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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

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  • yellowmonkey
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    edited 10 November 2009 at 11:44AM
    Thanks Jo

    "One day at a time" ;)

    Wont post that dodgy song link this time though :o


    or perhaps I will ;):D
  • honeybear wrote: »
    72hrs & counting:

    Me! :cool:
    Shaggy
    Jo
    Marru
    PIR
    Dreamonsu
    69chick

    :T


    Skids in

    me too and i did last night as well - so add me to the list - skids out - so much to do to catch up

    So many drunk folks at teh gig last night (and not only drunk - but it was a gig i guess!)

    Glasgow girl 9 for me please!

    Waves to all will catch up later!xx
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  • I won't be drinking today.
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  • mollypolly
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    Thanks Jo

    "One day at a time" ;)

    Wont post that dodgy song link this time though :o


    or perhaps I will ;):D


    LOL....I thought you meant dodgy:rolleyes::D

    10 for me please GG.

    I have just finished the Marian Keyes book 'This Charming Man'.I thought the feelings and thoughts of the alcoholic were spot on.......I had forgotton alot of those and it brought them all back(arguements with self etc).......made me take another look at myself and realize I mustn't get complacent......it would be so easy to go back to that dark place again......very scary.

    I hope you are all where you want to be today.
    Take care of you
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
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  • ......it would be so easy to go back to that dark place again.....
    It only takes one drink.


    Remembering that alcoholism is an incurable, progressive, fatal disease.


    Living Sober Chapter #4.
    Living Sober.

    Some methods A.A. members have used for not drinking.

    "A simple book for complicated people"
  • yellowmonkey
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    edited 10 November 2009 at 4:09PM
    I won't be drinking today.

    Hi...Long time no hear. Well done on the not drinking today :T Hope things are well

    I was on my way to do the shopping yesterday when the bells started to ring before I was even there. My stomach was doing somersaults and I had butterflies when I thought to myself " My god what a silly situation to be in feeling like this when I am only going to get some beans " all because they sell beer there :rolleyes: I then came to the conclusion that I was not going to let this beat me and spoil my life and "I was in charge of me" not some stupid liquid.

    And that is where I am today. Strong and resolute and not drinking Today :D

    Talking of beans if you go to Mr T watch out. I had to buy 4 tins

    34p a tin or a pack of 4 for £1.64....:eek: Caught me out last week ;)

    take care
  • gien
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    edited 11 November 2009 at 1:29PM
    Good Effort

    Day at a time works for me (and many others) - that's why I never give a monthly target. All I can do is wake up and say to myself "I won't pick up a drink today" - and that's what I have done for the last 2+ years. However, I don't know about next week (I could be drinking) but for today at least, there is nothing that will make me pour alcohol down my throat.

    24hrs is manageable for me - the thought of not drinking for a month/year/lifetime is too difficult to get my head round. But today I don't miss alcohol. I'll deal with tomorrow when tomorrow comes

    these are wise words and I think that must be the route I take. the idea of never drinking again is, at the moment, appalling, but one day I can do. Especially if I look to the next day and what I have to get done, I can't have alcohol messing that up.

    So I haven't drunk so far today and I won't have a drink before I go to bed
    Trying to keep in budget.

    2270
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    edited 10 November 2009 at 7:00PM
    I won't be drinking tonight either :)

    When I get fed up I think OK - well normally I drank everyday - did it like many for 10 years or so - now I think I have to be canny - cos drinking everyday would be really easy to slip back into for me............this year has taught me that. I have a few drinks with chums etc and then when home I end up drinking again.

    Was wierd last night, at a gig especially having DS there, I don't normally drink now when I am out and barely at all when kids are about- the last gig I went to, three years ago we all got pretty drunk at the gig - and even now I regret it - was one of those embarrassing nights where you think Oh god.................there were alot of folk there drinking.............the hall when they finished was a sea of plastic beer cups.......................

    Now just thinking how awesome the band was!

    Full of grub - hope everyone is OK remember the HALT thingmy - glad folks keep mentioning it.
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Hi all :wave:

    Would like a glass of wine tonight but would not want to go out in the cold & wet to buy any :rolleyes:
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  • honeybear wrote: »
    Hi all :wave:

    Would like a glass of wine tonight but would not want to go out in the cold & wet to buy any :rolleyes:

    Don't get wet outside - stay in and have a nice cuppa and keep cosy!

    I'm off for a shower - :) Speaking of getting wet :D
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
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