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A Fool and Her Money- CAFCGIRL's Debt Diary

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  • Open_Wallet_Surgery
    Open_Wallet_Surgery Posts: 137 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    After some well timed and lovely advice from Peaches.

    God knows why I'm putting myself through it, maybe I'm just scared of being alone, scared of not finding anyone else since I never go out lol, or maybe I'm trying to punish myself!

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    Just sorry I'm 200miles away, otherwise we could go see a movie and a pizza afterwards ......
    AS FRIENDS !
  • MCBIRNIE25
    MCBIRNIE25 Posts: 555 Forumite
    Sounds like a die hard romantic your fella CAFC girl.
    Keep your chin up, we all think you are a star;-)
    Mike
  • Open_Wallet_Surgery
    Open_Wallet_Surgery Posts: 137 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
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    Big star:money:

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    From all of us on here ....
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    awwwwwwww a little invasion of smilies just for me!

    Thanks guys. I owe you all a lot!

    The BF, I'm not even upset about anymore, I think I'vce shed all my tears almost, maybe I'm starting to get some strength back, becoming more aware of pleasing myself before others (ooh-er!).
    He even text me when I was at dinner to say let me know where you're home and I'll come round if you want.

    Me thinks he realised his own stupidity.....

    I havent text back....
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • Open_Wallet_Surgery
    Open_Wallet_Surgery Posts: 137 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    I havent text back....[/QUOTE]

    Good for you :T
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    Other than that, I've realised yet again/its cemented the seeds already planted, that my BF is a total loser!

    In one way. In another he's a winner - because he has you.
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    God knows why I'm putting myself through it, maybe I'm just scared of being alone, scared of not finding anyone else since I never go out lol,

    I've been there - perhaps I'm still there - but I know there are people out there for me. You know there are people out there just waiting for you.

    Trust me - you'll have a queue. Would you like a stick for Christmas? To beat them off with.
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    or maybe I'm trying to punish myself!

    Punish yourself in other ways. Like wearing too tight knickers or something. Don't punish yourself by staying with him.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I'm not sure about tight knickers......
    Dont want to ruin things for myself in the future! ;)

    Anyways, I stayed strong, and even got an apology in text, still ignored it though :)

    Today I'm feeling a bit ill again, so I'm going to spend my day having a good old tidy up in the house.
    And I really must pay these cheques in!!!
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    I'm not sure about tight knickers......
    Dont want to ruin things for myself in the future! ;)

    What could be ruined by these? Apart from passion of course.
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    Anyways, I stayed strong, and even got an apology in text, still ignored it though :)

    He needs to grovel abjectly - not apologise. In fact he needs to grovel abjectly for so much, you'll be a very old woman before he finishes.
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    And I really must pay these cheques in!!!

    How far is the bank? You could punish yourself by going out in the cold today and paying them in.

    But no cards and no money and no shopping!
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I just dont want to leave the comfort of my house today :)

    Bank is not far, only a 10 min walk.....
    Plus I withdrew £20 yesterday, just in case, when I went for dinner, but the kind old training guy paid for it, so I could also take the £20 with me and pay that back in :)
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    CAFCGirl wrote:
    I just dont want to leave the comfort of my house today :)

    Softie... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
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