must be really hard for you after being together for so long

Sx

lilmissmup

Thanks Sarah, I don't feel like I am doing that well though

Least neither of us can ring or text now, I don't know his number as he changed it a few weeks ago after losing his phone and he doesn't know mine now.

Only way he can contact me is via email and don't think he will although I am not 100% sure because I asked him to leave me alone before and he didn't. :rolleyes:

Shoe_Gal

I've said it before but:

You are not a failure :mad: You were let down by a t*sser who did not deserve you - and now you are making plans for a F Fabulous future


Now enjoy your Saturday - and start working on that masterplan! (After a bit of James Martin I assume )

lilmissmup

Seriously dunno how I would got through last four months without you fantastic ladies, crying again now cos your all so nice to me

Shoe_Gal

we will always be here for you - as you are for anybody else having a bad time :A now try those tears and go and do something fabulous, just for you

lilmissmup

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