MSE Parents Club Part 7

searching_me

ooooooooooooooooo MM i love that idea ..... philip loves the whole goth/corset might treat him/myself while im in camden on saturday they have beautiful ones x

My_Fathers_Daughter

Harley - is she getting enough of a mouthful of breast? She needs to be taking much more than the nipple into her mouth...you may be best having someone talk it through with you, there is a number in Krystals sig which goes through to a BF counsellor who is sometimes based near to you...will go find it.


Are there any Booby Groups near you? The abolute best thing to do is to let a trained BF counsellor have a look at your latch and help you out.


(((HUGS))) it does get better and easier. When she is latched right you shouldn't have any pain at all.

cazscoob

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the boots are great as i cant usually get them to fit but these have a stretch fabric top so they fit me!!! cant find the other bits i got there were a few jumpers that are beautiful colours and can be dressed up and down, they are handwash only but luckily my machine has that setting

My_Fathers_Daughter

Here you go Harley:

*NEW* National Breastfeeding Helpline 0300 100 0212

jillie1974

right its time for me to relax before bedtime.
chat tomorrow!!

Sami_Bee

Harley go back a few pages to find a post by Krystal and call the number in her sig.
if she is on wrong and you can tell (ie your gripping the sofa with ur free hand ) pop your lil finger in her mouth to break the sucion and get her off to have another go.
I found it was easir to get Ed on properly when he was calm, not sure if she cries when hungry but if she does, try to pre-empt and feed her before she gets to crying IYSWIM
I'm sure it'll work out for you, I almost gave up from the pain but said just one more day and hat day he just 'got it' and the pain was gone completely not long after xx

SeptemberBaby_2

cazscoob wrote: »

it was amazing and when she brought in half of the things i was thinking oh my god no! but they look great on! she gave me jeaggings? jean/leggings and they are great hold you in at the right places etc i would have come home with nothing if it wasnt for her my work sell wild flowers so was thinking about nipping in with some for her!
3 yes DP does sound rude :P
i think im just going to bin my other clothes as they look awful pmsl!
will have a look at the website see if i can find things

Yay, Caz! :j

I demand you try them all on again and take photos!

xx

searching_me

night night jllie x

3onitsway

Harley - as MFD said - she's a wise woman dontyaknow! :rolleyes:

I fed my first and third with absolutely no problems at all - but no.2 was horrendous! The difference was that she latched on with a tiny mouth, so was only getting the nipple - rather than a good mouthful of boobie. I ended up with cracked blistered nipples and excruciating pain. :eek:

The advice from my very helpful hv at the time, was to feed through the pain! :mad: Erm, i'd rather stick pins in my eyes!

I gave up after a very short time - and really regret it. I'm sure if someone had shown me how to make her get a mouthful, we'd have lasted longer.

Not sure if you could speak to a bf counsellor this evening - so not much help! But do try to get to a boobie group asap!

My_Fathers_Daughter

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Harley go back a few pages to find a post by Krystal and call the number in her sig.
if she is on wrong and you can tell (ie your gripping the sofa with ur free hand ) pop your lil finger in her mouth to break the sucion and get her off to have another go.
I found it was easir to get Ed on properly when he was calm, not sure if she cries when hungry but if she does, try to pre-empt and feed her before she gets to crying IYSWIM
I'm sure it'll work out for you, I almost gave up from the pain but said just one more day and hat day he just 'got it' and the pain was gone completely not long after xx

That's a good point Sami - a baby that is not properly latched on struggles to feed effectively and so can get more unhappy and stressed because they are more hungry etc - it's a viscious cycle. You need to relax as much as possible and break the seal if you feel baby is latched incorrectly.


Harley - feel free to PM if you need to chat (or PM Krystal, she is a angel and knows much more than me!!)