MSE Parents Club Part 7

Sami_Bee

oh MM you could get a diary that has one page per day, they usually have times down the side of the page so you could mark it easily on there..

searching_me

hmmmm not good bm have you tried saying what you think is wrong with him so he realises its not that easy even for mister perfect x

feelinggood_2

((buttons)) hope things work themselves out. Would asking for counselling affect the surgery? I thought you had to prove mental distress to get surgery, and needing counselling ties in to that?

I feel rotten. Got a UTI and a bit of bleeding and lots of abdominal pain. Really hot and dripping with sweat, but everyone else is cold. Seeing GP on Friday but might need to make an emergency app tomorrow.

elle_gee

*hugs* BM xx

Glamazon

MM - or you could use excel

Feed Length of Feed Amount Sick Nap

8.30am 30mins 200ml No 10am

The formatting will go to pot when I post this!!!!!

BM - big hugs hun! OH had a go at me for spending £3 on sponge puddings today! Bearing in mind I spent the amount I said I would £100 and got lots of extras that I hadn't budgeted for! He was told next time he could go himself - I went to ASDA on my own with a 4 week old baby, did a months worth of shopping, packed it, loaded it in the car, unloaded it and packed it away while he stayed home and did weights!!!!! I sent him out in the rain to put the frozen stuff in the big freezer!

The cheeky b00ger has just told Jack that 'Mummy is going to make him a drink and a bowl of fruit' :mad: !!!!!!? I did all that ^^^^^^^^^^^, did Jacks bottles, fed him twice, cooked a mini roast, cleaned up afterwards and have just sat down! Ah well, I'v given him Jack who's being a grump :rotfl:

Buttonmoons

Yep, I'll point out his if he mentions mine but he doesn't care that he's a lazy self centered ps3 obessed knob head.

searching_me

BM i hope this doesnt sound mean coz its really not meaning that way but will surgery really just solve the problem or is it just you think it will ....... coz it sounds like theres deeper issues that could be talked out ..... tell me to shut up if you like x

Buttonmoons

Yeah but I'm not sure if having an eating disorder would blacklist me off that, because it's not going to affect my apron in anyway? I don't really know Feelie. They probably wouldnt believe me because Im not 8stone anyways.

Glamazon

feelinggood wrote: »

Glam, I've updated it for you his gain looks even more impressive now! Toby might have a contender for centile jumping!

Is it sad that I don't even understand the centile thing yet?!

BM - even bigger hugs now I've seen your other post xxxxxx

Sami_Bee

Buttonmoons wrote: »

Counselling for what Sami? I probably need it for everything. I'm worried if I go to the doctors about it, they won't let me have that surgery, like it will be a black mark against it, it's being like this that caused it. It's all so messed up.

for you a good surgeon 'should' insist on you seeing a psych before any surgery but wheather that happens or not is another story.
I you really do want OH out then change the locks while he's out (although I'm not sure that's really what you want:undecided)