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MSE Pregnancy Club XVI

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  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Going to have a wee moan cos I'm upset :o
    Just off the phone to the hospital and the MW couldn't have been any less interested! CMW tells me every week if I have any concerns to phone Labour ward and the 1 time in nearly 42wks that I do I was completely fobbed off

    Definately had some water leakage last night cos it was bloody and there is nothing else it could have been.(Defo not show, not mucus at all it was just watery blood) Had 4 hrs of contractions every 5 mins but the didn't get any more frequent, also no more leaking after the initial half hour. Told all this to the MW on the phone as she was like, whatever, if the leaking has stopped it won't have been your waters???? !!!!!!????? So if its not waters, care to explain what the bleeding was? She goes thats quite normal. Just put a pad on and if it doesn't get wet, we'll see you on Thursday as planned.

    Everything I have ever read on leaking waters tells you to get checked out as increased risk of infection. Also have read that that either hind waters can go or baby's head can plug waters after they have ruptured so really expected to be checked out today.

    Am really upset cos I'm so tired too, and everyone I speak to IRL is like, its bad for baby to go more than 10-12 days over. I'm sick of having to explain there is nothing I can do if the hospital won't take me til Thursday :mad:
  • nickynoo08
    nickynoo08 Posts: 1,860 Forumite
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    Morning everyone not been around the last few days been really busy here so sorry if i've missed anything not had chance to catch up with all the goss yet. Did i get added to the list? I'd do it myself but i know i'd mess it up i'm terrible on a comptuer i can just about manage this:o
    If i've not been added can someone please stick me on the list my edd is 6th april. Thanks. 6 months left eekk.
    I'm absolutly shattered today. I totally gutted my upstairs yesterday. Got rid of 2 bags of rubbish and 3 bags of old clothes. I dont know how i fit it all in my wardrobe coz it doesnt look and emptier now:rotfl:
    Not been sleeping well lately either think i'm gonna have to get myself a body pillow anyone know of any good offers on them at the moment?
    Thankfully i've done all my jobs for today apart from washing which i'm about to go and do then i can chill for the day, actually forget that with a 3yr old its not likey to happen he's loopy this morning. I'll have to take him somewhere so he can use up all his energy;)
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  • always29
    always29 Posts: 477 Forumite
    aww, Csh, really do hope something happens for you today and you don't have to wait until Thursday - perhaps you could phone again and tell them how upset you are and you are worried about infection, maybe you'll get someone who has half a braincell.

    can I have a teensy (and compared to you csh, it's bearly justifiable) moan too -was off work yetserday and my maternity cover was sat at my desk and moved my photo of DP off the wall. I know they (ie boss and replacement) are counting down the days as much as me til I go but even so thought that was a tad rude.
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    chs - perhaps wait 30 minutes & phone back to try and speak to someone different? or if you're the pushy sort, ask for the supervisor. Everywhere you read DOES tell you phone is you think your waters have gone/there is blood so this MW is obviously lazy & doesn't give a toss. Don't let them bully you! Fingers crossed...

    Hope Squishy's doing okay and holding her baby now!!

    always - that is rude and I'd be peeved to. Hope you've put the photo back to make a point that you're not gone YET!
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  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    Always very rude! I've a picture of my dog in my office and someone tried to take it down, I found it in the drawer! I went a bit mental and no one would admit to it! Its your desk until you leave (and take your things) and no one should be touching your things IMO!
  • nikkit72
    nikkit72 Posts: 2,458 Forumite
    EDD 2009


    Squishy - 22nd September 2009:female:
    Csh - 24th September 2009 :male:
    madwoman85 - 10th October 2009
    papa-roo Dad2B- 15th October 2009
    Cheapskate - 16th October 2009
    vicstar - 17th October 2009
    Natasha8642 - 17th October 2009
    Damzel_In_Distress - 18th October 2009
    Fidget - 20th October 2009 :male:
    Jennynoo - 21st October 2009 :female:
    nancmat - 22nd October 2009 :female:
    Lizziebell*80 - 27th October 2009:female:
    Helen81- 28th October 2009 :male:
    LittleBit - 28th October 2009
    Karen1907 - 1st November 2009
    SarahOwen - 3rd November 2009
    Got it Spend it - 4th November 2009 :confused:
    Nefertare - 5th November 2009
    charliedavis - 11th November 2009
    fattybooboo - 11th November 2009 :male:
    pookie5488 - 11th November 2009 :confused:
    kitty_and_gucci_2008 - 12th November 2009
    boogellyboo - 14th November 2009 :female:
    Charlton Taz - 21st November 2009 :female:
    daisychain80 - 25th November 2009
    glitterycloud - 30th November 2009
    faye6174 - 30th November 2009 :male:
    Ender4 Dad2B - 1st December 2009
    tracyg - 2nd December 2009
    always29 - 4th December 2009 :male:
    Liza83 - 6th december 2009
    girlcurl - 7th December 2009
    katster - 10th December 2009
    raggydoll - 11th December 2009 :female:
    BeenieCat - 12th December 2009 :female:
    Gravitytolls - 12th December 2009
    WrigglesRJ - 15th December 2009
    lou66 - 15th December 2009 :confused:
    MSE Andrea - 17th December 2009
    newbie_maz - 18th December 2009 :female:
    Elastigirl - 19th December 2009 :male:
    Mazcabs - 19th December 2009
    Agscully - 22nd December 2009 :male:
    PrincessPlaty - 25th December 2009 :xmassmile
    aless02 - 26th December 2009
    flis21 - 26th December 2009
    Candycanes - 27th December 2009 :male:
    albionsarah - 29th December 2009
    Maybebaby80 - 30th December 2009
    meigle21 - 31st December 2009

    EDD 2010

    jha - 8th January 2010 :confused:
    louise99 - 17th January 2010
    brednall- 22nd January 2010 :confused:
    charliechin - 22nd January 2010
    xkymx - 26th January 2010
    GemmaE - 29th January 2010 :female:
    three2be - 31st January 2010 :male:
    novagirl - 31st January 2010 :male:
    Nozza76 - 1st February 2010
    Iheartfreebies - 2nd February 2010
    spikeysoul - 2nd February 2010
    Becster - 5th February 2010
    Kavinam - 12th February 2010
    spike2012 - 12th February 2010
    Sarah Joanne - 16th February 2010 :confused:
    Nikkit72 - 21st February 2010 :male:
    Somnium - 4th March 2010
    Evansangel - 7th March 2010
    kindofagilr - 8th March 2010
    gymfiend - 9th March 2010
    robbadak - 11th March 2010
    kennyjosiah(mrs) - 19th March 2010
    Nikabella - 21st March 2010
    creditwreck - 21st March 2010
    Kentmumof1 - 26th March 2010
    MoosMummy - 31st March 2010
    weezl74 - 1st April 2010
    Fishcake_random - 2nd April 2010
    Jopsey - 2nd April 2010
    Lilacbelle - 5th April 2010
    Nickynoo08 - 06th April 2010
    Mummy2mygirls - 8th April 2010
    Kelinik - 8th April 2010
    Redstararnie76 - 14th April 2010
    JoleneM - 15th April 2010
    gill_81uk - 6th May 2010
    Musogirl295 - 16th May 2010
    scotsgirl - 19th May 2010
    angchris - 20th May 2010
    MERFE - 21st May 2010
    portsmouthali - 21st May 2010
    MrsTradition - 31st May 2010
    Mrs Ihenetu- 1st June 2010
    yorkygal - 4th June 2010

    TTC LIST
    durham_girl, likabu, Pooky, miss_pink, Boobylou, jiblets1, Uisge10, CHARLIE54, Andrea78, Wondermum07, Melvis, Janec08, Helen79, Hayley11, Ruth.77, Filmstar, jmf76, Natalie6999, AnnieM, Leopardlady, smartie12, slhunte3

    BIRTH LIST
    :male: Glamazon - 3rd September 2009 at 8:17am, Jack Dylan 6lb 3oz
    :male: Workinmummy - 4th September 2009 at 05.10am, Alex, 6lb 3oz (c/s)
    :male: Xmaslolly76 - 7th September 2009 at 06:59am, Joseph (Joey), 8lb 11oz
    :female: lil miss 06 - 9th September 2009 at 6:13pm, Taija, 7lb 3oz
    :female: princesswoo - 10th September 2009 at 14:21, Lily, 7lb 4.5oz (c/s)
    :male: Jacksons mum - 10th September 2009 at 8:04pm, Ellis Paul 7lb 13oz
    :male: zgaze - 11th September 2009 at 11:11, Dylan James 8lb 6oz (emer c/s)
    :male: jillie1974 - 16th September 2009, 12:18 Kian Andrew 6lb 15oz (emer c/s)
    :female: JAM1376 - 16th September 2009 at 19:12, Charlotte Alice, 7lb 3oz
    :male: Bear family - 17th September 2009 at 8:27am, Nathaniel David, 6lb 13oz
    :female: Fitzio - 19th September 2009 at 21:24, Holly Olivia, 8lb 7oz
    :female: mountainlioness - 20th September 2009 at 12:35pm, Elsa Kay, 7lb 3oz
    :male: Nicki - 24th September 2009 at 10:50am, Edward George, 8lb 11oz
    :female: Europa - 26th September 2009 at 4:51pm, Marcie Elizabeth, 7lb 6oz
    :female: Harley1 - 29th September 2009 at 5.54am, Kezia Iris Mae , 7lb 11oz

    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...

    midgetjem84 - 9th September 2009
    Rose123 - 9th September 2009
    Kate1 - 12th September 2009
    Charlie23 - 12th September 2009
    happytum - 22nd September 2009 (inactive)
    Stick2000 - 25th September 2009 (inactive)

    Please post your birth stories here when you have time/energy!
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  • lou66_2
    lou66_2 Posts: 556 Forumite
    Hugs to you csh, I would try phoning again and hopefully someone else may answer. If not cant you just turn up there !!! Always hug to you as well, how much longer have you got, thats really mean. My boss does not want me to leave but his nurse cant wait because she thinks she will then be in charge. Bennie i have a second hand pump and am planning on using it. Really fed up oh is off work today due to the rain which means he wont get paid and we are going to have to go inton our savings for bumper. Also It seems that bumper is right under my broken rib and is wiggling about causing me to be in quite a bit of pain. Hugs to everyone else
    Darling son born 10/12/09 hopefully the 1st of many :j
  • nikkit72
    nikkit72 Posts: 2,458 Forumite
    nickynoo08 wrote: »
    If i've not been added can someone please stick me on the list my edd is 6th april. Thanks. 6 months left eekk.
    y;)

    all done nickynoo ,
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  • karen1907
    karen1907 Posts: 486 Forumite
    edited 6 October 2009 at 10:49AM
    Always - definitely rude!

    CSH - maybe try calling the delivery suite at the hospital. They are always telling you to get in touch when something happens, you just want to be reassured or told to go to hospital (don't know if you were meant to be having a HB) to be checked out. Its the least they can do especially as they know you are overdue.

    OMG I'm 15th on the list now!!! Arrrrrggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    I can't believe there are June dates on the EDD too. Where has the time gone???
    Tegan Lily arrived 4 November 2009 (3 days late)

    Floyd Peter arrived 9th July 2011 (1 day early) :D
  • nikkit72
    nikkit72 Posts: 2,458 Forumite
    CSH : i would phone back and try to talk to someone else, or another idea , just turn up at the ward and say i you are really worried , maybe lie a bit and say you haven't felt bubs move as much that way I'm sure they would get you in ,
    My 2 nd son i had the hind waters go 5 days before he was born and he was 9 days late , and because of this had to stay in hospital 7 days as he was on antibiotics , as yes you guessed it he had a infection due to them not taking me in at that time HTH,
    hope you get it sorted asap CSH , can you not get in to see your GP who may then speak to the ward and tell you to go straight in ,

    oh sorry som : good luck with the scan
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