MSE Parents Club Part 7

money_maker_3

Sami_Bee wrote: »

oh MM you could get a diary that has one page per day, they usually have times down the side of the page so you could mark it easily on there..

Oh good idea, I still have my work one from when I went off on mat leave, I could use it Thanks hun :kisses3:

Buttons, I dont know what to say, the eating and smoking are cureable through time and patience and support, the OH hitting you can be cured by changing the locks next time he is out Sorry I know that is rough, but he should never hit you, even if you did get to hit him back, thats just the way I look at it, but feel free to PM me, I am trying to quit smoking again, we could do it together, our own wee support group , I am down to 5 a day on a bad day, next step is to cut out the one in the morning as it is my biggest craving :rolleyes:

Buttonmoons

SM, It's a good point, but I really feel disgusting with myself, that's how my ED started, thought it would be a quick way to loose weight and now I can't stop, even though I know it's so so so bad for me.

3 years ago, I was happy, I had no issues at all, once my body ballooned and deflated like a bag, that was it. I didn't leave the house for 6months when I was at my biggest.

Surgery may not cure my ED but it would deffo help with me not feeling comfortable with myself, seeing a big saggy belly hanging down onto your vagina is repulsive to me, and I feel like everyone else can see it, so sees me in the same way. I only wear super baggy jeans and hoodies mostly, just so it covers everything up.

So in short, it will solve some of my problems!!

emlou2009

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Buttons - shall I come and stab him in the eye?

i lol'd at this and snorted diet coke out my nose from my mouth :rotfl:

Buttonmoons wrote: »

oh Im perfect, I dont have addictions, Im perfect, I PLAY ON MY PS3 24/7 AND WOULD HAVE SEX WITH IT IF IT HAD A HOLE BIG ENOUGH>

and when i'd got over that i read this too!! :rotfl:


sorry

i have nothing to add to this serious subject

ETA i just re-read the post i quoted, what a see you next tuesday!!!!!!!! :eek:

My_Fathers_Daughter

Aw - hugs Buttons, don't let him get you down.....

Edit - sorry Buttons - loads more stuff appeared whilst I was having my mini rant below!!! I agree with glam! What a ignorant t0sser!
FWIW - I gave up smoking on the NHS Quit Smoking Programme and would thoroughly recommend it...supported by the Giving Up Smoking Thread on the DFW Board here. Like many things in my life over the last 3 years, I am not sure I would have got through it without the support of my fellow MSE'rs.




Things are not happy in camp MFD either. I told hubby that I needed some money to cover stuff going out of my bank account and he forgot yesterday and then brought me a big wodge of cash home today!! Not helpful if the insurances and utility bills have bounced because the money wasn't in the right place at the right time :rolleyes: If he was getting cash why couldn't he put it in my bank account himself?

Now I have to go running around with the baby tomorrow when I already had a full day planned with Booby Club and visiting a childminder :mad:


Everything just seems to be getting on top of me at the moment, 10 days left to sort this tender, trying to find childcare for the beginning of November, Benjamin has turned into a clingy little moo every afternoon after his 3pm nap and I am generally just feeling a bit stressed about it all.

Then hubby has a go because I didn't smile when he came in this evening :rolleyes: we talked about the baby needing a bath so I said I would go in and went off to run it. When I shouted down (about 25 mins later) he said Benjamin was already in his bedclothes and that he didn't know I wanted him to go in the bath!!

bloody men :mad:

Buttonmoons

Nah I'd not change the locks, I probably instigated the whole thing, but yeah he shouldn't of hit me, and his punch is pathetic anyways, I kneed him in the goolies and he vomited so he got the worse end of it.

I would like him to go though, esp if all he can do is moan about how much my smoking costs, if he went I could work no problem cause then I'd get help towards childcare, I want to work, I want to feel like there is more to me than just "Keira's mum" I'd like a career, I want what he has got, a job that goes somewhere. He takes what I do at home for granted, just thinks I sit on my bum all day eating, smoking, drinking and watching TV. If only!

searching_me

Buttonmoons wrote: »

SM, It's a good point, but I really feel disgusting with myself, that's how my ED started, thought it would be a quick way to loose weight and now I can't stop, even though I know it's so so so bad for me.

3 years ago, I was happy, I had no issues at all, once my body ballooned and deflated like a bag, that was it. I didn't leave the house for 6months when I was at my biggest.

Surgery may not cure my ED but it would deffo help with me not feeling comfortable with myself, seeing a big saggy belly hanging down onto your vagina is repulsive to me, and I feel like everyone else can see it, so sees me in the same way. I only wear super baggy jeans and hoodies mostly, just so it covers everything up.

So in short, it will solve some of my problems!!

i understand i went from a size 24 to a size 8 and then back up to a 14 ... i suppose if you feel is right then hopefully you'll get it sorry if i upset you x

pinkpig08

(((Hugs))) Buttons. We sometimes have the 'well you go out to work all day then!' argument. Why do men seem to think that children just sit and coo/gurgle/play nicely all day? They think that they have it hardest because they are 'out' at work. At least they get lunch breaks and toilet breaks! Oh - and 4 weeks holiday a year!

Sami_Bee

Glam: centiles; if a child is on the 10th centile then 10% of children the same age are smaller than them and 90% are bigger - simples

Buttonmoons

No you didn't SM, thanks everyone for just bein there when I needed to vent. You are all so lovely.

skintchick

My moan tonight is summed up in my other thread - my bl00dy pram chassis won;t fit in my car and it seems that NO chassis will fit my boot even though I have a Fabia hatchback and not a particularly tiny boot!

Have to go to my mums for five days on Sat and no idea how to get everything up to her - can;t go without it cos Lilia will go crazy not being able to go out and about (as will I) but the only place it fits is the back seat and then I can;t sit next to her which I need to do cos she hates the car and it's a 2-hour journey!

:mad:

Why why why are pram chassis (what is the plural??) so big??