MSE Parents Club Part 7

emlou2009

aww thanks fitz you made me smile

phew, clover... it sounds as if you are really going through the mill at the moment!! do you have any friends that could take the LO's for a few hours so you can have yourself to yourself for a bit? do the HV's and doctors not do anything to help ADHD?? have you googled ADHD support forums that may be able to put you in touch with people that could help?

apart from that... i have nothing except :grouphug:

MFD at least worst case scenario you have a job for 5 months still
and if you find out in november it gives you 4 months
trying to think positive for you!!

carlamagee

wow. clover. you do have a lot on your hands! sound as if you need some hugs!
unfrtunately i am not all knowing and wise like some of the other ladies on here, who will be by at some stage today, so keep an eye out for a reply with your name on it!
It wasnt very nice how the group treated you, and personally, if it had been me, i think i may have lodged a complaint. they are meant to be there to help instead of making you feel 2 feet tall!

i agree with Bruno though, that there shuld be someone/some organistaion out there, who would be able to help you out. even if it is only taking 1 or 2 of your bunch fr a hour or so for you!?
im sorry i can advise you in the direction to go, but as i said, someone else on here shuld have more advice for you. other than that, make sure u come on everyday to say hello -- i think we all help each other in a little way, and many of us considering each other as "friends" even though we may not have ever met each other before!

Emlou - i probably described it wrong. not so much a rattle, but a hurstley noise -- you know when you know you need to give a bit of a cough - but unfortunaely christopher is too young to know to do this yet! Do you see what i mean!??

MFD - what exactly was it that u were doing? i think i missed it, and nevr wanted to ask before for fear of looking stupid....but i reckon u all already knwo that I am stupid, so no need to hideit anymore. lol :cool:

Maz - have a lovely mummy pampaering day! we wanna see pix of new hair later!!

3onitsway

MFD – Hugs hunny – i’m sure it was all in jest! (And imo its better than being the dull lady famous for her ironing habit!).
Well done on completing the tender. :T You must had a stressfull week or two. I had a chat last night with OH about going back to work/taking my career break/baby going to nursery and I got myself all upset talking about it! OH no doubt thinks i’m nuts now (more than usual!). :rolleyes: I don’t want to stay at work, I don’t want anyone else to look after DD2 – but i’m scared of the change. I’ve never not worked since the day I left school, apart from 3 maternity leaves. Although I don’t really socialise with work people (apart from one or two friends), I think i’m scared i’ll have no life outside the house and i’ll become even more the dull ironing lady!
Boo for teething, snotty babies. Don’t you dare get teeth before my DD Benjamin!
Scruffy – yey for house sale, boo for the chaos that comes with it.
Em – Violet is older and still in with us. And will be for the foreseeable. She won’t have her own room, and will have to share with Liv at some point (unless we’ve moved to a 4 bed) – and at the moment, it’ll cause too much disruption for Liv. She goes up to bed at 7.30ish, but reads/listens to music/plays DS/does homework/draws for an hour before she settles down – and she won’t be able to that with a sleeping baby in the room.
Hi Clover.:wave: You must be an amazing mummy looking after 6 single handed! :eek: I know it varies area to area, and I don’t know where you are. But here, you have to fight and fight for any help with special needs. My DS (12) has Autism and learning difficulties – and apart from Saturday morning playscheme (which ends when he’s 13) we get booger all in the way of help! But then you see other people with less problems – getting everything handed to them. :mad: I don’t know how it works – but its wrong!
Bruno – My Liv loves that song, only in our house is ‘do your boobs hang low’. (and she says its about Mummys boobs!)

My_Fathers_Daughter

I work in construction teaching men to play together nicely


Clover - I started to read through then the baby distracted. Well done on being strong with your hubby for a start. Will read the rest once Benjamin has had his nap and I have had a shower
((HUGS))

elle_gee

Morning all..

These lie-ins are getting longer!

*hugs* MFD.. You're not the drunk one to me, you're the sensible one who makes time for MFD time Only wish my milk supply would let me do the same! :rolleyes: (did you see what I said about formula? Maybe soon, so maybe then..)

I will eat lunch today - my Mum's bringing it, along with a supply of Ringtons teabags!

Oh, must go.. did have a chatty Rhys on my knee but now got a stinky one! :cool:

carlamagee

lucky you with lie-ins elle!!

right ladies, im off to make a lovely packed lunch picnic-style and then to collect my nephew and visit the ducks/park if the rain stays off! fingers crossed everyone!! speak laters. hope everyone has a lovely day! xx

scruffy96uk

MFD I'm soooo sorry hun, it was I who started it so Em please don't feel bad. I have edited the post now tho. really sorry ((((hugs))))

Clover hello and welcome. Have you tried the ADHD threads on here I think there are a couple, along with aspergers etc might be of some help and might be able to give you tips. that is if you aren't already reading them.

cloverfan

Thank you everyone, i think to write on here is easier than to talk face to face as i can say what i really feel:D am feeling better already just hit a real low point this morning. I try to stay positive and have just had bit of a rant at dh and he has agreed to have kids so i can have a break sometimes i pointed out i am not after a babysitter just some rest PLUS wouldnt it be nice for the kids to think he wants to spend some time with them?? new gf only lasted 2 weeks btw, left when she found out he had still been with me when they met and oh yea he 4got to mention he had kids!!!!!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Also have someone who is in charge of running the adhd course coming round later to take a statement so i can lodge a complaint but hey.....isn't hindsight a wonderful thing?? wish i had sat there now and said no i need help i have been waiting for months to go on this course and i have my letter saying i can so i am BUT really i am useless and just died of embarassment:o

I would like to become friends on here with you all as I find face to face friends very very hard to trust(comes from dh affairs being with 2 of my friends!!)......

and on this note i am going to attempt to tidy up one room so this lady can come in so i can complain!!

xxx

Glamazon

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im the first x

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im the first x

and I was the last :rotfl:

Facebook - u guys make me laugh!!!

Oh dear, I'm the not eating one - should be the one who cooks a lot but doesn't eat a lot

Not had owt yet but I only got up an hour ago, moved the cars (mine & BIL) so OH could get his car out, got wheelie bin cleaned & put in, moved my car back in drive and have just fed Jack. Cereal in a minute I think

plan to take Jack out for a walk in the sling today :j

Post office later girls

carla - what about taking christopher in the bathroom with you when you have a shower - the steam might help. I did it with Jack yesterday 4 his snotty nose.

clover - you are amazing woman! My cousin has ADHD & my aunty & uncle struggle & they only have 2 kids. There must be some organisations that can support you - aren't there volunteers who come out & help?

cloverfan

clover - you are amazing woman! My cousin has ADHD & my aunty & uncle struggle & they only have 2 kids. There must be some organisations that can support you - aren't there volunteers who come out & help?[/QUOTE]



Thanks!:hello: All i have had so far is prescriptions for meds(which are great except for ds1 side effect of insomnia:mad:) BUT they do not seem to understand my basic problems ie meds do help DS2 BUT only when i can get him to take them:mad::mad::mad: what do i do in the morning when i have spent 2 hours trying to get him to swallow them? do i stick at it for another few hours and have 3 children really really late for school? or do i give in and let him go to school without taking it??